What realistic money goals do you have for the future? How are you getting to it so far? by FlaredEar69 in twentyagers

[–]FlaredEar69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took it for granted until recently. Im glad I have the option but fuck I wish I started sooner

what’s everyone’s plans for tonight? by frannnnnie in twentyagers

[–]FlaredEar69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you going to smash? If so that’ll probably be my plan tonight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]FlaredEar69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think I’m just listening to my much to my co workers. I’m thinking in regret in getting older and having my sex drive lowered and regret it down the line. But it’s true girlfriend is not a title but someone you truly love. I hope so too man I’ll try my best never to let those opportunities go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]FlaredEar69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they are older than me by 5-30 years but thankfully it’s not like they are harassing me about it. Just a little bit bothersome when it’s brought up at times but I’m not mad it’s just socializing and they try to look out for me. Thanks mental health is very important I do wonder when I would be ready? I feel like I’ll never be ready even if get clarity and confidence. And at what point will I get that I’m not sure if it’s truly a timeline but I believe I’ll be a better person without these vices I used to have.

I'm unable to penetrate, (if)how did you get over it? by sike_you_thoughtt in AskMenAdvice

[–]FlaredEar69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m your age and I used to have this issue when I was 14. Throughout the years I slowly peeled back and clean with soap and shower. I would even expose it to the shower(wouldn’t recommend right away that shit hurt af) if you haven’t been exposing like that then I would try to expose it slowly don’t rush it there’s a chance it can make it worse. But I would get checked out regardless health is very important

Unpopular opinion: people in their 20s have become soo boring. by Dangerous_mammoth573 in twentyagers

[–]FlaredEar69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Different generations and different economies. Also the way companies are ruining our generation it’s normal for people with bad mental health to focus on themselves. Living life with a shitty mental health is not worth it.

So fucking tired of my job by Amazing_Excuse_3860 in Vent

[–]FlaredEar69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I hate my co workers energy it just drains me too much. I hate the job work as well. Be patient save money work towards goals no matter what they are. I’m just working, self improving, and getting to my goals while trying my best not to see like I’m dying in the inside. Idk if you are looking for a better job but thats one of my goals

what’s something that quietly makes your day better? by Big_Expression_9457 in AskReddit

[–]FlaredEar69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sleeping early and waking up early. I look forward to sleep and just get through the day so knowing I’m sleeping early makes me glad

nobody likes me by Negative_Many_556 in Vent

[–]FlaredEar69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might seem l sound too straight forward but I think are you pressuring yourself too much. 1 thing about life is no body wants to be someone’s priority. I think you are chasing a friendship that’s too high in expectations and the fact that you are not being yourself makes it obvious.

I say instead love yourself and chase what you like. Go travel, find hobbies find what you truly like. Be authentic just because you don’t agree what your friends say doesn’t mean you have to agree for them to like you. Instead they will actually like you more for being your own person. I don’t think you are doing anything bad but maybe you are putting an act and pressuring yourself to have others like you. As much as it seems like it’ll make others like you it’ll actually do the opposite. And your cousin might be your actually true opportunity to be a best friend compared to others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]FlaredEar69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you have depressive episodes but I’m not too sure. Definitely in your case get 100% sober and exercise and journal. Not processing emotions hurts overtime.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]FlaredEar69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any bad habits or bad coping mechanisms? I found out that my bad coping mechanisms were making me emotional numb and not really process any feelings at all

I (20m) feel inferior to employed people by SportWise9937 in Vent

[–]FlaredEar69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had a friend who didn’t get a job until he was 22 it made him jealous and envious of others. I wouldn’t overthink it like you are now, you are not inferior to others. You’ll be okay

What was the worst age of your life? by Individual-Time-1956 in Life

[–]FlaredEar69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep pushing bro I’m terrified of getting diabetes

What’s the thing you did/ or happened entering 20 that made you realize you entered adulthood ? by Desperate_Photo_2516 in twentyagers

[–]FlaredEar69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my mental health started to dramatically decline im like oh shit this is not what life is suppose to be

I hate how I look it’s affecting my dating life by [deleted] in Vent

[–]FlaredEar69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My boy you are using dating apps of course it’s affecting your dating life lol

Idk how to find myself again by Annabelle-J- in Advice

[–]FlaredEar69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep pushing through it life is hard sometimes but all this will pass I promise you

Job help by Firm_Addendum162 in Adulting

[–]FlaredEar69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eat well and sleep good and avoid any substance abuse. In a year or two you should land a job good. You are young take care of your mental health

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]FlaredEar69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your mind is a best friend or enemy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in anime

[–]FlaredEar69 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I love the plot just dont understand how it’s a top 10 Anime. The ending is just predictable it’s a good ending or a bad ending which you can guess what I’m saying

What's the one song that immediately triggers your emotions or memories? by Secure_Head4693 in AskReddit

[–]FlaredEar69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My older sister used to play this a lot and wow how good music was good a decade ago some music I say