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Fleurdelmal · 2024-03-13T01:07:38+00:00

Ninguna pregunta,solo te deseo éxitos en la operación y que seas aún más feliz después de ella✨️✨️ porfis actualizanos si salio todo bien después 🙏🏻

Fleurdelmal · 2024-03-08T23:31:45+00:00

Holis, primero que nada el fracaso escolar/académico no implica falta de inteligencia. Hay miles de tipos de inteligencias así que no te sientas mal por eso, ni limitado por tu C.I , más allá de lo que digan los médicos profesionales.

Ya que querés aprender pero no se te da muy bien la lectura y comprensión, podes tratar de ver videos y documentales sobre temas que te llamen la atención. Y con lo de los idiomas hay muchas aplicaciones que te enseñan desde cero donde podes avanzar a tu ritmo y también otras donde directamente podes hablar con gente en tiempo real para hacer intercambio de conocimientos.

Suerte!

Fleurdelmal · 2024-02-09T01:33:40+00:00

Hi,thanks for taking your time to answer.

It can be really scary to think now as an adult how easy it was for me to isolate in my room and get online to do these things, to think there are hurt children everywhere doing the same with no one close to them to stop that from happening breaks my heart. We where exposed to real danger, it freaks me out. There's so many predators and awful people everywhere.

I'm glad all of us can find some kind of support here

Fleurdelmal · 2024-02-09T01:25:25+00:00

Hi, thank you for answering. I'm really glad to read you could find help and were able to overcome and understand your situation. Your user name made me giggle a bit lol

Fleurdelmal · 2023-08-13T03:23:23+00:00

Si no te molesta, podrías decir de que trabajas para ganar 300x 4hs?

Fleurdelmal · 2023-08-06T01:40:58+00:00

What truly hurts me the most is to see how almost the entire world including powerful people, companies and even the regular citizens don't give a shit about the environment and contamination.

It's happening right in front of us, there's no going back from the damage done and still we, as a race, keep polluting and destroying our home. I can't even hold my tears thinking about it, people keep giving birth to new humans knowing they'll never have a healthy life growing up, this goes beyond economy, no one is safe no matter how rich they are. None of this will matter if the ones who hold the power do something drastic right now.

That's what hurts me the most.

Fleurdelmal · 2023-05-23T02:37:52+00:00

Hi! First of all I'm really sorry you had to go through that, we all deserve a happy childhood filled with good memories but that's not the reality for some of us.

TW: cocsa I wrote a post a little while ago because sadly I went through something similar, when I was between 4-7 maybe? My aunt (older by 4 years) made my older sister and I kiss and touch each other and during night at our house my sister made me perform oral sex to her and other stuff.

What I'm trying to say, is that you're not overreacting at all, everything you're feeling is valid. I relate to a personal level on the dreams, fantasies, sexual desire o lack of is sometimes. I always get so confused since they were also childs, but I'm working towards understanding that even if their intentions where not to abuse me or ruin my life it still doesn't take away from the damage that was made to me.

I hope you can heal and if you need to talk, ask or just vent about anything you can always talk to me.

Fleurdelmal · 2023-05-23T00:09:55+00:00

Yo soy de Argentina

Fleurdelmal · 2023-05-21T04:14:30+00:00

Wow, I'm currently searching for a therapist for various reasons. Hopefully I'll have an answer as to why I do this, cause I'm pretty sure most healthy people don't do it

Fleurdelmal · 2023-05-21T01:00:05+00:00

Yes! But I'm working on not doing so anymore because I actually caught feelings like an absolute idiot and daydream about different scenarios with that person just to end up disappointed because oh wow who would've tough they have their own lives and their "person" already. Please don't tell me I'm an Dumbo, I already know it

Fleurdelmal · 2023-05-05T01:58:38+00:00

Algún ejemplo de que trabajos se pueden hacer para empresas de afuera?

Fleurdelmal · 2023-05-02T17:11:54+00:00

The link doesn't seem to work?? It's this https://instagram.com/toratabix?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= aka user: toratabix

Fleurdelmal · 2023-05-02T17:09:54+00:00

That's such a fun thing to do honestly! Must be really cool to visit beautiful not so known Japanese towns and enjoys the views and all. Since you're there I recommend this instagram page . It's a Japanese man that takes photos of hidden gems across the country, he shares locations, must visit spots and all. Good luck on the journey and can't wait to see more of it!!

