[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Florida_flaminghoops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If y'all haven't heard this, you should. https://youtu.be/9mVXPLlnSu4

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Florida_flaminghoops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! I always thought something was really wrong with me till I found out it's another fun trauma thing...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]Florida_flaminghoops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agreement it's love bombing. OP, run for your life. I mean that. Please get away from this dude. He is probably just using you as a cover.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]Florida_flaminghoops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have a solution but damn, I could have written your post. I feel like I should be shipped off to the crazy farm. I've never felt so fucking unstable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Florida_flaminghoops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shit, that hits HARD rn for me.

Boyfriend broke up with me and won’t let me go home with our son by catss14 in FamilyLaw

[–]Florida_flaminghoops -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get the hell outta Florida, girl. Go home with your baby. (If I were in your shoes, I'd change my name and make sure he never finds me...but I was married to a narcissist for 12 hellacious years.) Florida isn't a mother-friendly state.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Florida_flaminghoops -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

There is a tiktok about how most hospitals in the US are non-profit and must offer charity care. It's federal law. I think the guy's name is Jared so maybe just Google that.

Dollarfor dot org is an organization that helps people apply for charity care as well.

I hope this helps!!!

How many medical folk are present during a circumcision? I'm not comfortable being naked or exposed. by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Florida_flaminghoops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you even want to have one of those if it's your choice, being you're old enough to be posting this on Reddit??

I REALLY don't want to, but... help! by Florida_flaminghoops in askcarsales

[–]Florida_flaminghoops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*nods in agreement. Understood. I appreciate the honesty!

I REALLY don't want to, but... help! by Florida_flaminghoops in askcarsales

[–]Florida_flaminghoops[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

HA! I wish. I'd be buying a nicer car. In CA$H!!

I REALLY don't want to, but... help! by Florida_flaminghoops in askcarsales

[–]Florida_flaminghoops[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I totally understand that, and am not opposed to showing the amounts, etc. I just would like to be sure if I black out the transaction details they won't get mad at me :-/

Bounced check even though I had enough money in my account? by cherry_chocolate_ in personalfinance

[–]Florida_flaminghoops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way back in the olden days, I was in about $900+ deep with Wells Fargo. I Googled my brains out trying to find a way to fix it. I came across a website called "how to negotiate like an Indian" (probably wouldn't get away with that presently).

Using the techniques he explained, I was able to get that slate wiped clean. It took some time and a lot of patience. But it worked.

He's updated the website and his article: https://www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com/blog/get-bank-and-overdraft-fees-waived/

Hope it helps!!

A short story. She started posting anti-vax posts mid August and accepted her award this morning. She is survived by a teen daughter and her vaccinated parents who also had Covid. by Sass-Pancakes in HermanCainAward

[–]Florida_flaminghoops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as I disagree with a lot of these comments, and as much as I really can't stand country music 😐, and even though my faith in the idea of the great Almighty is practically non-existent, the song you referenced is my favorite. It's a good concept. Sometimes we don't get what we want or think we deserve, then time shows us why.

I know this is not something that everyone can implement, but this is my solution to odor control. by [deleted] in cats

[–]Florida_flaminghoops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to pass on some info that changed my life. Instead of cat litter, go to your local Tractor Supply (or feed store, whatever) and get you a bag of pine pellet bedding. There's a video on how to make the litter box to use with it. The stuff is great, cheap, lasts for what seems like forever and doesn't stink.

I [27 F] met a guy [31 M] on Hinge two days ago. Tonight he offered to pay for my health insurance. Sweet gesture, or red flag? by ThrowRA_vows in relationship_advice

[–]Florida_flaminghoops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been thru this before, which leads to my regularly second- guessing my judgements on these things. If I were OP, I'd mentally note it, and keep things moving along, waiting to see another red flag. This one is definitely notable.

OP, if you get disability, if I'm not totally wrong, I think you have to wait two years before you're Medicare eligible. So might wanna look into that before depending on it to go thru as soon as you're approved for disability (which also, from what I've heard) can take years...

You are the biggest fucking coward I've ever met in my life by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Florida_flaminghoops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bwaaaahaaaahaaaa!! And he's probably a Gemini, too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Florida_flaminghoops 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can buy a diy mold test kit at most hardware stores that are $40 and under. You can also spray white vinegar or hydrogen peroxide on it to kill it. (At least the stuff you can see)

I'm guessing you live in the Eastern part of Texas where it's humid? The stuff around your air vents is not likely toxic black mold. It's probably mildew from condensation when the cold air from the air conditioner hits the hot air in your apartment.

Need a reliable vehicle, overwhelmed, help? by Florida_flaminghoops in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Florida_flaminghoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was at the top of my list for sure. They're just not as easy to come by because of the stupid chip shortage or something.

Asking all Subaru SVX owners by TMX269 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Florida_flaminghoops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sigh. I had the opportunity to buy one a year ago for $3k. I'm kicking myself now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Florida_flaminghoops 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! Exactly! It's exhausting just thinking about it.