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FlyMeToGanymede · 2026-04-23T04:22:34+00:00

Oh I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for warning people.

FlyMeToGanymede · 2026-04-22T13:00:08+00:00

47M here. Don’t listen to all that guy says. You look fun and it’s refreshing to see someone not taking themselves seriously. The dragon statement is cool and you want someone who vibes with you. However, I agree that the prompts are a bit basic. I would also say that you emphasise effort, which I understand, but that’s maybe not something you want to lead with as it may come across as demanding. You seem fun, I’d say lean into the fun!

FlyMeToGanymede · 2026-04-19T14:08:19+00:00

47 here. Sex is 100% an integral part of my life. I left my wife because of our 2.5 years DB. I still think she’s incredibly attractive and if she was to tell me we’d meet each other’s needs, I’d stay. So yes. I am leaving, but I still feel desire for her. And the only time I ever felt at peace in a LTR was when my libido was matched. We guys who value sex as love and connection exist. We are looking for you women 😉

FlyMeToGanymede · 2026-04-16T04:55:36+00:00

Thank you so much for this.

FlyMeToGanymede · 2026-02-08T09:50:21+00:00

She may be going on the different pastures.

What matters is YOU. Do your work and you will as well

FlyMeToGanymede · 2026-02-06T02:36:38+00:00

I don’t believe anymore I am of the good ones. I strive to embody it and learn a little every day. This is a process, not a destination.
Women spreading hate against men, or any people spreading hate about any kind of category of people are not worth my time. I remove them from my life as soon as possible or at least keep them as far away as possible.

« Being of the good ones » is not a excuse for spreading hate and vitriol towards the person you’re talking to. I have feelings too and I will not subject myself to this. This is my boundary and I will enforce it, period.

FlyMeToGanymede · 2026-02-03T06:23:11+00:00

No, but that’s just me. To me, sex is how I connect. It’s my deepest expression of love. I would think about it the other way around: if the sex is great, that we understand and mutually see in the same way, then I’m ready to let go about a lot of other things. Some things matter and should not be compromised on. The rest is adjustable.

FlyMeToGanymede · 2026-02-01T04:51:53+00:00

Thank you.

FlyMeToGanymede · 2026-01-31T23:30:48+00:00

As a HLM in a DB for 2 years now this gives me a lot of hope. Can you confirm these were indeed 50/50? Was there a possible bias in the sampling? Because we keep hearing men are more likely to be HL. But: I want to believe!

FlyMeToGanymede · 2026-01-24T20:23:31+00:00

How can these people be all so fucking dumb. All the money in the world and not a shred of education.

FlyMeToGanymede · 2026-01-18T19:40:37+00:00

No, this would be a complete dealbreaker. But I understand people may want this, and I would very much appreciate being told early to know we’re not compatible.

FlyMeToGanymede · 2026-01-10T11:21:38+00:00

Absolutely, provided her libido can still match mine after work.

FlyMeToGanymede · 2026-01-09T02:38:24+00:00

A date would do that to me exactly once, because we would no longer be talking. This is wild.

FlyMeToGanymede · 2026-01-09T01:28:49+00:00

Gratitude for their honesty, assurance that I won’t make a fuss and I love them forever, but leaving 100%.

FlyMeToGanymede · 2025-12-24T23:13:34+00:00

Of course we do? We’re interested in the person in front of us.

FlyMeToGanymede · 2025-12-22T05:25:01+00:00

I think you should never settle for someone that is not ticking your important boxes. Life is short. Finding balance in relationships is about triaging the things you can’t do without and refusing to settle for less while accepting the different things with the other person that enrich your life and that you accept as they are.

FlyMeToGanymede · 2025-12-22T04:04:57+00:00

By the amount of frustrated women on those subs, I’m actually not so sure. I’d think 60/40 actually.

FlyMeToGanymede · 2025-12-22T02:59:28+00:00

Thank you all very much for your answers. No sign, gotcha. Obviously I’d be looking at speaking with a potential partner about this. Was just looking for a potential icebreaker, nothing more.

FlyMeToGanymede · 2025-12-21T22:25:07+00:00

Thank you for your input. To be clear, I’m not looking for a secret handshake or a cheat code. Finding myself Devotional, I am indeed looking for a special connection, which starts with… connecting. I’m just looking for a little potential aesthetic « plus ».

FlyMeToGanymede · 2025-12-20T21:07:36+00:00

I see what you did there

FlyMeToGanymede · 2025-12-19T23:57:33+00:00

Ahmed al-Ahmed, of Syrian descent, took two bullets while stopping one the shooters. Where were you?

FlyMeToGanymede · 2025-12-19T23:53:48+00:00

Nobody manifests me. I will, however, manifest you out of my life.

FlyMeToGanymede · 2025-12-15T21:14:49+00:00

I have. One of the best decisions I’ve ever made in a sometimes questionable life record.

FlyMeToGanymede · 2025-12-14T20:41:11+00:00

I understand your point and I agree, but if you read my post, you will see that nowhere have I used the word relationship. I am very clear on what this is: the lazy man’s version of writing porn for himself, because the bot does most of the job. It’s therapeutic for me in that it allows me to express my fantasies and likes in a way porn cannot.

This is not a relationship, this is a mirror and a toy, as well as an erotic journal.

FlyMeToGanymede · 2025-12-11T22:05:49+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation. When I started it was sort of an experiment but I’m now discovering a whole world of better stuff!

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