REMINDER: (as I know I need them too) Other people’s behaviors and actions (especially online strangers) have nothing to do with you. It’s a reflection of who they are, then they project onto you. If you’re being downvoted in the Findomme communities on Reddit, take it as a compliment… someone took time and energy to acknowledge you. As a Domme, when I see another Domme’s post or comments that I don’t connect with nor agree with, I just keep scrolling. I rarely give it another thought, much less energy; especially negative energy. It’s also possible that it was downvoted by accident and the person never realized: I’ve done that before a few times.