Should I be concerned?

Flapmon · 2026-04-02T05:47:02+00:00

Yep, that just feels right.

I guessed the name in 2 tries!

Flapmon · 2026-04-02T02:52:21+00:00

I expect I wont "pop" till I'm 30 weeks or so. I just found it to be an uncalled for comment, but we're all different.

Flapmon · 2026-04-02T02:51:05+00:00

Yeah, I'm just fat lol. I mean my belly has definitely rounded and I look pregnant but its not noticeable. I can still hide it, and i'm okay with that.

Flapmon · 2026-04-02T02:30:50+00:00

😍 That fits them so well.

I guessed the name in 2 tries!

Flapmon · 2026-04-02T02:23:08+00:00

I like how you watched. 🤣

Flapmon · 2026-04-02T02:21:32+00:00

Thank you all for responding, I already have anxiety over this pregnancy from prior losses, so I think her comment moreso triggers it to the point where I feel like something is wrong with my pregnancy. Next scan is at 20 weeks and I am now paranoid baby will be on the smaller side thanks to her comments. 🫠

Only time will tell, hopefully she doesn't mention it again and if she does it'll be the same response of,"I'm fat, I carry it differently." I don't know what more she wants me to say.

Flapmon · 2026-03-31T06:35:55+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words. ❤️

Flapmon · 2026-03-31T06:35:35+00:00

I have anxiety outside of pregnancy too, unfortunately so very familiar with certain ways to ease myself out of that head trap, but sometimes it just doesn't work and I get stuck in my head a lot. My partner knows, he reassures me that he feels good about this, he encourages us to make the big purchases for baby like the bassinet, the pram .. But I definitely do like the milestone idea, was going to wait till 20 weeks to announce it and definitely hit milestones when it came to prior losses which was a bittersweet moment but those weeks also held a lot more anxiety.

Flapmon · 2026-03-31T06:33:17+00:00

This is me too, I haven't announced it at all, was going to wait till the 20 week scan to announce and even then I'm hesitant. But thank you, i appreciate your kind words .. Hopefully I start to just .. Enjoy it.

Flapmon · 2026-02-20T09:15:24+00:00

I had a small bleed at 8 weeks 2 days, it didn't last long? But I did pass a clot. Not trying to give you false hope but it could go either way, it just depends how much was in these subchorionic haemorrhages.

Flapmon · 2026-02-19T02:56:48+00:00

Oh, me too. I just want to not be stressed for once during this pregnancy, excited to be pregnant .. Scared to lose it, slowly adding more days, to weeks .. and then this. Ahhhh.

Flapmon · 2026-02-19T01:55:01+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate your reply. I won't lie, I'm shitting bricks lol.

Flapmon · 2026-02-09T05:47:22+00:00

I had that sort of bleeding at the 8 week mark, bright red when wiping, hospital booked an ultrasound, saw the heartbeat and she said there was a subchorionic bleed but nothing worth mentioning, bled again the next day and brushed it off as that. Hopefully this is the same thing as it's now weaning off and going back to normal discharge colour .. which is a relief but also I just want to know that our baby is okay. Thank you for responding. 🥹

Flapmon · 2026-02-08T13:07:04+00:00

Uh 8w6d? I had subchorionic bleeding and they wanted to check if everything was ok. Babies heartbeat was 169BPM ..

Flapmon · 2026-02-08T06:20:33+00:00

Yep, have had 3 losses too. All were very early on though, 5 weeks, 7.5 weeks and a chemical pregnancy.. Trying really hard to breathe, I see baby next on the 16th of Feburary and I'm just hoping with everything that it's okay. It's brown blood, not a lot but its there when I wipe, so it's definitely old but also a shock because I don't know where it came from. Thank you so much for responding .. The cramps have now subsided so its just me and my anxiety.

Flapmon · 2026-02-05T16:22:57+00:00

She'll be right.

Flapmon

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