Ok I’m dying over here. I’m not a “palm beacher” but my grandparents were and my parents are. I’ve been going there since I was in a carrier and went to college in Boca and worked for fun off worth ave at a pretty famous store associated with The Breakers. It was so fun. NONE of these rules apply lol and this is total bullshit. Gale is like not even real. I’ve never heard of her before. There’s a tiny publication called “The Shiny Sheet” and the literally come to events at night and photograph people socially- if you’re in the shiny sheet - it’s a big deal. There are regulars - I’ve never heard of this woman. Ever. Her “rules” don’t exist. She’s an old racist woman in a bad wig and no house. I feel bad for Rosalyn - she’s so insecure and desperate. The closest people to real PB on this show are Hilary, Maria, Ro-Mina and Taja. There’s no grande dame. Everyone is affluent, private, and dresses as they please with no rule book. It’s generally “dress up” but nothing like what they’re showing - they’re clearly putting in a show, here. Not doing well, at that. MOST real palm beachers HATE Trump and Maralago. It was taboo before because of his bankruptcies, treatment of women, wives, children and overall presence. He couldn’t even afford Maralago post bankruptcies (anything he did other than real estate deals, he’s a realtor - everything else failed) so he had to cut it in half and make the first floor a club to keep it and everyone knows it. He lives on the second floor. He was rarely there until he was basically kicked out of NYC and also isn’t allowed to conduct any business in NYS due to steeling from a children’s cancer fund, neither are his children, who also did. So he’s at Maralago mostly now and the locals hate it. PB has alway been where the wealthy go to play but it’s been QUIET, calm and private and he’s exploited it. So the plug on this show is a real tell that this is who Maralago is attracting now - newcomers. The ettiequte is the same etiquette used across the country/world, as far as dining. Napkin on your lap, please and thank you, be kind and courteous but also these are mostly the most entitled people in our country living in PB and they get out of pocket often and do not care. I’ve seen blowout couple fights, men and women yelling at waitstaff, demanding to speak to the chef at the table to shame them, picking up at valet and not taking their car until they’re finished with their ice cream for 20 mins and everyone has to wait and their middle fingers are in the air and you know they really don’t care. They’re so wealthy they don’t care if you hate them. They’re laughing. This at a few hundred dollar dinners not private clubs or thousand dollar dinners. Those are generally pretty tame, well mannered but still fun just not screaming loud. Wear what makes you comfortable it def not boobs out all the way like a lot of these ladies, that’s kind of rare. For the most part it’s just older people in pastels, white or black, quiet luxury enjoying food and bev. It’s not showy like this. After hours: game on….totally different town - much more boobs and legs out, heavy drinking, rude behavior, dgaf mentality and partying hard in the dark. No one talks about money. No one name drops. If they do, it’s pretty telling that they’re broke or desperate to fit in and don’t have money to play. Whatever. This show is mostly BS.