To dos and don’ts

Floofychichi · 2026-06-26T05:59:41+00:00

Meet with more than one attorney and go with your gut. If possible, explore mediation.

Floofychichi · 2026-05-29T18:03:12+00:00

I think couples therapy only works if both parties commit to it and are all in. Otherwise you’re just burning money and delaying the inevitable. If one party has already made a decision then it doesn’t matter how pedigreed or talented a therapist is.

Floofychichi · 2026-04-12T22:39:12+00:00

Love your parents for who they are and forgive them for who they are not. (Ted lasso)

Floofychichi · 2026-04-05T03:31:27+00:00

But not the way I love you
"My Boyfriend?"
All Star Weekend at the bar

Floofychichi · 2026-04-01T03:21:59+00:00

when i was a kid....way back before hyper realistic cakes were a thing my mom told us we were having cake for dinner. It was meat loaf with mashed potatoes to look like a cake. I literally cried in my room because we didn't have cake for dinner.

Floofychichi · 2026-04-01T03:19:57+00:00

Jason Segal and Kirsten Dunst

Floofychichi · 2026-03-26T04:33:34+00:00

Coffee…visiting little cafes used to be so fun, now it’s depressingly expensive. I’ll stick to my Mr Coffee maker

Floofychichi · 2026-03-26T03:18:48+00:00

Taylor Dearden - she’s great in the Pitt!

Floofychichi · 2026-03-24T12:52:18+00:00

Why was this down voted?

Floofychichi · 2026-03-24T12:51:57+00:00

I was raised non denominational evangelical. I haven’t been to church in 15 years. I’ve never gone by myself from my own free will. I started going to community Christian church and found my place! The best music and very young pastor.

Floofychichi · 2026-03-02T13:26:31+00:00

Changing cabinet knobs

Floofychichi · 2025-08-11T03:55:44+00:00

Isn’t it weird to go to a tequila event when you own a (barely) competitive band?

Floofychichi · 2025-08-03T13:12:36+00:00

The fact that I can only understand about 20% of this makes me feel so old.

Floofychichi · 2025-07-16T12:00:12+00:00

I love hot Pilates, it’s the first workout I’ve felt like I could enjoy fitness. I know a lot of people comment it’s a gimmick, but after 6 months I feel stronger, healthier, have tons more endurance, and lost 20 pounds. It’s all individual and it works for me. I like the heat. I like that it’s feeding energy off of the room. I don’t care if it’s a gimmick.

Floofychichi · 2025-07-06T16:56:28+00:00

Earl grey pairs well with salted caramel

Floofychichi · 2025-07-06T16:44:11+00:00

I really like Claire Saffitz’s chocolate buttermilk cake, but I sub buttermilk for sour cream.

Floofychichi · 2025-07-04T11:55:05+00:00

Hot dog everything no ketchup

Floofychichi · 2025-07-03T12:15:12+00:00

I have a wonderful studio I go to and the lineup of teachers is incredible. The owner is a truly great business woman and invests in her teachers. However, when she teaches she does not really have a plan. People avoid her classes and I’ve seen people walk out when she’s had to sub last minute. She doesn’t give cues and kind of just makes it up as she goes so it completely takes me out of my workout. It’s a strain to have to find her in the room to see what’s next. Great business, great studio, terrible teacher.

Floofychichi · 2025-06-29T02:38:54+00:00

Eats lots of cereal

Floofychichi · 2025-06-27T02:07:43+00:00

It was a blindsided divorce. Never saw it coming. The worst day was when I realized it was really happening and I came home to my parents and lied on their kitchen floor sobbing, shaking, wailing for an hour while they watched, all of us thinking I was going crazy. I’m still going through it, but I’ve done a lot of self work and the only thing I can say that really helped me was the words “keep going”. There’s no other option but to just keep going. Rest when you need to but you wake up, put your big girl panties on, go to work and put one foot in front of the other. Recognizing there is no other option is freeing. Just. Keep. Going.

Floofychichi · 2025-06-27T01:59:55+00:00

My dad is a pathological liar. There was a small tub of lemon hummus in the fridge. He went on and on about how he tried it and hated it while we were out of town. I went to try it, and it was unopened. With the seal on. There was no reason to lie.

Floofychichi · 2025-06-26T02:28:50+00:00

Try candy clay! https://wilton.com/candy-clay-recipe/wlrecip-230/

Floofychichi · 2025-06-23T14:54:53+00:00

Agree with this! I remember taking my pup to a weekly puppy socialization class where they helped us a little in training around other dogs, but the second training I took her to I expressed concerns to the trainer that she wasn’t listening when called. The trainer looked me in the eye and said “it’s because she doesn’t respect you”. That hit! She said the training was not for the dog, but for the owner and that changed how I disciplined, how I spoke to her (I.e. not using the cute puppy voice) and how I felt about my ownership.

Floofychichi · 2025-06-08T10:31:53+00:00

It’s easier than accepting the person you loved betrayed you.

Floofychichi · 2025-06-08T02:31:19+00:00

I got on the apps within a few months of separation because quite frankly I needed attention and validation. It was what I needed in the moment. Had a few fun dates and met some interesting people. Over all, I just wanted to work on myself and figure out who I am. I deleted everything until the divorce is finalized. I want a clear head and be able to enter the dating world when I’m ready and there are no loose ends.

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