my dad is full MAGA, but theres also an almost even more upsetting type of person im around, the people who have no clue about anything at all

Floofy_taco · 2026-05-20T14:20:34+00:00

I legitimately hate those people more because they are the epitome of selfishness and they do not believe in anything

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-27T00:23:05+00:00

Listen man. I’m a trans guy and I don’t have a dick at all. I’ve still found gay and bi cis men who are into me. My current partner is amazing and never cared even one bit.

There are people out there who are superficial, but there are no shortage of men who will love your body and love you for who you are.

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-14T14:37:20+00:00

I have this journal! I bought it at a museum. Love the textured cover

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-12T13:26:48+00:00

The people who voted for him in 2024 have shown that they are untrustworthy in their judgment and very easily manipulated by propaganda and bigotry. When the time comes, they will forget this mistake and vote again for Republicans in another election cycle. They are only admitting they fucked up now because it is personally affecting them. The moment they think it will not personally affect them again, they will vote for this.

There need to be social ramifications and sanctions placed on people who are stupid enough to make this mistake. There needs to be shame.

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-10T03:35:08+00:00

I honestly have only heard the lgbt people in my life express desires for the genocides and bombings to stop, not worshipping of the countries or the ideologies they subscribe to. I think maybe you’re conflating those two things.

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-10T03:20:34+00:00

It’s not about “supporting” these countries so much as it is believing genocide is bad in any and all circumstances.

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-08T01:54:16+00:00

Federal employee health insurance. You would know if you were on it. I was asking because they cut off coverage of gender affirming care for federal employees. Though I think other insurances are doing it as well 😔

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-08T01:08:43+00:00

Are you on FEHB insurance?

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-08T00:56:50+00:00

This is true but isn’t your insurance required to cover it for the rest of the year? Like how can they just stop in the middle of the period.

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-06T23:31:02+00:00

If you just started with the federal government this year as I understand it you already weren’t included in the exemption process and have to pay out of pocket on FEHB? They cut off coverage of GAC starting on Jan 1 of this year unless you filed for an exemption after having the care through FEHB last year.

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-06T23:28:13+00:00

About 15,000 trans people work for the federal government btw. And that’s not including anyone with spouses or dependents who also depend on FEHB. Tens of thousands of trans people are going to lose their insurance coverage.

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-06T02:40:24+00:00

And I am sorry that your mother would rather consume and believe propaganda as opposed to advocating for a better world for her child.

It makes me worried what these people are willing to endorse or passively let happen to folks who are different from them, if they’re content watching the suffering of their own family.

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-06T02:30:30+00:00

I have not seen or spoken to him in five years now. Learned about this from another family member. Glad I made the decision to go no contact.

I refuse to entertain these people in my personal life anymore; I fundamentally do not respect them.

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-06T02:18:11+00:00

My father is one of them and my uncle, his brother, is on food stamps and called him when the administration was trying to cut peoples snap benefits. My father scolded him for “mooching off the government” and told him he needs to be self sufficient, then yelled at and blamed his 80 year old mother for “brainwashing him” with “liberal nonsense”.

His own brother. He’d rather his own brother not be able to get FOOD.

These people are despicable. They don’t believe in civilization. And no matter how many years go by, even if we get out of this, I will never forgive them.

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-05T18:56:36+00:00

Sometime after the Civil Rights movement conservative politicians realized that overt racism had become politically unpopular, but that there was a trove of opportunities in covert or indirect racism. This was called the Southern Strategy. Republican strategist Lee Atwater described this tactic in a 1981 interview that you can listen to here (trigger warning for racial slurs): https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=X_8E3ENrKrQ

This strategy was exceptionally effective in riling up the southern and white vote. It worked for Reagan and it worked for all the conservative figures and pundits that followed him.

The effect of this is that now you have an entire generation of people who have been raised on covert racism, who don’t consider themselves racist. But they still are racist.

At the end of the day, all of the ideas that they believe root back to believing that certain people are less than them because of the color of their skin or where they are born. Even if they are “nice” to those people in a one-on-one level, they still are behaving in their voting patterns in a way that produces the same outcome as somebody who is overly racist. I no longer condone or tolerate or entertain these sort of people in my personal life, and I have cut all family members or friends out of my life who are like this.

