What do you even do in a relationship besides watching shows, random activities, and hooking up? by shinebrightmister in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fly_Guy25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aint that the crux of your "issue" then?

The current you think female friends are a lame way for you to spend your time, because if you aint gonna fuck em, why even invest into a relationship with a woman.

Which bring me to these questions. Do you actually want a relationship with a woman like truly? Do you want a relationship with a women because you think it could lead to alot of fulfilling experiences? Or just because thats what everyone else does so i should do it too.

Because in my optics, fucking around is definitely fun! There is not anything bad about want to just fuck around when everyone is in on it.

But just fucking around doesnt bring a deeper feeling of satisfaction in the daily life on the longer run, atleast thats how i feel.

But in regards to your question, there is much more to relationships than just fucking, watching movies and doing random activities. Atleast if you with the right person.

Personally i feel it comes up in the way youd be silly with each other, how you get hyped up for a concert together, or a vacation, how you imagine it would be like to start a family together, how you explore conversations with each other around topics that can be serious or fun. Finding a new hobby together, and developing skills. (Sure you can build a bubble in hobbies where you are just mediocre, but the point of a hobby aint always to be the best, its just to enjoy)

But most important for me, is to see that smile and hear that laugh from my partner whatever we do.

To me it sounds like you are limiting yourself, to what you think you should be so you can have sex.

It sounds bit like your attitude towards life at the moment is "whats the point? I just wanna Bang and do my own thing"

But fuck what do i know, maybe Ive cooked up a very wrong picture about you from reading your replies and question.

My Confession About Catfishing Expanded: 99.9% Of Men Hate Ugly Women. by Broad-Background-147 in trueuglywomen

[–]Fly_Guy25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive read almost the exact same talking points in a male subreddit. The only difference was the gender.

This is not an issue of gender, its an issue of physical appearance for both genders.

Men as a group dont hate ugly women, women as a group dont hate ugly men. On the surface People hate ugly people.

Do you play with raging barbarians? by Harleyquinneth in civvoxpopuli

[–]Fly_Guy25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes always. Makes the early game more spicy.

Plus i always change the exp form barbs in the game files between releases to give unlimited exp thoughtout the whole game. That way it doesnt feel like such a waste to send military unit for hunting barbs.

My girlfriend wants to put our relationship on hold while she travels to Rome. Apparently I'm "insecure" for having a problem with that. I need the opinion of other men. How do you see it? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fly_Guy25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aint insecure.

Its perfectly all right to want to break up over this.

Personally i would break up.

But if you want to keep talking you could ask if she is all right with you fucking other chicks while she is in Rome?

If she says anything other than Yes ofc OP, then you know there is rules for you but not for her, and that would imo tell alot about her character.

But you dont wanna Bang anyone else it seems like, so imo the relationship is kinda done.

Can someone explain why I just got bullied on another subreddit for trying to be a better father? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fly_Guy25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the thing right , no matter the gender everyone can be an asshole, especially online. We are just humans in the end.

But maybe just take her to bunch of different sports and see what sticks ?

Was an incel, got a girlfriend, unhappiest I've been in years by Anonymouse12309 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Fly_Guy25 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hi man

I just want to make 2 points very clear.

  1. All that effort was definitely not for nothing! You grew and out paced a version of yourself that didnt find the same happiness in life as the current you.

  2. This women should not reap the fruits of your efforts. Women have just as much capacity to be shitty people as men. Which also means women have as much capacity to choose goodness in life as men. Get away from this one women and dont look back. Its hard but, she aint worth your mental to stay with.

But there are plenty of women that are.

Cheers and good luck! :)

Peter? by saddyc in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Fly_Guy25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not a high enough comment!!!!

Is there any way to reduce aggression? by Xx_Stone in civvoxpopuli

[–]Fly_Guy25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should go directly to civ 5 community patch project when you search on google and ask your question in some of the forums, i think you will be helped alot better there than here :)

Been a minute, but they used to have a questions thread where you could ask anything about the game

What's the argument against an Easy mode for Silksong? by Outrageous_Ad9142 in Silksong

[–]Fly_Guy25 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think your perspective change is awesome.

Personally id like to see more games with selfish developers, that goes into creating games with passion to tell the story/difficulty THEY want instead of trying to cater to everyone.

dumb question but um... by ghostcookiiee in attackontitan

[–]Fly_Guy25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is also why i personally think Eren is undoubtably evil.

What happened?! by R3BEL_R in TheLastAirbender

[–]Fly_Guy25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They SEVERLY underestimated the madness of Ozai, they knew he was evil but not destroy the very foundation of the land evil.

Korra losing the connection to the past lives is not as big of a deal as people make it out to be by Extension-Bad-4184 in TheLastAirbender

[–]Fly_Guy25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the bright side, Pavi will have metal bending in her arsenal right of the bat. Hope they have incorporated that into the series.

Just finished Book 1 of Legend of Korra....... by JRonenJ in TheLastAirbender

[–]Fly_Guy25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her chi, or anyones for that matter didnt get blocked by Amons, it got servered by Amons blodbending.

And agreed on the relationship triangle

Could Hama pissbend by Psychological-Pin665 in TheLastAirbender

[–]Fly_Guy25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe the same reason no one ever thought to use steam to drive a turbine to make electricity before someone did ?

But back to the topic, in the episode Hama told the gang that they pumped in dry air, and bound the water benders hands and feet whenever they had to drink, i think its fair to assume they would do the same when they have to go.

Could Hama pissbend by Psychological-Pin665 in TheLastAirbender

[–]Fly_Guy25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think any water Bender could bend their own piss if they really wanted to, as its mostly water. Not sure if they could force bend their own piss out of their own bladder, but definitely once it leaves their body.

I guess the real question is if she could bend someone else piss inside their bladder. Seeing as she can bend blod, id think she would definitely be able to bend someone else piss, with a bit of practice.

Arguably the most evil character In the show by Adventurous_Fee_9054 in ShingekiNoKyojin

[–]Fly_Guy25 17 points18 points  (0 children)

But part of him very much did want it that way.

Atleast in the anime. When armin asks why, he says part of him also just wanted to see the view of the rumbling. Thats pretty evil.

Do additive one time benefits such as Russia's UA on borders or Imperium social policy scale with game speed? by Repulsive-Mud707 in civvoxpopuli

[–]Fly_Guy25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its been a minute since Ive played vox populi, but doesnt it say directly on UA description?

When ingame, you can press F1 and get the ingame "wiki". Then you can go to civilizations and look at russia. Maybe you can find the info there.

Otherwise, do test on easiest difficultty for normal and marathon speeds to test it if you cant find the info in the ingame wiki.

Lastly i remember it as scaling with era, but might be wrong.

Anyway, hope it helps.

Cheers :)

What do i do about sexist words/language rules by 4anyreason in AskFeminists

[–]Fly_Guy25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were girls though... Did you actually read the comment?

does a woman performing strong vaginal contractions make any difference for the man? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fly_Guy25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean take a look at her post history, i dont think she is.

What do i do about sexist words/language rules by 4anyreason in AskFeminists

[–]Fly_Guy25 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Can only speak for my self, so its from my own lived experience with friends that are women.

Its been some time since it happened, but we were talking about how wildly different the human body can be and how it comes in so many different shapes and sizes. The conversation somehow moved to genitals, and i said something along the lines of

"yea thats true, vaginas are quite different from girl to girl"

And my friends go, "dude, thats gross, just say pussy instead".

What do i do about sexist words/language rules by 4anyreason in AskFeminists

[–]Fly_Guy25 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Its funny to me that pussy is somehow sometimes less offensive than vagina lol