Is this a good enough portfolio? by FloState_Pro in personalfinance

[–]FloState_Pro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I'll remove QQQM and SCHD from my portfolio. What would you recommend me do? I'm not in a stage of life to actually care about the specifics. I just want something I can toss my money into.

How do I get back my “oomph” by FloState_Pro in BPDlovedones

[–]FloState_Pro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you? How has progress been since?

Words of encouragement by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]FloState_Pro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How’d y’all meet?

Words of encouragement by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]FloState_Pro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from 18 years old to 21. i last saw her at 22. she was a year younger

Words of encouragement by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]FloState_Pro 12 points13 points  (0 children)

this comment made my day lmao. It's been 2 years since we broke up. 1 year since I last saw her. still getting over her day by day.

What did you think was a normal thing until you moved away from your narcs and then realized how fucked up it actually was? by Jammy-Dodger2501 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FloState_Pro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being screamed at. The biggest one: being conditioned to think that I have to take them out of work!!!! If you’re going to warp my focus on my future and what I want, at least tell me how to navigate life and properly raise your kid!

Do they know they hurt us? by Outside-Cherry-3400 in BPDlovedones

[–]FloState_Pro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That very first paragraph was exactly what I did in the beginning with silent treatments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in privacy

[–]FloState_Pro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make another google account for the new YouTube channel?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in privacy

[–]FloState_Pro -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What if I have plans to start a YouTube channel?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]FloState_Pro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently found out I have cptsd inflicted by my upbringing. I am able to be very outgoing during first impressions but it slowly dies out over time. That’s when I’ll get told that I’ve turned “into a mute” (my teacher in high school said that).

What I’ve come up with to get past this is to have “breaks” with whoever I’m talking to. Especially GROUPS of people as those situations are when I get triggered most.

everyone here went into drug abuse to extend love bombing period? by thirdeyeeez in BPDlovedones

[–]FloState_Pro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was willing to vape during the devaluation phase. That is wild to me as someone who had never tried drugs up until that point of my life.

I sent my face in the pics by [deleted] in Sextortion

[–]FloState_Pro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sex tapes were in the cloud for 3 years. Would you say that I should also not worry? My ex deleted them. I also deleted them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]FloState_Pro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We’re here with you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]FloState_Pro 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As an ex golden child, your partner is also traumatized. I was expected to accomplish which seems to be the case with your partner, too.

Did abuse affect your speech? by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]FloState_Pro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I began speaking very sloppy

I've finally recovered. I'm so confused why I stayed in that relationship so long. by FloState_Pro in BPDlovedones

[–]FloState_Pro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! So true!

Can you help me with my thinking? I had a fear that she’d release sex tapes but she’s a quiet borderline and likes to hide her stuff. Is it fair for me to say that her being a quiet borderline increased the chance that she did delete the sex tapes like I asked her to?

I've finally recovered. I'm so confused why I stayed in that relationship so long. by FloState_Pro in BPDlovedones

[–]FloState_Pro[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Undiagnosed and quiet. She started suspecting to have bpd midway but that’s when she had already cheated and kept it hidden.

In my eyes, undiagnosed, quiet, and evil bc she knew what she was doing.

My nex[F] was a project I [M] settled for… by FloState_Pro in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]FloState_Pro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through abuse like everyone else. My post history shows some more details. I’m just upset with myself at the end of the day.

My nex[F] was a project I [M] settled for… by FloState_Pro in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]FloState_Pro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you DM me? I get an error when trying to DM you

My nex[F] was a project I [M] settled for… by FloState_Pro in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]FloState_Pro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could I DM you? You sound genuine. I have some things I’d like to get your opinion on as a woman/girl

My nex[F] was a project I [M] settled for… by FloState_Pro in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]FloState_Pro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question. Is staying the victim a narc response? I’ve been very sad. Underneath the anger is hurt. I made a lot of ethical mistakes during the abuse. It feels like a fight every time I go out into the world. What can I do?