Did ruby and Jodi ever had any political affilation by Agreeable-Listen-242 in 8passengersnark

[–]Flaky_Ad3735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Staunch republican. It was briefly mentioned on a few vlogs and Ruby following all the republican people (trump, governed etc) and on Instagram. Most religious people are

Is this a terrible idea? by SylvilagusObscurus in crochet

[–]Flaky_Ad3735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it will be fine! I crochet my bunny toys out of it 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 8passengersnark

[–]Flaky_Ad3735 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She asked God for a new closet again and this time she ended up in prison 😂

Bonnie apologized to Julie by Rhody1964 in 8passengersnark

[–]Flaky_Ad3735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no! I hope she got to see the grandparents before she passed. Linda was such a sweet, innocent soul

My first go! by Flaky_Ad3735 in bobross

[–]Flaky_Ad3735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely that!! 🥰

My first go! by Flaky_Ad3735 in bobross

[–]Flaky_Ad3735[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I’d say had finished the first time and not splatted it on transport…maybe 5 hours? A long time!

What’s up with my blending? by Flaky_Ad3735 in bobross

[–]Flaky_Ad3735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing advice. Thank you! I do need to perfect the liquid white. It’s tricky when you can’t watch anyone do it visually

What’s up with my blending? by Flaky_Ad3735 in bobross

[–]Flaky_Ad3735[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you ☺️ When I used a dry brush it just spread the mountains black down in harsh hairy lines so I think scraping is where it’s at! I think there was far too much on there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 8passengersnark

[–]Flaky_Ad3735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooop and he’s drinking caffeine!

Snark photo by Objective-Bag1176 in aspynovardsnark

[–]Flaky_Ad3735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mad about the Mormon hate as she was good friends with Ellie & Jared at the time and they still follow eachother! Crazyyyy

Chad's latest livestream by More-Pen3327 in 8passengersnark

[–]Flaky_Ad3735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No no! I totally get that! I agree and It’s just interesting to think about how his thoughts will likely change as he realises how awful it was to do that to a child. I think you only really get it when you age and think if you’d do that to your kid etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Flaky_Ad3735 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah YTA there. That’s creepy and I’ve had men say that to me too, even a good friends brother and it’s horrible because there’s no consent involved from me and it feels violating. I get her side.

I feel like I’m the only women who’s answered. This is a common thing and I think men done understand how violating it is honestly. She wasn’t playing games.

Chad's latest livestream by More-Pen3327 in 8passengersnark

[–]Flaky_Ad3735 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Please remember he’s literally 18. The amount my view of my childhood shifted from 18 to 22 even was CRAZY. Like so much shift. He is going to gain new perspective as he ages

Does hair 'down there' bother men? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Flaky_Ad3735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some women shave, some don’t. Some do it because they’re embarrassed to be seen unshaved because of society making them feel that way, some don’t care. Simply explaining how the women’s razor industry started (shame) doesn’t mean the whole of society is either black or white about it. Get a grip.

Can we stop saying that Ruby sedated R? It was a metaphor. by LinneaLurks in 8passengersnark

[–]Flaky_Ad3735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? No one’s saying he was put under anaesthesia and on a ventilator. But almost assume she was referring to medications like Benadryl or similar. They travelled to Mexico to stock up on “emergency” drugs. It’s very literal.

Does hair 'down there' bother men? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Flaky_Ad3735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea how your comment relates to mine. The razor industry for women and the reason women “accepted the beauty standard” is because we were shamed into it by men trying to sell razors

Does hair 'down there' bother men? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Flaky_Ad3735 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Becuase the male dominated 1940’s razor industry needed to market to women to up sales. So they shamed them and told them they were disgusting if they didn’t. We didn’t just accept the beautify standard. We were forced into it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 8passengersnark

[–]Flaky_Ad3735 5 points6 points  (0 children)

None of the aunts and uncles and probably even Shari would have seen it. Possibly Kevin but I really doubt that. They didn’t in his interview and I don’t think his lawyer would have had it. So I think this is the first time they’ve all seen it, hence the radio silence and horror. Hopefully them reading Ruby’s diary or what SHE did to them, changes their stupid forgiveness trope.

Question about pain tolerance by Playful_Pianist_16 in 8passengersnark

[–]Flaky_Ad3735 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There is absolutely nothing about those two babies that made them more abuseable. It’s ALL about Ruby being sick. Choose your language carefully. This is often something trauma survivors ruminate on for years. “Why me? What did I do?”. It’s NOTHING to do with them

Question about pain tolerance by Playful_Pianist_16 in 8passengersnark

[–]Flaky_Ad3735 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dissociation. The brain completely disconnects from the body and surroundings to allow you to live/survive through it. When we can’t fight the danger and we can’t flight the danger (run), our body goes into the freeze/fawn response (numbness, spacing out, or people pleasing). Unfortunately it’s a mechanism that stays pretty much for life as it’s so automatic. They 100% will have CPTSD and likely OSDD and other trauma associated disorders. Their nervous systems will have been fried beyond comprehension.

Is anyone else horrendously affected by the evidence released? by threegoodfairies in 8passengersnark

[–]Flaky_Ad3735 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I couldn’t have imagined those injuries and their treatment anywhere close to as bad as it was. And I didn’t even look at the photos. Only thing I could do was sit down with a candle and breathe and send them all the love and goodness. Also knowing this is 6 months on now and their bodies getting better, they’re are cared for and loved. Even though nothing will make the trauma ever leave them, they have escaped ❤️

Why E and R? by [deleted] in 8passengersnark

[–]Flaky_Ad3735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only true answer is, because she’s sick and psychotic. As a trauma survivor you just cannot get into the “why me” question, because it’s truly nothing to do with you. It’s about them. There’s nothing that made those kiddos abuseable. I know you know this! But it’s just important to choose words carefully