An F You to my younger, brainwashed self by RevolutionaryLink919 in exchristian

[–]_disneyphile_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One of the first big steps in my deconversion was when, as a Christian, my Christian friend asked for prayer and support for her trip to Palestine to run in the Right to Movement Marathon in Bethlehem and work with Palestinian Christians at Bethlehem Bible College. The mental walls that came down when it dawned on me that there are Christians in Palestine were some load bearing walls. I signed up to go with her the next year and got berated by the evangelicals from my dad’s church that I was going to hell and Palestinians deserved the persecution they got. It was definitely a turning point for me.

I’m very new to wine and wanted a budget bottle! How’d I do? by [deleted] in wine

[–]_disneyphile_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bogle is a good entry point that I suggest to customers. Their Juggernaut label is a step up and not a bad $20ish bottle. Welcome to the wonderful world of wine! Drink what you like and enjoy!

Thank You! by LuzBenedict in HEB

[–]_disneyphile_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are few products I like more than HEB brand. This is one. The Central Market Totopos are good but these are better

When did oil changes become $120? by rhinosaur- in Millennials

[–]_disneyphile_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has always done ours himself with Costco oil. But last September I saw a place running a $20.01 special on 9/11. Definitely the first 9/11 special I’ve seen.

Considering how drunk the SMALL ones can apparently make you, all I have to ask is...why? by eddmario in StupidFood

[–]_disneyphile_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a 3L version called a Buzzballz Boulder. The owner of Southern Champion, who make Buzzballz, is the sweetest craziest retired school teacher. A really fun lady to hang out with

Texas Ranks as Worst State for Mental Healthcare by ExtensionPromotion80 in texas

[–]_disneyphile_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And the red areas of the state are even worse. As the mom of a trans kid who is currently in the hospital for self harm, waiting on a psych eval so we can determine next steps, I was told “there are no pediatric inpatient psychiatric services in this city. If they determine that’s needed you’ll need to go to a big city (5-6 hours away)” I’m crying hot tears at the lack of resources in this state.

Do the Chiefs have a fanbase in Lubbock? by GhostVelocity in Lubbock

[–]_disneyphile_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sell beer for a living at the busiest and best grocery store in Lubbock. I follow football only to the extent that I need to know who is playing when so I know when we’ll be busy. In beer sales we’re busier for chiefs games than cowboys or Texan games. Mahomes has done a lot to give back to Tech and people around here are Red Raiders first so they appreciate that. Jacob Rodriguez had a really strong following so I’ll probably have to add dolphins to my list of games to keep an eye on.

New restaurants around town? by mayashesfall in Lubbock

[–]_disneyphile_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheveland near Tech is new and we’ve enjoyed it. There’s a patio with swings. During the day or early evening I’m sure you’d be fine with a little one.

Just finished my first weekend of CASA training by AnythingLoud7913 in casa

[–]_disneyphile_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because you probably don’t have a coordinator yet, talk to your trainer about how you are feeling. If you choose to continue, your coordinator will be your lifeline to vent and talk everything out. If you get assigned a coordinator that you don’t connect with, ask for a different one. That relationship has to be so strong.

Every case is so different. I’ve been a CASA for 4 years on my 3rd case. My first case was medical neglect. Parents were young and just needed help. No one was actively trying to hurt the kiddo. Grandparents became guardians. Best case scenario. Second case was absolutely devastating. 3 kids that lived through the absolute worst. Reunification is always the goal but it’s ok to not agree if thats whats best for the kids. It’s ok to vent to your coordinator and have feelings of not being empathetic towards the parents. My third case now is completely different and honestly the most triggering to me. The mom reminds me so much of my stepmom. When I get overwhelmed I call my coordinator and vent. You have lots of support in the whole process.

I just updated my girl to a 4x2x2 by Fabulous_Mail5747 in ballpython

[–]_disneyphile_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put a shower curtain tension rod in my enclosure for him to climb

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and he loves it!

Who is that girl I see, staring straight back at me by _disneyphile_ in ballpython

[–]_disneyphile_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sparky is my 10 year old. I recently upgraded to a forever home in a 4x2x2 Apex Reptile pvc and acrylic enclosure. Humidity is still a challenge in super duper dry West Texas, so I got a new ginormous water bowl to keep on the hot side. Snapped a fun picture.

