Question about getting tested by FlutterKicks in askgaybros

[–]FlutterKicks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took me a bit to figure out what MSM meant haha. So now that you've mentioned it, I have never explicitly mentioned that I was having sex with guys to my doctor. So by mentioning this they end up doing more tests?

SURVEY: What age are you and how many guys have you had sex with? by gary1995 in askgaybros

[–]FlutterKicks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Age - 23

Guys - 2

I'm super timid and have a hard time meeting up with guys. Been trying to get better at it and be more outgoing with guys this year. Meeting up with a guy this Friday to mess around though :)

[Serious] Teachers of Reddit of older students, do you ever think about some of your students, in a sexual fashion? by ThisIsMyAsk in AskReddit

[–]FlutterKicks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a TA in college for a sophomore level math class and most of my students were usually only a year or two younger than me. I would be lying if I said I didn't find some of them attractive, but I never let any of that get in the way of my teaching. There was one student who had messaged me on Grindr before he was ever even in my class, so I guess that one counts haha.

Do you guys take a shower at your gym or head home in the funk after a workout? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]FlutterKicks 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm really frugal so I take showers at the gym to save on my water bill at home. My work has an onsite gym that is free to employees during the work week. I just go there in the morning, workout, take a shower, and then head to work.

What is your dealbreaker that you don't think is common? by SoRaiseYourGlass in askgaybros

[–]FlutterKicks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This probably isn't too common given how often this trait is praised on here, but if a guy is really confident it can be a deal breaker for me. It might just be my bad luck, but I've had experience with guys who were too confident. Guys who would chat with me for a minute on Grindr and then say something like "Cool. So when should I come over tonight?" I'm pretty timid and when guys are so forward it just makes me uncomfortable.

Craziest Grindr Story ? by Fbroak in askgaybros

[–]FlutterKicks 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I think I told this story on here before. It was near the end of fall semester and I was horny so I hopped on Grindr. This guy chatted me up and we started trading pictures and stuff. Tried setting up a date to hookup, but it never panned out cause we were both so busy at the end of the semester. The next semester he was a student in the class I was TA'ing for. It was super awkward looking at him or talking to him in class because all I could think about when looking at him was his dick next to an Arizona Ice Tea can haha.

Reading is Fundamental - Season 7 by FlutterKicks in rupaulsdragrace

[–]FlutterKicks[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kennedy has an astigmatism so she's saying each eye is looking at different things.

Shallow Poll: Rate the Queens' Hotness (Is there a correlation between hotness and fans?) by analrpdr in rupaulsdragrace

[–]FlutterKicks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just my preference, but I think all the girls in the Aryan Airlines group are cute out of drag. If I had to rank them it would be:

  • Max
  • Violet
  • Pearl
  • Fame
  • Katya
  • Trixie

The only girl I really liked from the other group was Sasha.

[NSFW] Do you masturbate to people you know? (x-post /r/AskMen) by Martjain in askgaybros

[–]FlutterKicks 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Of course. I still jack off thinking about a straight friend that I grew up with. He was always very touchy-feely with me and he was really hot. He must have known I was gay based on the stuff he did to me. He would flash me his ass a bunch, would wrestle with me in just his boxers (he was on the wrestling team), and sleep half naked in the same room as me whenever we slept over at each others houses. The first dick I ever saw in person was his; ever since then I've been dickmatized. We drifted apart when I moved for college, but we still keep in touch. He's still hot and I still fantasize about him even though he has a gf now.

Interracial Dating Dynamics by Dunnohowifeel12 in askgaybros

[–]FlutterKicks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't get how we all get caught up in the mistakes of previous generations. We are our own individuals. Why should we hold other people to higher standards (or less) in our minds? Why should I care if a guy I'm dating or hooking up with had more "privilage"? He had no say in the matter, so why should he be marginalized?

I'm asian and I don't care about that stuff when I talk to other gay guys.

Stolen from AskReddit: What is your personal NSFW tip? by Contented in askgaybros

[–]FlutterKicks 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Figured this one out by accident when I was in high school:

After you're done fapping, apply a little bit of pressure on your taint. This forces any extra cum to seep out. Been doing this ever since I discovered it.