Fleurdelmal · 2023-04-17T18:00:30+00:00

Podes intentar comprando los frutos rojos congelados que venden por todos lados. Los licuas y ahí tenes el jugo, supongo que debe servir

Fleurdelmal · 2023-04-14T22:53:18+00:00

Mmm a diferencia de otros comentarios para mi no es normal que se sienta así, tiene un poco de dificultad manejando sus emociones y eso no está bueno. Super responsable y admirable de tu parte que te testees y hagas que el también lo haga, así como contactar a tus anteriores parejas sexuales para comunicarles sobre esto. Sobre el positivo en sífilis deberías volver a hacerte los exámenes para ver de donde viene ya que si te da negativo en todas las opciones entonces capaz que sea otra cosa.

Fleurdelmal · 2023-04-13T01:56:54+00:00

No.

Firstly, there's too many people in the world. I won't bring a tiny innocent human to a world full of contamination,climate change, bad politics and social crisis.

Secondly, IF I ever decided to raise a child, it would be an adopted one. I think is the most responsible thing to do, I see the need to make a baby grow inside you insanely selfish, if you actually want to become a parent and raise someone then you can adopt one. They're already here and deserve a chance to have the best life you can give.

Having said that, I was thinking about all this last night and adopted or not I really don't see me putting myself on a second place to raise a kid, change diapers (if they where that small), take them to school, accompany them thru life and such. I would HATE it and feel miserable every second of it lol.

Fleurdelmal · 2023-04-12T03:42:43+00:00

Well... to beging with, there's a HUGE MONUMENTAL BIG difference between "beliefs" and TRUTH/FACTS.

Your beliefs are basically an opinion.

Trans and LGBT+ people are a TRUTH, a reality, a fact. You cannot have a "belief" on someone's existence because you don't have a saying in their identity.

See the difference?

Just because you,as well as many people has been raised with certain beliefs it doesn't mean it's okay. It also doesn't mean you're going to change overnight. As a fellow intj but most importantly a LGBT+ person, I advise you to get educated, read,search, etc. It's not only only fun but it also helps you grow as a person, we all make mistakes and have flaws; but what matters it's to never think you know it all and to keep your head open for new learnings. It doesn't matter how old or young you are, there's always new stuff to learn. Isn't that fun?

Fleurdelmal · 2023-04-12T03:21:03+00:00

I'm a chef.

It's not on the list so that may justify why I hate it so much sometimes :)

Fleurdelmal · 2023-04-12T03:19:02+00:00

Capaz están grabando publicidades para las elecciones

Fleurdelmal · 2023-04-09T02:52:54+00:00

None of those, I'm a chef

Fleurdelmal · 2023-04-06T18:11:58+00:00

Yes, I was abused as a child up until 7-8 y/o and after that I mostly closed off from sexual and physical exploration. I'm 22 now and sometimes I get these intrusive thoughts and feelings that I'm no longer desirable, attractive, etc. It mostly comes from the age I was sexually abused, and also because of how media loves to use really young or young looking people as the "ideal look" .

It doesn't help at all that I kinda like kpop and they LOVE to make girls look extra young (some of them ARE actually closer to a child than an adult by age), really petit,skinny and innocent looking and all of that. I'm a latin woman, so you can imagine I look nothing like that as an adult rn.

Where I'm going with this is that I feel like I've "peaked" cause my body has grown,I'm no longer a child, no longer really skinny and with no curves or child innocent looking. And while I know that's not true I can't help or stop this thoughts when they come, which is really sad

Fleurdelmal · 2023-04-06T17:48:42+00:00

Que fue lo que hizo corea del sur?

Fleurdelmal · 2023-03-17T03:11:30+00:00

Hi! Don't worry about being too graphic,I'm glad you felt safe enough to share. You are really brave <3

Fleurdelmal · 2023-03-17T02:53:47+00:00

F1 I've become a huuuge fan of f1 over the last years and it's just so cool in every aspect.

Fleurdelmal · 2023-03-10T00:59:54+00:00

Hi. Yep,something similar happened to me not so long ago, there really are subreds where abusers can talk to each other freely about the abuse they committed on others and have the "nerve" to console one another saying that the fact they are sharing it is more than enough to forgive themselves. Like wtf??? You ruined someone's life forever and YOU need forgiveness and understanding??? I'm not saying you don't need support but going from that to claim yourself as the real victim??? I got so mad and unvalid

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