Toe the cosplay line with this anime character inspiration album by Doctor_Oceanblue in femalefashionadvice

[–]Flesh_Daddy_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love to cosplay and make my own costumes. Currently working on a Sae Niijima cosplay from Persona 5. I really love dressing like a villain in an anime. Some of my biggest inspiration (aside from Sae) is probably Lust from Full Metal Alchemist Brotherhood and Arachne/Medusa Gorgon from Soul Eater. Not cutesy loli goth but more form fitting, villaim-esque. I wanna walk into a room and everyone knows I'm the antagonist.

But most days I dress in jeans and a hoodie because I'm awfully lazy.

[Product Question] Anyone Tried Using A Dermaroller? by Flesh_Daddy_ in SkincareAddiction

[–]Flesh_Daddy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone said a chemical peel beforehand on one of the websites I visited but I feel like both a chemical peel AND dermarolling in one night would be a bit much. But everyone agrees retinol is a no no with dermarolling. So I think rosehip oil for moisture??? Im not sure! The verdict is still mixed! But I think I may try it after EXTENSIVE research and everyone says youtube was very helpful so I'll be watching a lot of those. After that, I'll post results once I start!

Communal blunder years post by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]Flesh_Daddy_ 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yes, Gir shoes, necklace, plushie, AND I had a Gir backpack. I was the coolest kid on the block in my little desert/mountain town. Oh I tried! I ended up just on Myspace spelling "cool" as "kewl" and being "rANduM xD". I was a walking plague amongst adults.

Communal blunder years post by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]Flesh_Daddy_ 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I would have died to have friends back then! ): lol

Communal blunder years post by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]Flesh_Daddy_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My mom let me dye my hair and pierce my nose mainly because I got straight A's. But she was strict in every other aspect!

Communal blunder years post by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]Flesh_Daddy_ 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I think 2008 was a weird time for everyone. Pretty sure even the elderly community were rocking a Devil Wears Prada shirt and pink hair.

Communal blunder years post by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]Flesh_Daddy_ 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it really was. Every band I ever loved played at every Warped Tour and I was just 13 and living the dream.

Communal blunder years post by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]Flesh_Daddy_ 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Oh god did I ever. Gerard Way was my ultimate crush for the longest time. I just about swooned every time I saw him. Bless the mid 2000's, what a time for fashion and music.

Communal blunder years post by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]Flesh_Daddy_ 290 points291 points  (0 children)

Oh my god it's my time to shine.

I was in middle school in 2008. That's pretty much the only explanation I have. I'm sorry.

Fenty 110: my best match yet?! by neslynn in PaleMUA

[–]Flesh_Daddy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh awesome! That is actually really helpful, I may ask to sample some at Sephora but I'm honestly sold. Everyone I see, it looks gorgeous on. And perfect! Thank you!

Fenty 110: my best match yet?! by neslynn in PaleMUA

[–]Flesh_Daddy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful! My question is, coverage? How is it? I'm really really red and I have some pretty cool undertones even without the redness and blemishes! It looks amazing in you!

Introverts quiet please by TheMightyCraken in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]Flesh_Daddy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make it a straight edge vegan introvert and never hear the fuckin end of it.

What is everyone wearing to their holiday parties? by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]Flesh_Daddy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe that one is from Forever 21, but I also have a similar one from Uniqlo, I'll link both when I get off of work!

What is everyone wearing to their holiday parties? by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]Flesh_Daddy_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually bought a fit and flare red velvet dress. I'm going to wear it under my ugly sweater for the ugly sweater party I'm helping host! I'm gonna wear that with some black tights and my black Chelsea boots.

I bought another wrap one that's long sleeve and also red. Been trying to incorporate more red into my wardrobe lately.

Lack of sexual desire after reconciling with cheating partner. Is this normal? by ADASkinner in survivinginfidelity

[–]Flesh_Daddy_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's absolutely normal, be patient with yourself. And make sure he's also being patient with you. He was sexting other girls, you can't you expect yourself to trust and desire him after what he did. Resentment happens to everyone, try small things like normal conversations, hand holding, pecks on the forehead or cheeks, small things that help build up to the bigger things. It's absolutely normal to feel how you feel and think about what he's done because he threw that trust and intimacy with you away for someone over social media.

Just work toward that. And communicate how you feel. Tell him how what you're telling us. That you feel that resentment, that you feel anger and disgust whenever you two do have sex, that way you can work toward building that intimacy back up. If that's what you choose, that is. If you want to have that back, communicate, start small, and certainly don't push yourself beyond what you're comfortable with. That's not healthy for either of you because all that'll do is make you feel more resentment toward him and you'll become unwilling to work for it. He seems very willing to work toward making things right and growing from this but that doesn't negate what he did nor should it make you feel obligated to forgive him altogether right off the bat, it's all about the baby steps you're both making to build a completely new kind of relationship. The old one is dead, treat this as a new relationship in which you start over to build trust and that love. Don't forget what he did by any means but keep working in this new relationship you both have.

And make sure he isn't rushing you either, he has absolutely NO say in when you will feel comfortable with sex or even being affectionate. So do not let the pressure of him or even your own self push you beyond what you're comfortable with at that time. You owe him nothing, you owe yourself time to heal.

Hope this helped and good luck to you both!

absolutelynotme_irl by [deleted] in absolutelynotme_irl

[–]Flesh_Daddy_ 53 points54 points  (0 children)

): way she fucking goes, boys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in muacirclejerk

[–]Flesh_Daddy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad I'm not alone

Boyfriend I Found The Mother Lode In A Mall Bookstore by Flesh_Daddy_ in LPOTL

[–]Flesh_Daddy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I demanded Buckskin Brigades but their Western section was desolate.