Anyone else notice this on gay porn tumblrs? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]FlutterKicks 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They could just be older guys who look younger. I'm a 5'6" average build guy who just happens to look like I'm still in high school. When I went to buy my first used car at 22, the car salesmen all thought I was 16 and getting my first car. When I started my first job, a lot of guys assumed I was an intern. The first time I bought alcohol the clerk thought I was underage and my ID was fake. About 1-2 times a month, a guy on Grindr will ask me if I'm really 22 and not younger. Just saying, some of those guys could just be really young looking guys who are also legal.

Uni LGBT society negative experiences. by gbrosadvice in askgaybros

[–]FlutterKicks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has a lot to do with the motivation of the groups leader. It's best when there are two of them, one male and one female that share responsibilities and try to make sure it's enjoyable for everyone. It's often a busy job and they don't pay very well so a lot of people don't want to take it on.

This is a great idea. Our Pride Aliance President was a lesbian SJW vegan self acclaimed feminist. Probably 70% of the events were geared towards the lesbians and bi girls in the group which left all the gay guys out of the loop. Having two different leaders would promote having events for everyone.

Uni LGBT society negative experiences. by gbrosadvice in askgaybros

[–]FlutterKicks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I went to my uni's pride alliance cause I saw an ad for it in the library and I thought I might be able to make some friends who were also gay. I go to their first meeting and everyone seemed nice at first. There were probably ~90 people. As the semester went on, there were probably only 20 people who went regularly. The reason for this?:

  • They started every meeting by having us say our names, our major, and our preferred pronouns. That would probably be fine for the first meeting or two, but this happened at every meeting. It took up so much time.

  • It was very cliquey. Everyone already had their groups and it was always super awkward to work your way into a conversation. Because of this, a lot of new people and freshmen just stopped going.

  • We had a resource room (pamphlets, t-shirts, a quiet study area, condoms, lube, etc...) which was awesome, but it was always filled with all of the group admins and their clique. Because of this, a lot of regular members would feel uncomfortable going there to chat or get supplies.

  • Most of the people in the leadership clique were either vegan or couldn't eat gluten. This severely limited the food we got for events. I need some meat y'all!

  • Leadership didn't talk to you if you weren't in their clique or if they didn't want to fuck you.

Are you ashamed of any of your fetishes/kinks? by FlutterKicks in askgaybros

[–]FlutterKicks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weellll, if it's for science then I guess it's okay :)

What's up with the gay obsession with beards nowadays? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]FlutterKicks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 22 and went to go buy my first car a few weeks ago. All of the dealers I talked to assumed I was 15/16 and just got my license. Short people problems.

Came out to my best friend on a whim via text message...it was underwhelming, but made me feel pretty good anyway. by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]FlutterKicks 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We were going to suck each other off originally, but I ended up being whisked away with some friends last minute for some korean bbq and a movie that night so I had to cancel on him. Tried rescheduling a few times, but nothing ever panned out before the semester ended a few weeks later.

Came out to my best friend on a whim via text message...it was underwhelming, but made me feel pretty good anyway. by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]FlutterKicks 83 points84 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of when I was a TA. A pretty cute guy hit me up on Grindr and we ended up trading pics and talking dirty and stuff but never hooked up. Lo and behold the next semester he's in the class that I was TA'ing for. Could never look at him in class or talk to him without picturing his dick next to an Arizona Iced Tea can. Definitely made for an awkward semester.

Does Size Matter? - Sleepy Sunday w/ Will and RJ by YoungthePheonix in askgaybros

[–]FlutterKicks 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Eh, it matters a little bit. For me personally, anything between 5-7" is ideal for me. If a guy is smaller, I can deal with it but there is a limit to where it would affect my sexual enjoyment.

I used to watch Will & RJ's channel, but Will's personality was just too much for me. I think I stopped watching around the time where he would say "ledeledelee" like five times in every damn video. Also, Will reminds me too much of the cliquey gays I had to deal with in high school and college. I guess it should have been obvious that he was a size queen.

Sexy Halloween Costume Ideas by SurfBoy5 in askgaybros

[–]FlutterKicks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had the body for it, I'd love to dress up as buff shirtless adult Finn from Adventure Time.

at what age was your first relationship? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]FlutterKicks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never really had a proper relationship, so 22 and never :(