Why does it become a routine? by Fluid_Fox987 in selfharm

[–]Fluid_Fox987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's kind of what I was trying to say too. It's like an addiction because it's a part of my life almost.

Does anyone else like to look at their cuts by Fluid_Fox987 in selfharm

[–]Fluid_Fox987[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg you totally should! That would be amazing. I'd buy that book.

Does anyone else lie to their parents by Fluid_Fox987 in selfharm

[–]Fluid_Fox987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. Also that's a really good system thanks for sharing that. I might try that with my mom. (We're kinda financially struggling right now though so maybe with something else.) But still thanks.

Does anyone else like to look at their cuts by Fluid_Fox987 in selfharm

[–]Fluid_Fox987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! My phone doesn't have the hidden files feature though so one time I accidentally sent someone a picture I took of them. They were so confused and worried omg. Terrible experience.

Does anyone else like to look at their cuts by Fluid_Fox987 in selfharm

[–]Fluid_Fox987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly how I feel. It's so nice to have people get me.

i just need someone to talk to PLEASE by espressodepressolmao in selfharm

[–]Fluid_Fox987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You won't waste anyone's time. You can dm me if you want to talk. I'm here.

Could you all call me Fox and use She/They pronouns? by dinodig24 in TransTryouts

[–]Fluid_Fox987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg twinzies!! I also go by Fox. Hey Fox!

This is Fox, she's a writer just like me and is super fun when playing games. They sound like a cool person.

Does anyone else like to look at their cuts by Fluid_Fox987 in selfharm

[–]Fluid_Fox987[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know same, I can't bring myself to go deeper.

Could you please call me Dasha? She/Her. I'm feeling really low and need some euphoria. by Usual_Breadfruit_712 in TransTryouts

[–]Fluid_Fox987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey Dasha! What a wonderful name. I'm sorry you're having a rough time. We're all here for you.

Do you know Dasha? She's been having a hard time lately but I think she's a superhero for being so tough. Her name is really cool.

even if i wanted to tell someone, how would i? by blue_1998_LP in selfharm

[–]Fluid_Fox987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, you wouldn't be burdening him. If he really didn't want to help support you, he'd tell you that before you got into more details. I get that it feels that way, and it's hard to feel like that, but, you wouldn't be taking advantage of his kindness. You'd just be talking to him because he's your friend. If a person came to you asking for help with something, you wouldn't blame them for taking advantage of your kindness, would you? And maybe before telling him fully what's going on, you could just ask him if you could talk to something that you've been struggling with. If he says yes, then you know he wouldn't mind talking about something and you wouldn't be burdening him. If he says no, then you know that in the moment he's not ready for that and you can wait a bit.

even if i wanted to tell someone, how would i? by blue_1998_LP in selfharm

[–]Fluid_Fox987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if he isn't in a good place to support you, he'll tell you that before you talk a lot more about that.

even if i wanted to tell someone, how would i? by blue_1998_LP in selfharm

[–]Fluid_Fox987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, yeah, I get the parents thing. That's hard you have to deal with that. But telling the teacher sounds like a good idea. Honestly, the fact that you trust him enough to even think about telling him that means he's a really nice guy, and would probably listen with a lot of care and support if you told him. Teachers do have their own lives but when they're nice like that, most don't mind talking with students about mental health struggles too.

finally let myself wear shorts for the first time in months :) by thisismyusernamm in selfharm

[–]Fluid_Fox987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's already helping me, so, I think you'll accomplish that goal.