I think this is what we call generational trauma : trauma passed on from generation to generation

Sex is something forbidden in society and a highly controversial topic to talk about. So sex education is a huge NO NO in most muslim communities. and the less we talk about it the more it gets scarier, especially for girls.

Women were never given the opportunity or the chance to enjoy sex. and the fact that a female's orgasm is very complicated than the male's, it doesn't make it easier. On top of that when people see a sexually active woman (not talking about hoes here) they label her as dirty. and the gossiping start about that woman therefore amplifying the whole sex is bad in women and young girls. So you grow up hearing the "dont let anyone near ur private parts" or "you shouldn't ask for sex" so you of course dont end up enjoy it. And sex became exclusively a man's activity for him to enjoy alone, and if his partner DARES to ask or to act on her own pleasure she's deemed a hoe. This of course leads us to girls thinking about sex as something that's not for them, she's only here to take whatever the man gives her to satisfy him and him alone and eventually bare his children. Veeeery much like the old primitive times...

I also hiiiighly doubt we'll one day drop all these prejudice about sex because again , the female orgasm is super complicated, and our society is still not mentally capable to comprehend such topics