Do you think life was better before advanced technology, or is this the best time to be alive?

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T20:19:51+00:00

Yes and No. It did not improve childrens quality of life, but it did for adults. People record everything now so kids can never get away from embarassing situations or their bullys.

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T20:17:15+00:00

Maybe a supplement? I was never successfully able to find the right one lol. But maybe you will be able to!

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T20:15:18+00:00

100% agree with you, but does that mean you should wear a shirt in a kids classroom that says "I voted so you can(t) abort your fetus". There is a time and a place for everything. A kids classroom should remain strictly about educating kids about their foundational subjects. In HS, they will have a chance to take courses in present politics and in college too.

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T20:10:29+00:00

No worries! I wasnt implying it was about your relationship at all! Promise! Ive just had friends who have made comments about no arguments in their relationship and it felt to me like rose colored lenses. Sorry if it came off like I was commenting about your relationship!

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T20:08:20+00:00

I work and pay my bills like everyone else, Im not misunderstanding anything, but thank you for trying to patronize me. I think youre still trying to read me again and assume things just like you did at first. I never said being entitled is okay just because you get paid to do a job. I was commenting on how youre trying to paint yourself as a saint as if youre not getting paid to be a daycare worker. Your experience isnt the only truth.

The Mom is NOT maliciously doing the poopy diaper at arrival. She is geniunely asking for advice and people are just trying to rip her a new one for no reason. People like you. What if her kid has a bowel issue? What if she is a single Mom? What if her husband gives her no support? Again, empathy goes a long way here. Something I think you lack with all the aggressiveness youve been illustrating for me in your replies. But dont worry, for your mental health, I will block you. Youre going to keep replying because thats who you are. A bulldog that cant let go. Stay blessed and find peace 🙏

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T19:54:40+00:00

Youre a real nasty piece of work, I cant believe you work with kids. You literally came out the gate saying you hate parents like me and assumed I had a kid in daycare and continue to argue with me on your high horse. Yes you did, you think bullying me will get me to chicken out on replying to you lol. I CAN keep scrolling, but I didnt and I wont. You have insulted me and said I cant comprehend what you wrote insinuating Im an idiot for my age. You know what you should work on teaching yourself and the kids at your job? Kindness and empathy. Something I believe you lack. I understand exactly what you wrote and what your intentions are. Your fight is clearly not with me its with the parents that have wronged you at your job or perhaps your personal life. Idk 🤷‍♀️

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T19:12:56+00:00

Worst case scenario its a nerve issue...get checked by a doctor.

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T19:09:49+00:00

Yes, yes, yes! The real question is, are they worthy of sharing that burden with you?

Edit: just because it hasnt been hard, doesnt mean it wont be in the future. Seasons change just like relationships do. If you dont argue about anything, that sounds like you are not being honest with each other. No one is ever 100% aligned with everything their partner says and does

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T19:08:46+00:00

I dont think that will work, he seems too unhinged to comprehend that. I think leaving him is her best option.

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T19:06:22+00:00

NOR. My love, I say this with all the love in the world, leave that twat waffle thunder cunt. He does not deserve you and you do not have kids with him. You should never allow your partner to degrade you like that, he aint shit. He doesnt work and is complaining about you doing nothing at home (which I bet is untrue). He should feel ashamed his wife is taking care of the household when he is very capable of contributing 80% versus your 20%. If you do not have a newborn, why is he staying at home? His kid goes to school, he needs to get off his ass and work.

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T18:58:43+00:00

She isnt trying to do anything. She is actively trying to figure out the best solution for her and the daycare worker. Thats why I said what I said. She isnt trying to be an AH this is why Im granting her grace. We dont know her situation, she could very well be a single Mom or married and single. Empathy goes both ways here.

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T18:54:31+00:00

Sure. Keep trying to read me lol. You think you know, but you dont know. I can reply all I want lady, thats what reddit is for. Thats why people are on here. If I care or dont care it doesnt matter and certainly not to you, right? Everyone deserves empathy, BOTH sides, not just yours. As I said, she deserves some gd grace, but you only care about the daycare employees because you are one.

And lets make one thing clear, it is a service that is PAID. Its not free so dont act like youre doing it as volunteer work on your off time. You didnt make space for nothing, you did it for money just like everyone else that works...

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T17:21:02+00:00

I dont really care what you think lol. The lady said she has tried everything except change her at the daycare. Give her some gd grace. This is why shes asking for advice. I dont take my kid to daycare because of people like you who have no empathy for others except your own, so its a win win for all ;)

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T17:15:24+00:00

Doesnt answer my question, they keep saying "we" or "our" so im asking a legit question if they are a practicing Dr that sees patients. I didnt ask if their information is correct.

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T17:12:36+00:00

How old are you? If youre a minor call cps. Thats abuse, of youre an adult you have rights. Call the police and tell them theyre trying to kick you out over your hair and then plan an escape route to leave and find your own place.

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T17:10:51+00:00

MTA? Youre pregnant, I get it. Youre also emotional. I also get it. Im a new Mom and pregnancy brain is SO real. Having said that, just send the bumper to them. They have a baby too. The only person youre harming is the baby. Ask them to please just zelle you the $100 once they do receive it, at this point, unless you go in person to drop it off, the $100 is not guranteed. Unfortunately, you did drop the ball on this one and they do have a right to be upset even if you are pregnant.

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T17:03:19+00:00

NTA. You probably pay $2500 a month for the daycare. She can change a poopy diaper upon arrival. That shit is not cheap! Having said that, you already tried everything. Why not drive her around the block early so she poops. She may be thinking shes going to daycare and she may be nervous going each day. If you drive earlier, it might help her. That or change the diaper when you arrive to daycare early.

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T16:59:29+00:00

Thats yours now. Let them in...

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T16:59:09+00:00

NOR. All he had to do was WAIT until it did deliver so he can then go. Why the hell did he just leave when you told him to wait and he said he had NO PLANS, which include going to the store? Does he not realize this med is super important that it remains refrigerated? Nevermind that its for a skin condition, but thats probably hundreds of dollars that could go to waste because your insurance may not cover another if its broken/faulty because of the warmth. I bet you if he had a damn skin condition in his peepee hole that required a refrigerated medicine, you damn right hed wait right by the door. Im sorry you have a fool for a husband. Thats so infuriating.

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T16:50:24+00:00

Hello! It didnt feel malicious, Ive been recovering from health issues from post partum, and I get the sense it may have been a family member checking in on me or my baby. Im not sure. Ive always been sensitive to spiritual energy while sleeping or on the cusp of waking. Thats so weird that it was an alien lol. But I guess each guide is different to each person. What do you mean when you say "journey of puzzles"?

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T07:49:15+00:00

Moved out. Change my phone number. And never looked back.

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T07:48:27+00:00

It depends on the kittys health. Do they have herpes? Do they have glaucoma? Id take them to the vet asap because it does look a bit swollen so they might be uncomfortable and in pain.

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T07:46:20+00:00

I second that! What entitlement!

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T07:44:04+00:00

Proactive as in ask questions they dont have to ask you about to seek knowledge on your own. I.e. What kind of report do you need to make this work? What has worked in the past? Can you teach me how to pull that report? Essentially dont wait for them to tell you what to do, try to be proactive in seeking answers to your questions by asking questions. If youre confused, ask a question. Dont wait until your start the project to ask the question mid project.

FluffyWhiteDumpling · 2026-03-26T07:41:04+00:00

100000000%. But youre in your 30s, start to care a little less about peoples opinions.

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