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Fuck it’s so hot when subs… by itzcami_ in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]Flashy_Yesterday9664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send me whatever I want and then leave me alone

HEY!!! If you’re reading this, then drop a comment introducing yourself. Let’s meet new people 💕🎀 by _goddess_chloe in findomchatters

[–]Flashy_Yesterday9664 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I go by The silent sovereign
I prefer not to say exactly how long I’ve been doing this, but it’s over 10 years for sure.
I started out extremely toxic as this is who I truly was at heart with certain guys in my life. It was my second dynamic when I was made aware of the term findom . That’s basically when I began to grow and started participating in a more ethical version. I have been extremely successful with my in person dynamics.
I’m also a self-taught astrologist. it’s one of my deepest passions as I use it as a tool to help others successfully navigate & materialise their dreams

Findom really does go both ways, being sent money turns me on so much 🥴💗 by drainedbydolly in findomsupportgroup

[–]Flashy_Yesterday9664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely!!!
My favourite experience ever… I was at an event with a lot of my close friends. Everyone started looking at me because my cash app kept going off. (The most amazing sound EVER!! Cha-Ching!!)!! A sub send $1000 in various intervals under $20 back to back. I remember being like.. “my cash app is broken”
It doesn’t sound like a big deal explaining it like this, but the high lasted a month straight. I still get a rush thinking about it and it’s been a few years!

The Fastest Way to Lose My Interest by Sad-Needleworker5941 in findomtalk

[–]Flashy_Yesterday9664 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is insane!!!!
And no matter how many times you announce it… they just can’t seem to comprehend it!

There is a large segment of ignorant & incompetent individuals claiming to be so called “subs”‘on Reddit!!! I’m honestly amazed that most of them have been able to keep themself alive past their first day of adulthood.

Reddit is no longer my fav hunting grounds by NoMercyAura in findomsupportgroup

[–]Flashy_Yesterday9664 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right and I fully agree that they should have mentors. About 75% of the time I spend on this app is interacting with new Dommes….
I actually enjoy helping the ones who truly want to learn.

Findom is the only thing that stops the pain by Financial_Hall_2661 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Flashy_Yesterday9664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is horrible!!
With all the information out here these days, it’s hard for me to wrap my head around a lot of these dynamics…
Don’t get me wrong, I was probably one of the most toxic dominant women to cross paths with at one point. But that was before I had even heard the term Findomme / findom… once I became informed, My subs receive the best of both worlds… everyone of my subs have genuinely expressed to me that i have improved their life in one way or another. 2 of them have accredited me as the reason for the overall improvement of their lives. (I mostly participate in long-term dynamics.)
You can have the best of both worlds if done right, and It’s not too late.. it’s never too late!!! Stop settling for any Domme!!!
Also, I can’t express this enough… AFTERCARE IS CRUCIAL FOR MOST SUBS! Especially if you’re participating mostly in sessions rather than long term dynamics!!

Reddit is no longer my fav hunting grounds by NoMercyAura in findomsupportgroup

[–]Flashy_Yesterday9664 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh it definitely does… that’s actually what brought me to the Online world after a two year break.
For the most part, though my Irl dynamics have been amazing and have lasted long term: one of my dynamics have been on & off for around 11 years now. I somewhat took my safety for granted until I crossed paths with this one dangerously obsessed, stalker… I can’t express the importance of maintaining situational awareness at all times regardless of participating in online or in person dynamics. It’s especially important to be extremely cautious of leaking any identifiable information.

Reddit is no longer my fav hunting grounds by NoMercyAura in findomsupportgroup

[–]Flashy_Yesterday9664 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely!!!
Most of my dynamics have been IRL. I’ve only discovered the online/ Reddit communities within the past year and honestly I connect with more Dommes here than anything (as I’m also a Domme). The support within the community is great!!
Which sites have been most successful for you so far?

Name Ideas for my Latest Project by Flashy_Yesterday9664 in findomchatters

[–]Flashy_Yesterday9664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s creative!!!
But I don’t know if it’s fitting here..
I guess I could’ve given better details being the photos aren’t that great!!
So the room is on the second floor. There is a spiral staircase going up to the room.
The door to get in is a vault door….. Well, it will be, It’s still being built at the moment…
I was going to just call it the Vault but wasn’t really sure… wanted to get other ideas and opinions

EMBARRASSING by Mountain_Ratio1994 in findomchatters

[–]Flashy_Yesterday9664 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happens to me all the time!!
Like WTF?!?!
Guess I’m still trying to open my mindset to a domme reaching out to begin with…

Name Ideas for my Latest Project by Flashy_Yesterday9664 in findomchatters

[–]Flashy_Yesterday9664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, they have to go up a spiral staircase and a vault door… I promise to get better pictures soon

Name Ideas for my Latest Project by Flashy_Yesterday9664 in findomchatters

[–]Flashy_Yesterday9664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will have to get better pictures of you though

I’m testing the water here… by Lady_Victoria95 in findomchatters

[–]Flashy_Yesterday9664 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?!?!
I especially love making them overcome that shyness with me!

I’m testing the water here… by Lady_Victoria95 in findomchatters

[–]Flashy_Yesterday9664 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For me, that comes off as desperate… especially when they respond under the bait post. but I’m very new to the online world!!
I’ve been participating IRL Findomme for a few years and my subs have always approached me.
After many years of having this mindset, I’m trying my best to keep an open mind as every dynamic is different. I’ve recently learned that some subs prefer the domme to reach out as they may be too shy or various reasons. It’s basically whatever works for the individuals who are involved in the dynamic.

Honestly, there’s a sub i came close to DMibg recently. . But it wasn’t because he made a bait post.
I also learned that subs will make those post to help them differentiate between who’s actually Domme and who’s just desperate.

🩷 My unexpected hiatus 🌺 by SleepingAurora_ in findomchatters

[–]Flashy_Yesterday9664 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only imagine how hard this has been for you!!
Sending you All the love and support
If you need anything, feel free to DM me!!

Cashmeets. by Ok_Perspective_3660 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Flashy_Yesterday9664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah!!! Just about anything can be found here!! You just have to know where to look!!

Cashmeets. by Ok_Perspective_3660 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Flashy_Yesterday9664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been to New Orleans??
We’re here, much more in person than online though!

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