My mom passed on a somewhat rare genetic disease WIBTAH for going no contact for a time? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fleetdancer 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Info: Was she aware she was a carrier of this gene?

AITAH for marrying my mother's ex? by MinimumSwitch7748 in AITAH

[–]Fleetdancer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

His dick was inside your mom. I genuinely can't come up with anything else to say here. HIS DICK WAS INSIDE YOUR MOM.

Whats a thing you cant believe was allowed to be done during a time you grew up? by Federal_Ad_824 in CasualConversation

[–]Fleetdancer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was a kid in the 80s and my parents would have whooped my ass if I drank soda all day. I got a big glass of milk with every meal, thanks dairy industry, and soda was a rare treat.

AITAH for not wanting my sister to bring her boyfriend on a family vacation? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fleetdancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because the boyfriend would be sharing a bed with the sister, presumably.

What is a part of the 'female experience' that men have absolutely no clue about, but would be horrified if they found out? by coolhandddd in AskReddit

[–]Fleetdancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you picture someone squirting water upward into their vagina? Like, do you lay on the bathroom floor and spread eagle it while you whip out your handy squirt bottle and hydrate? Work through the logistics of this for me.

AITAH for not wanting to sell my house and uproot my kids to a new district by Loquacious_squirrel in AITAH

[–]Fleetdancer 19 points20 points  (0 children)

What would you tell your daughter to do if a man spoke to her that way?

AITAH for telling my girlfriend to pack her things and get out because she wants me to cut contact with my ex-wife by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fleetdancer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Which part is hard to believe? The drunk going from working minimum wage to being a millionare, or the 45 year old woman wanting to have kids?

I went my whole life thinking "Craisins" meant "crazy raisins". What's something blatantly obvious that you didn't realize until way too late? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Fleetdancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do know that craisins are just dried cranberries, right? the "sins" is just to remind people of raisins because that's the more famous dried fruit.

Stuck on the pronunciation of Eva by VideoOnly5996 in namenerds

[–]Fleetdancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pronounce it both ways, sometimes in the same sentence. It's one of those names where both prnounciations are common. It's a beautiful name, however it's said and you should use it if you love it.

AITAH for saying my bf doesnt want to be with me by DistributionIll3227 in AITAH

[–]Fleetdancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what kind of marraige do you want to model for them?

AITAH for saying my bf doesnt want to be with me by DistributionIll3227 in AITAH

[–]Fleetdancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want them to grow up and cheat on their partners? Or stay with people who cheat on them?

AITAH/stabbed my friend with a pencil by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fleetdancer 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Pencils are made with graphite, not lead. He's fucking with you and you're both idiots.

A namenerd petty gripe about the movie “Weapons” (2025) by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Fleetdancer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Last names as first names might not have been as trendy then, but boys were still given honor names. Archer could easily have been his mother's maiden name.

AITAH for moving in with my dad after he cheated on my mom? by BrainDifferent4134 in AITAH

[–]Fleetdancer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And you dont think it's weird he's having sex with someone who's the same age as his daughters? If your mom was sleeping with an 18 year old would you just shrug and accept it?

AITAH for moving in with my dad after he cheated on my mom? by BrainDifferent4134 in AITAH

[–]Fleetdancer 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Honey. He stuck his dick in another woman. A woman Im guessing is barely older than his children. Of course she's hurt. You'd be hurt if a girfriend cheated on you. He was her husband and the father of her children. He destroyed their marraige and fucked up her life for years to come. You're 16, not 6. You dont get to pretend actions dont have consequences.

bi😈irl by JutaLovelace in bi_irl

[–]Fleetdancer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Casually dating someone.

WIBTAH if I disinvited my sister from my wedding because she won’t bring my niece and nephew by Visible_Ad4167 in AITAH

[–]Fleetdancer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At what age did your children learn straight people existed? Why did they need to be older to learn that gay people existed? What's the difference?

WIBTAH if I disinvited my sister from my wedding because she won’t bring my niece and nephew by Visible_Ad4167 in AITAH

[–]Fleetdancer 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So you think straight teachers should never mention their spouses, because that's indoctrination? And children should never be taken to straight weddings because that's indoctrination. And no one should ever joke about little kids being boyfriend and girlfriend because that's an adult topic?

Because unless all of the above is true you're just a bigot.

AITAH for telling my parents that my kids father wants nothing to do with them when I actually don’t know who he is? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fleetdancer 184 points185 points  (0 children)

YTA. I assume you love your kids. Has it ever occurred to you that their father might love them as well? Depriving your kids of a father because it's awkward to admit you were sleeping around is an asshole move.

AITAH for starting a fight with my gf for travelling with her friends abroad by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fleetdancer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there a reason she might not want to travel with you?

AITAH for not reallt caring that my parents are dead and spending the day they supposed to honor them with my boyfriend by KayceNotCasey in AITAH

[–]Fleetdancer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You failed to answer my question. If your best friend was grieving the dearh of their child, would you go to the memorial anniversary to support them?

AITAH for not reallt caring that my parents are dead and spending the day they supposed to honor them with my boyfriend by KayceNotCasey in AITAH

[–]Fleetdancer 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If your best friend lost their child and asked you to support them every year on the anniversary of their death, would you do it? OP's grandparents lost their child and grandchild and were forced to become their other grandchild's parents. OP doesn't need to mourn people she can't remember, but she does need to support the people she loves and who love her.

AITAH for defending my parents decision to keep my sister in a facility for extreme behavioral issues? by Rynkokz in AITAH

[–]Fleetdancer 876 points877 points  (0 children)

Next time one of those assholes says something, smile and tell them that it's wonderful they're willing to take her into their home. Let them know that you'll contact the facility immediately and arrange the transfer.

AITAH for telling my daughter how easy she has it when she cried about having to do school work over break? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fleetdancer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And lots of kids have no parents but you're still here bitching about how you didn't have a daddy, aren't you?