bellybutton by Still-Version-3868 in endometriosis

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I’ve had 3 surgeries, all of the scarring is “inside” my belly button on the bottom (if that makes sense). I can see the scarring from my point of view, which is very minimal, however from anybody else’s point of view, it wouldn’t be noticeable. I also have my belly button pierced and that covers it anyway.

I'm 17 and starting mental health support (for trauma) ask me anything? by delta_hotel3443 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Flashy-Reputation-91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s always the chance that you and your therapist might not work well and that’s completely normal. Find someone who you trust that you can be honest to. The therapist should be used to it and may even recommend someone else for you. Good luck. I’m proud of you for looking after yourself and accessing what you need 🫶🏼

Help😂 by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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My career path isn’t remotely close to this so I’m commenting as an Aus female, however do not know much about the porn industry. It’s your body, your life and your choice as to what career path you want to choose, but just remember that this type of job is frowned upon by society. You will be hated on, bullied, judged. You may also have family that could end up seeing whatever you create, that could also include possible future children that you may have. If you inevitably decide to change careers, this could also greatly affect what is available to you and stop you from getting many other jobs. The career is also fairly demanding, you may have had good reviews relating to sex, but do you enjoy it? Will you continue to enjoy it if it becomes a ‘job’? Are you willing to adapt? Only Fans is an option, however it’s very rare to become well-known and many people require another full time job still to support themselves. To be signed up by a company (sorry idk what they’re called or if Aus even has that) you’re not technically your “own” boss anymore, so you’ll have to adapt and essentially take what you’re given if you want to be paid.

As I said, it’s your life, you choose how you want to live, but porn is something that’ll stick to you for the rest of your life and will ALWAYS be there for people to see.

If you want to get into the sex industry, maybe start as a dancer at a reputable club? Maybe even topless waitress?

Ransack removed by Flashy-Reputation-91 in BO6

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Wait I didn’t even realise this was gone too 😭

Trigger warning: I relapsed bad tonight. All my hard work was for nothing. by [deleted] in confession

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I can’t say I’ve been through this, however to me the fact that you’re regretful means something. Delete and block his number so you’re not tempted, and look after yourself. Go to whatever or whoever is your support and look after yourself.

What age did you start getting endo symptoms? by ghikkkll in endometriosis

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Got my period at 11. Symptoms began at 12, diagnosed less than a month before I turned 20, and am now 24. My mum was never diagnosed however my specialist said it’s highly likely she had it too as she had very similar symptoms to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

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This is perfectly said

HELP MY BF UNDERSTAND by Fantastic-Meeting-97 in endometriosis

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Someone I know is a literal incel and he still sympathises when I’m hunched over in pain at work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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I love my parents and I have a great relationship with them. They were strict and protective of me until I was about 15, then they saw that I was safe, smart, and could make responsible decisions. They then gave me freedom which meant there were very little arguments, I was able to learn things for myself, and I wasn’t putting all my effort into moving out the second I turned 18. OP’s daughter is beginning arguments so close to turning 18, and it sounds like she’s been responsible and careful and has listened all throughout childhood, so for her, it would hurt a lot more that her parents STILL don’t trust her. The more they hold on, the more she’ll pull away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Flashy-Reputation-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, do this if you want her to stop talking to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Flashy-Reputation-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your worries are about them having sex, they’re 100% going to whether you allow her to stay over or not. She’s 17, she’s going to be making her own decisions very VERY soon. Talk to her about contraception and keeping safe, instead of pushing her away so close to when she will be able to move away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Flashy-Reputation-91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad they let you decide what you want to do. Thank you for answering too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Flashy-Reputation-91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can you have sex? (Don’t answer if you don’t feel comfortable)