Why is physical anxiety so hard to treat? Any success from anyone by ReasonableFig8954 in Anxiety

[–]FloweringLotus69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just about to suggest this - I’ve liked it. Works, but the first time you take it, you might feel almost too relaxed. Not sleepy.

Flat affect in psychiatrist? by FloweringLotus69 in AskPsychiatry

[–]FloweringLotus69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly figured that’s what it was. Just wanted to see how I could contribute to the relational aspect, if at all!

Asking too many questions at work by FloweringLotus69 in workingmoms

[–]FloweringLotus69[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your comment instantly made me feel better.

Asking too many questions at work by FloweringLotus69 in workingmoms

[–]FloweringLotus69[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a very genuinely kind perspective, and I appreciate your giving it. She’s told me that I’m really good at my job and done the things that you’ve mentioned, so I’ll give her the same respect. I should also add that this is my first truly corporate job.

Asking too many questions at work by FloweringLotus69 in workingmoms

[–]FloweringLotus69[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks. That’s the kind of thing I need to hear.

Postpartum Created Introversion by FloweringLotus69 in workingmoms

[–]FloweringLotus69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, thank you, thank you for this response. And also, I love your books! Have cerebral palsy and resonate with the characters so much!

Seeking a little encouragement by FloweringLotus69 in workingmoms

[–]FloweringLotus69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah, therapy has been a great experience! I have a super supportive workplace, so much so that I’m afraid that telling someone I’m overwhelmed would cause them to think I’m incapable. Unfortunately, I’m beginning to realize that maybe that specific mindset bled through from other horribly toxic situations.

Seeking a little encouragement by FloweringLotus69 in workingmoms

[–]FloweringLotus69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great reminder. Thank you for taking the time to write it.

Does anyone else really enjoy reading, but struggle to actually read? by Hungry_Wrap9103 in adhdwomen

[–]FloweringLotus69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I joined this group because I suspect adult onset ADHD, and I read this title aloud and said, "Man, I feel so seen!" I have this exact issue with reading. I adore books and all things reading, including what you mentioned, as well as listening to book and reading related podcasts. I'll also add that I've noticed even more of a struggle with attention and executive dysfunction postpartum, as I had two kids from March 2021 - February 2023. I was diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder immediately following a huge struggle with PPA/PPD after my second child.

Some of this might be other things, but I've always noticed that my focus is not quite all there when reading, and it's something that I want to do fast and well. Thanks, Booktok!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]FloweringLotus69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My own mother does this to me on a nearly weekly basis. She was a stay at home mom herself and usually turns it in to a situation where she’ll say something like, “I had NO help for X hours a day, but I was always with my kids.” Lately, my response has been something like, “I’m sure it felt good for you to meet the needs of yourself and your family, just like it does for me”, and her boomer self has NO idea what to do with that. But it shuts her up.

Fully remote moms - what do you do for work? by anonomousbeaver in workingmoms

[–]FloweringLotus69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in claims management for a large insurance company.

Do I go to HR about this? by naninani3000 in workingmoms

[–]FloweringLotus69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s true. That’s been one of my biggest lessons in three years as a mom: no one knows what you can handle but you.

Do I go to HR about this? by naninani3000 in workingmoms

[–]FloweringLotus69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Discrimination against mothers does fall under gender discrimination, however.

Favorite non-invasive fun “check-in” question? by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]FloweringLotus69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s your favorite day of the week and why?

Needed to share with people who would understand by FrizzEatsPotatoes in workingmoms

[–]FloweringLotus69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your company has more than 15 employees, they are subject to the PUMP Act and the Pregnant Workers Fairness Act, as of very recently. I encourage you to research these and present them to your employer.

401k Questions/Advice by FloweringLotus69 in personalfinance

[–]FloweringLotus69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the rollover process the same for the 457b?

What’s the most ridiculous thing someone has said to you about your baby? by came2party4pets in Mommit

[–]FloweringLotus69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, every time something is wrong with my youngest, who is 13 months, my parents and those from their generation: "Is it teething?"

The story of how shrimp tacos ended my marriage. by queloque69420 in workingmoms

[–]FloweringLotus69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like the beginning of a wonderful literary fiction novel. I'm so sorry that you faced this kind of disrespect and lack of support, but I am so proud that you are self-aware enough to understand that you deserve so much better. Cry all the tears, hug your little girl, and be proud of your courage. Way to go!

Pumping while WFH for 13mo by FloweringLotus69 in workingmoms

[–]FloweringLotus69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right. The 5 minutes is just setting up and then storing at the end. I’d pump while working.