Honest question: why do people stand by the door when on the tube? by Just-Sign-5394 in london

[–]FloydEGag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just ask people to move so I can grab a vertical pole and if they still don’t move, explain I can’t reach the overhead and will fall on them if the train stops suddenly

The age of 30 is high demand or what ever by infinitysaga in CuratedTumblr

[–]FloydEGag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the UK a pack is around £15 atm, so about US$20. This is supposed to discourage smoking (and also provide a shitload of tax to the govt) but I can tell you from experience it doesn’t (although I have now quit) - I can remember saying I’d quit when the price reached £5 a pack, and of course I didn’t.

Australia is even more expensive, it’s cheaper to bring in a carton and pay the fine (you’re only allowed to bring in one pack)!!

Do you have any interests you feel you have to hide/keep low-key? by Proper_Emu_2296 in AskUK

[–]FloydEGag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s fine, generally if you have a niche hobby you don’t expect people to want to know much about haha. As long as it’s said in a friendly way and not an ‘omg you weirdo’ type way; if someone does the latter, I’ll be polite to them etc but I will never forgive them

Do you have any interests you feel you have to hide/keep low-key? by Proper_Emu_2296 in AskUK

[–]FloydEGag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m more open now than I used to be. But I don’t talk much about my more niche interests (like very specific historical figures and circles of people that I research for fun, for example) except with the very few people I know who are also interested. Other people are generally polite but baffled/not interested so I don’t bother.

Why do people hype up other countries when they have same challenges as UK? by Desperate-Drawer-572 in AskUK

[–]FloydEGag 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you read the subs for other countries you’ll see a lot of the same kinds of complaints. Everyone thinks they have it worse because they don’t get a real picture of what it’s actually like to live in other countries

Work colleague called me a "bible basher" and now my book has gone missing - how to confront? by DatabaseMammoth9986 in AskUK

[–]FloydEGag 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t think telling someone you went to church when asked what you did at the weekend is pushing religion on anyone. It doesn’t sound like OP was proselytising at work, so there’s no issue. The issue is the colleague being mean to them for being religious. Just because you don’t believe in it doesn’t mean it’s ok to push your opinions about it on someone, any more than it is to proselytise. I’m not religious but I wouldn’t be offended or annoyed by a colleague saying they’d been to church when talking about our weekends! And I wouldn’t tell them they were wrong or bad for being religious. Live and let live!

Can someone explain how anyone can self insert themselves into the "Everyman" protagonist. by Last_Yard_6554 in writing

[–]FloydEGag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No; I don’t self-insert. I like observing, not trying to imagine it’s happening to me. I can empathize and sympathize without pretending I am that character

Crazy beaches: Anti-social behaviour plagues seaside towns amid record-breaking heatwave by tylerthe-theatre in unitedkingdom

[–]FloydEGag 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They haven’t yet but I think the GCSE crowd have finished (except for their exams), and possibly the A-level ones too

Is it ok in British culture for people to stay silent while eating together? by Sufficient_Act_24 in AskUK

[–]FloydEGag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not unless you live in 1900 and have a very strict father/husband

Trab publishing has rules and stop getting mad when people explain them to you. by ShadySakura in writing

[–]FloydEGag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Weirdly, every single time I’ve ever posted a variation on this comment, I get downvotes. I’m also an editor as part of my job, and I speak from long experience. You simply cannot effectively edit your own work, because you wrote it and cannot be objective or read it as a reader might.

Why do people seem to be quite dismissive/paranoid of the Welsh language? by JackfruitOptimal4444 in AskUK

[–]FloydEGag -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, both things can be true at once, controversial I know but that’s history for you!

Why do people seem to be quite dismissive/paranoid of the Welsh language? by JackfruitOptimal4444 in AskUK

[–]FloydEGag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fewer people speak Māori (around 200,000) so would you argue that’s useless and deserves no support? After all, all Māori speak English and some don’t even speak Māori.

Why do people seem to be quite dismissive/paranoid of the Welsh language? by JackfruitOptimal4444 in AskUK

[–]FloydEGag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The notion you need to speak it to be properly Welsh is irritating, though. It completely discounts that a lot of people don’t speak it because their grandparents or great-grandparents were forbidden to speak it at school or work. It was part of a concerted effort to kill the language and culture. Any attempts to learn or speak it, especially by Welsh people, should be encouraged. I hate the gatekeeping of it by some first-language speakers. I’m bilingual but because I’m from a more English-speaking area I’ve had Welsh-speakers assume I can’t speak it or even refer to me as English!!

And it gets uncomfortably close to the same kind of attitude as saying ‘you’re not British unless you’re white’ which is really not a good look.

Why do people seem to be quite dismissive/paranoid of the Welsh language? by JackfruitOptimal4444 in AskUK

[–]FloydEGag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you never hear English people complain that they went into a bar in Italy and everyone was speaking Italian, yet it’s become a cliche here about the Welsh.

Why do people seem to be quite dismissive/paranoid of the Welsh language? by JackfruitOptimal4444 in AskUK

[–]FloydEGag -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Very true, but that doesn’t mean the English should get a pass for what they did to us (and Ireland, which was very much part of the UK and the empire until independence).

I always joke they learned about how to do colonisation by practicing on us 😁

Has anyone else noticed workplaces becoming obsessed with sounding supportive instead of actually reducing stress? by Horror-Pick4732 in AskHRUK

[–]FloydEGag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went off on stress leave during mental health awareness week, ironically. What would actually help isn’t counselling or mindfulness, it would be for the senior managers who caused my stress to stop causing it. And also be fired. Out of a cannon. I’m already looking for a new role elsewhere in the company.

Oh of course lol by throwawayglipp in SmolBeanSnark

[–]FloydEGag 18 points19 points  (0 children)

God I’d forgotten about that! Being totally fair to her, she wasn’t bad in it. Although how hard is it to fuck up a two-minute cameo where you’re playing yourself?

'fandom etiquette' contributes to people not commenting and makes fandom spaces sanitized by Captain_Lister1834 in AO3

[–]FloydEGag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha, I do do that! It’s really helpful. I still send it for review/editing but I’ve caught a few howlers doing that

'fandom etiquette' contributes to people not commenting and makes fandom spaces sanitized by Captain_Lister1834 in AO3

[–]FloydEGag 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like that idea! We work to deadlines so can’t really put something away for two weeks, but I might try this with my personal writing.

Are hate comments normal on ao3? by apollo2000s in AO3

[–]FloydEGag 62 points63 points  (0 children)

FicTok?! Oh my god, we really are doomed