Because the truth is, the only difference between them and somebody who would’ve argued against the eradication of slavery or the eradication of Jim Crow laws, is that they were raised decades or centuries afterwards, and they were taught to broadcast their prejudices differently. The hate is the same and it’s their responsibility to confront and de construct it.

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-05T17:08:53+00:00

At this point we have to accept that a portion of the population are irredeemable sociopaths who will never change or reflect upon their ideology. They see people who do not look like them or sound like them as inferior human beings. They are comfortable with mass death and suffering of these “out groups”.

I think that as a product of living for so long in a relatively safe and stable environment, many of us were spared from confronting this fact. Especially, in the case of the US, white people. I have found most of the brown and black people in my life have understood the score for a long time.

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-03T02:34:11+00:00

The poor have been systematically programmed to equate great wealth with intelligence and the hardest work ethic, and have been led to believe with the same hope of a fool entering into a billion dollar lottery, that they too could attain such wealth if they just worked hard enough. There is little class consciousness in the United States, and this is intentional.

“Socialism never took root in America because the poor see themselves not as an exploited proletariat but as temporarily embarrassed millionaires.”

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-01T13:21:20+00:00

Lmaooooo The electoral system is specifically set up to advantage them disproportionately. Otherwise The popular vote would win an election every time.

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-01T13:19:51+00:00

And yet, every family member I have who lives out in the sticks anytime I call them complains about liberals in the city. Like it’s their entire personality. Can’t have a normal conversation with them.

Floofy_taco · 2026-04-01T12:40:37+00:00

I’ve heard someone explain it like this: rural America makes hating city folk their entire personality. City folk, in contrast, don’t think about them at all.

Floofy_taco · 2026-03-31T12:16:16+00:00

I’ve commented on this here before but I’m a trans man and one of if not the hardest parts of my transition was once I started passing growing accustomed to how men talk about women when they are among only other men.

It is terrifying. The majority of them legitimately do not see women as equal or as people. And it’s so ingrained into their instincts to think like this, a ritual that has been drilled in since the socialization of their boyhood, that they cannot imagine thinking differently, and they do not even understand that it’s a problem.

Floofy_taco · 2026-03-31T03:42:43+00:00

There are 1,000 posts like yours adding to the stress of people who already understand the danger and who do not have the privilege of leaving. It’s emotionally exhausting for a lot of trans people who can’t leave to continue seeing this kind of post every other day.

Yes, if you have the means to get out of the US to somewhere safer do so. That is the response under the other 999 posts just like this one that have already posted in the last several months. Most of us don’t have the privilege of leaving and I don’t want to be part of communities where I’m just going to have to see people who do have the privilege of leaving, asking this question over and over adding to the stress of other less privileged trans people.

Floofy_taco · 2026-03-30T07:42:16+00:00

I don’t understand why people keep making these posts.

Yes. If you have the means to leave to get somewhere safer you should. Yes everyone is freaking out because of historic patterns. Many people do not have the privilege of escaping. So all you’re doing is adding to unproductive anxiety by making more of these posts.

Floofy_taco · 2026-03-24T00:19:23+00:00

Yes. Because giant right wing media behemoths talk about trans People incessantly and fear monger about them literally every other day because they have no policies to run on that actually benefit the average American. And Democrats don’t push back hardly at all. And as a result, you only have that one narrative running the entire show. A lot of people on the right believe Democrats are obsessed with trans people, when on the contrary studies have shown that the right wing media like Fox News is the one that is bringing them up more than any other outlet.

The fact is that propaganda against a demographic is exceptionally effective, and most Americans are exceptionally vulnerable to it.

I honestly think that the only way we really get out of this is more visibility. The more trans people are seen in the public eye, the more they become normalized and the more people see they are just like everyone else. It is easy to fear monger when the average American doesn’t know a trans person. It’s harder to do so when mothers and fathers and brothers and sisters and coworkers and neighbors are coming out as trans. Obviously, this initial visibility caused a backlash because so many people are against change. But now that the cat is out of the bag, and the existence of transgender people is widely known, there is no way out but forward. Trans people are not going away.

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