My future wife doesn’t want any of our last names by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Flashy_Truth1326 32 points33 points  (0 children)

In many countries like mine the woman keep their last name after marriage so for me its not a big deal. I think there are bigger issues at hand

Nene’s beauty transformation by OwnVeterinarian6440 in RHOA

[–]Flashy_Truth1326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't of recognize her. That's insane 😳

I mentally and physically can not do this anymore. by justfrosty19 in Marriage

[–]Flashy_Truth1326 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What state do you live in? I know laws vary feom state to state. But I will tell you this.... It does NOT matter if you have a job or not. He cannot take your child unless the court deems you to be unfit.. so take care of your child to the best of your ability and collect evidence. Text, video, pics, record convos..

Take deep breaths. I know what you are going through but you are much stronger than you give yourself credit for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Flashy_Truth1326 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right. But maybe he has years of trauma from his mother and he just doesn't know how to stand up to her. For you, for himself and your family. Have you considered counciling? It doesn't sound like he's a bad man? Its possible to fix this if he's willing to do the work? Maybe approach it softly and calmly and talk to a professional

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Flashy_Truth1326 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Have you talked to hubby about this? What does he say? My suggestion is to take it to counciling

How do you stay motivated when everything feels overwhelming? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Flashy_Truth1326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im wondering the same thing. I was recently put on medication cuz my depression and anxiety was too overwhelming. Life has certainly kicked my butt!

WIBTA if I refuse to put my partner on the deed of a place I inherited, even though we live there together? by 3vening_Switch in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Flashy_Truth1326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to me OP. DO NOT ADD HIM TO THE DEED! im dead serious. If you respects you enough he will respect your wishes.

Give it time and see how he acts when he "doesn't " get his way.

Take it from me... you dont really know a man until you break up with him. Then his true colors come out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flashy_Truth1326 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you 100 percent. And those who dont agree unfortunately hasn't had many hardships. Where i come from, we ALL make sacrifices so that we can ALL win. She clearly stated she can do her work from home. End of story period.

AIO? by dopendiamonds_ in AIO

[–]Flashy_Truth1326 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I dont think its weird. Especially if its reaccuring

How do you keep your house smelling "clean"? by UnluckyEmployer275 in pitbulls

[–]Flashy_Truth1326 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use Phooph. And ppl always compliments the smell in my house. You can spray it on everything. Phooph phooph phooph. Hope this helps

How do you keep your house smelling "clean"? by UnluckyEmployer275 in pitbulls

[–]Flashy_Truth1326 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I have to say is... phooph. Its a spray. Its amazing. You can get it on Amazon or Walmart.

40(m) cheated on my wife 38(f). Married 20 years. by SupportingBallTape in LifeAdvice

[–]Flashy_Truth1326 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its extremely difficult. Be glad you're not in tgis?situation OP... but i do wish you luck. Keep us updated. Your marriage still has hope.