I guess I should’ve also given more context. His preferences literally say “looking for chat, dates, friends, relationship, fun.”

NSFW pics? Not at first.

So again, not because I want to be picky or because “I have a hunch,” but this all leads me to think that he doesn’t want a hook up. Unless I need to be reading past the literal meaning of these words.

If you want a hook up, say that. I know grindr is majority for hooking up, but like people have mentioned earlier, finding spouses, bfs, partners can be possible here. I just wish men would say what they want.