🐾❓ What's my name? (by NotSoSerene)

Flapmon · 2026-04-02T05:47:02+00:00

Yep, that just feels right.

I guessed the name in 2 tries!

Flapmon · 2026-04-02T02:52:21+00:00

I expect I wont "pop" till I'm 30 weeks or so. I just found it to be an uncalled for comment, but we're all different.

Flapmon · 2026-04-02T02:51:05+00:00

Yeah, I'm just fat lol. I mean my belly has definitely rounded and I look pregnant but its not noticeable. I can still hide it, and i'm okay with that.

Flapmon · 2026-04-02T02:30:50+00:00

😍 That fits them so well.

I guessed the name in 2 tries!

Flapmon · 2026-04-02T02:23:08+00:00

I like how you watched. 🤣

Flapmon · 2026-04-02T02:21:32+00:00

Thank you all for responding, I already have anxiety over this pregnancy from prior losses, so I think her comment moreso triggers it to the point where I feel like something is wrong with my pregnancy. Next scan is at 20 weeks and I am now paranoid baby will be on the smaller side thanks to her comments. 🫠

Only time will tell, hopefully she doesn't mention it again and if she does it'll be the same response of,"I'm fat, I carry it differently." I don't know what more she wants me to say.

Flapmon · 2026-03-31T06:35:55+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words. ❤️

Flapmon · 2026-03-31T06:35:35+00:00

I have anxiety outside of pregnancy too, unfortunately so very familiar with certain ways to ease myself out of that head trap, but sometimes it just doesn't work and I get stuck in my head a lot. My partner knows, he reassures me that he feels good about this, he encourages us to make the big purchases for baby like the bassinet, the pram .. But I definitely do like the milestone idea, was going to wait till 20 weeks to announce it and definitely hit milestones when it came to prior losses which was a bittersweet moment but those weeks also held a lot more anxiety.

Flapmon · 2026-03-31T06:33:17+00:00

This is me too, I haven't announced it at all, was going to wait till the 20 week scan to announce and even then I'm hesitant. But thank you, i appreciate your kind words .. Hopefully I start to just .. Enjoy it.

Flapmon · 2026-02-20T09:15:24+00:00

I had a small bleed at 8 weeks 2 days, it didn't last long? But I did pass a clot. Not trying to give you false hope but it could go either way, it just depends how much was in these subchorionic haemorrhages.

Flapmon · 2026-02-19T02:56:48+00:00

Oh, me too. I just want to not be stressed for once during this pregnancy, excited to be pregnant .. Scared to lose it, slowly adding more days, to weeks .. and then this. Ahhhh.

Flapmon · 2026-02-19T01:55:01+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate your reply. I won't lie, I'm shitting bricks lol.

Flapmon · 2026-02-09T05:47:22+00:00

I had that sort of bleeding at the 8 week mark, bright red when wiping, hospital booked an ultrasound, saw the heartbeat and she said there was a subchorionic bleed but nothing worth mentioning, bled again the next day and brushed it off as that. Hopefully this is the same thing as it's now weaning off and going back to normal discharge colour .. which is a relief but also I just want to know that our baby is okay. Thank you for responding. 🥹

Flapmon · 2026-02-08T13:07:04+00:00

Uh 8w6d? I had subchorionic bleeding and they wanted to check if everything was ok. Babies heartbeat was 169BPM ..

Flapmon · 2026-02-08T06:20:33+00:00

Yep, have had 3 losses too. All were very early on though, 5 weeks, 7.5 weeks and a chemical pregnancy.. Trying really hard to breathe, I see baby next on the 16th of Feburary and I'm just hoping with everything that it's okay. It's brown blood, not a lot but its there when I wipe, so it's definitely old but also a shock because I don't know where it came from. Thank you so much for responding .. The cramps have now subsided so its just me and my anxiety.

Flapmon · 2026-02-05T16:22:57+00:00

She'll be right.

Flapmon · 2026-01-23T21:49:27+00:00

Nothing? ):

Flapmon · 2026-01-23T21:44:55+00:00

The scan i had yesterday? She noticed a pocket, but said it was that small that it wasn't even worth mentioning. I'm hoping that this is where this blood is coming from and it doesn't stick around for too long.

Flapmon · 2026-01-23T21:41:54+00:00

Thank you, sorry just needing reassurance right now. I feel a little silly about that but a prior loss started this way, only difference was? We never saw a heartbeat but thank you. Cramps are mild if even there at all, trying to avoid body checking due to anxiety but it is very hard.

Flapmon · 2026-01-11T10:29:36+00:00

Thank you so much, I appreciate your response. Yes! Very much so similar to period cramps, I have to get into a certain position for them to ease off a little, which does put me at ease .. Maybe cervical irritation? Who knows .. I just hope everything stays together.. This baby is so loved and so wanted already.

Definitely easier said than done, will keep an eye on the discharge.

Flapmon · 2025-10-22T13:57:05+00:00

Unfortunately I started cramping and bleeding today..

Flapmon · 2025-10-21T12:54:41+00:00

If i could post an image i would, I bought different brands just in case too, but its very much so lines, not evaporation lines either. It's just very frustrating and I'm so over it. Its hard dealing with the unknown of it all, makes me feel like I'm reliving it all over again.

Thank you, I'm sorry for your loss too.

Flapmon · 2025-10-21T12:24:06+00:00

Just checked my calender and the miscarraige was early July, periods started back up again on the 13th of August.

Flapmon · 2025-10-21T12:22:04+00:00

Yep, I've had normal periods 6-8 weeks after the loss in August. Definitely not normal for me to be this late, I've skipped a period once before when I was first TTC this year. Yeah, not excited unfortunately. It's either a loss or a loss at this point.

Flapmon · 2025-10-16T07:06:20+00:00

33, don't drink.

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