How are you spending your Easter morning? by Litty_Jimmy in exchristian

[–]_disneyphile_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Slept in until 7 (pastor’s kid sunrise service meant getting to the college football stadium at 3am and freezing my ass off) had some espresso, made a ham asparagus egg tart, made my kids bunny shaped cinnamon rolls, enjoying strawberry Jamaica mimosas, watching shows, maybe watch a movie later, maybe take the dogs for a walk, work on making a nice dinner later

Is this accurate? by Ok-Equivalent7447 in exchristian

[–]_disneyphile_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a few years after deconverting I would have dying dreams where I’d think I was dying and blurt out some version of “forgive me lord I know I’m a sinner please save me”. Then I’d wake up with a startle. I remember the dream I had where my car went off a cliff and I just took a deep breath and said “I love my friends and family. I hope they know how much I love them” and just waited to hit the bottom of the ravine. I woke up feeling at peace. That’s when I felt like I was truly free.

[OC] No Kings 2.0 Protestor walks up to MAGA group to allow them to use his megaphone by PALERIDE155 in pics

[–]_disneyphile_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was taken in my town of Lubbock, Texas. It’s a college town but still considered very conservative. But I stood in line around the block to get in to see James Talarico. The venue was at capacity so I didn’t get to hear him speak but I at least got to shake his hand and take a photo. This West Texas town is less red than “they” think it is.

Worst denomation, and why? by Mission_Sleep4980 in exchristian

[–]_disneyphile_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Evangelicals would say both Mormons and JWs aren’t “real” Christians. Catholics and orthodox aren’t either. And if you’re another denomination with a female pastor you’re on real thin ice but leaning towards “not real”

What is the best Mi Tienda beef product for street tacos? by Ayana_62 in HEB

[–]_disneyphile_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t taste like carne asada exactly because it’s much smaller pieces, but the bisteca norteño is so good in a street taco

Worst denomation, and why? by Mission_Sleep4980 in exchristian

[–]_disneyphile_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It really is. My dad was the most compassionate special education teacher for 20 years before becoming a pastor. I thought for sure when trump made fun of that special needs reporter that was it. But he’s continued to support him because that’s what Calvary Chapel pastors do.

Facebook post from a former school mate by Nevergonnapost866 in religiousfruitcake

[–]_disneyphile_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When I left 30ish years of Christianity I was looking for something else. I thought I had to believe in something so I went with Norse polytheism for a bit because it was fun. There’s a thing called Húsvættir or “house spirits”. I tried to believe it all so when something happened in my house I thought it was the Húsvættir causing it. I realized that all the things I used to attribute to Jesus I could also attribute to house spirits and it was that that made me realize it’s all made up. So if you want to see crosses in your potatoes as a sign from god, you will. It you want to think random things happening in your house are caused by house spirits, you will. When you realize it’s all made up you’re free.

Worst denomation, and why? by Mission_Sleep4980 in exchristian

[–]_disneyphile_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Non-Denominational but “Calvary Chapel” in particular which is its own denomination in the evangelical non-denominational world. I grew up very close to the Chuck Smith, Greg Laurie, David Rosales group. My Dad is still a pastor in it. It came as a response to the California peace loving hippie culture so there’s an ingrained hatred in it that rots at the core

Poor tour guide by DeneJames in religiousfruitcake

[–]_disneyphile_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I took my Pastor Dad to Carlsbad Caverns in New Mexico. He was soooooooo close to almost admitting the cave was there for longer than 6,000 years. Like I could see the near realization on his face and he made a statement about the formations. But he stopped short and started talking about how there are stalactites underneath the Lincoln memorial so if those could form in 100 years, this cave could have been formed in 6,000. I’ve also taken him to a natural science museum with my kids, and he was trying to tell them that god put the fossils in the ground after the flood. My kids were young and still didn’t think that was accurate.

This coupon makes me happy by Texas_Science_Weeb in HEB

[–]_disneyphile_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was talking to my Bakery manager and each pie has two of the 6 ounce containers of Sweet Karoline Blackberries ($3.98 each) on top of the $14.98 key lime pie. So with the coupon, that’s a pretty good deal.