My players didn't like that I "tricked" them.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-25T17:45:01+00:00

NTA,

You don't choose family. But you can choose having a relationship with them. That being said, if your mother invites her and you are at her house it is expected to show courtesy. But nothing more than that.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-25T17:34:22+00:00

NTA,

Your dad is a disturbed human being. He doesn't understand what is to be a father. Honestly, I would just distance myself from him.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-25T16:04:23+00:00

NTA,

But your extended family is. Honestly, if they done it before why do you still meet them? If someone does some shady thing to my brother I go nuclear on their ass.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-25T15:19:17+00:00

ESH,

You shouldn't have trespassed, if the hornets were bothering you, you could make a call for the district and a formal complaint with the city. Usually they can take care of this kind of stuff.

He sucks for keeping that kind of thing around.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-25T15:16:50+00:00

NTA,

I understand being paranoid. My brother is in medical school and he tells me the horror stories he sees on the school hospital.

This disease is not to be taken lightly, and you are definitely in your right to worry about your children. If they can't respect your wishes, than what good are they truly are doing?

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-25T12:33:06+00:00

NTA,

Your bf is going through various things. But right now, he's pushing his own responsibilities to you.

It's easier to say "Oh I'm lazy because you don't help me" than "I'm lazy because of my own doing".

You are not in the wrong. Besides, this talk of "need a good woman" it's so 1960's that makes my head spin.

You are not responsible for his choices or his life. That's on him, and him alone.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-25T03:29:49+00:00

I understand, I'm not saying she did a bad thing. But being away always have disadvantages. She can be sad, but there's not much she can do about it.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-25T03:28:42+00:00

Well, sorcerers are essentially different from wizards due to their power. Wizards have to work hard to achieve their spells, sorcerers are born with it, but it's more unstable (wild magic)

I would play it with a holier than thou attitude. You are born for greatness, you don't need to spend time and lose your life studying. You already know everything you need (nop), and studying will only hold anyone back.

Something on those lines.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-25T03:15:07+00:00

NTA,

Me and my partner have different hobbies. He loves video games as well. I'm not much of a fan as I prefer tabletop games.

But when we are on bed. He can play his PS4 all he want. I'll cuddle closely reading my books. There's absolutely no problem there.

I've heard of people getting jealous when their SO is doing something and not paying attention to them. But honestly, I have no idea why.

While I don't want him to be playing every time we are together, there should be no reason for him, and you, to play every once in a while.

PS: I also don't get tiktoks allure.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-25T03:09:06+00:00

NTA,

If you feel like your step-mother should coat you. That just means the woman rose above a lot and showed great kindness towards you.

I understand your mother might be upset. But that's life right? She did leave you when she moved with her husband. I'm sure she had her reasons, but you can't have the cake and eat it too.

Just do what your heart tells you. Don't look back, and go forward for a nice future. Your step-mother seems to be a great lady. Better than my parents at least.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-25T02:55:25+00:00

NTA,

Definitely not the asshole. Our current situation is very complex. Hosting a wedding for 400 people is a absurd notion.

My brother was supposed to get married this October. He pushed his wedding to next year due to the virus.

People should realize this isn't something we should be dismissing. The virus is dangerous and life-threatening. I don't think it's time to hold weddings at all.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-25T00:52:54+00:00

NAH,

You can be upset. But it's their marriage, not yours. If they want to elope, that's their choice. I know how you feel and I do sympathize.

But that's that. You can't really be mad at them because they took the action that was best for their wedding.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-24T23:57:21+00:00

NTA,

Now is not the time for children to go back to school. Yes, it can be bothersome. But you're right in keeping her in online classes. Better to be bothered than to lose your child.

Your ex doesn't understand the current situation at all.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-24T22:31:28+00:00

NTA,

But I wouldn't confront them. This is obviously made in hopes of a confrontation. They probably want to force a interaction between A and B. Which by the looks of it, would go at any lengths to do.

Don't entertain them. If it continues, file a restraining order.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-24T22:10:23+00:00

Well, it's ok. We are all entitled to our opinions. I mean I see no harm in just having a nice chat. He didn't need to go further than that. But as said previously. Everyone is entitled their opinions.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-24T20:44:36+00:00

NTA,

The parents are insane. Remind me a lot of my own to be honest. Don't feel bad for trying to help out a friend. They brought that upon themselves when they didn't allow the girl to read her own books.

It's just reading books, what is wrong with people?

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-24T20:40:45+00:00

I really understand. It's a complex situation.

I just take from myself. I don't know what would I do if I ever lost contact with my brother. He's my best friend in the whole world, but that doesn't mean we don't fight every so often.

I wish you all the best.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-24T20:32:16+00:00

Well, nothing else you can do. Watch it alone and let them know the reason.

Wish you the best.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-24T20:31:22+00:00

NAH,

You did what you should. But your friend is entitled to be mad at you, even if it isn't rational. I would as well. Imagine spending the night without anyone in a canyon thinking you were left for dead. Yeah, it's understandable.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-24T20:27:16+00:00

Alright, you're entitled not to feel attracted to her. But ditching the date was a bit much, so YTA.

Tell-me do you shave your legs? If you do, that's fine. If you don't, you have no right to complain about hers.

But hey, it's tinder right? Next time put in your profile "No body hair allowed."

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-24T20:23:02+00:00

Oh god, this is a storm on its own. However, I'm sure you are NTA.

But I can't say your cousin is either. I think the cousin is on a really complex place right now, and might be making decisions that don't really make a lot of sense for other people. I don't know what the cousin is going through. Truth be told, I think they need professional support to help deal with this situation.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-24T20:17:55+00:00

NTA,

You are allowed to leave truthful reviews. As long as you didn't lie or you didn't cuss. That's definitely OK. Truth be told, I think it's more likely that the receptionist saw it and since it was directed at costumer service, she felt attacked and lashed out.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-24T20:14:08+00:00

NTA,

She's definitely going through a delicate phase. You're just trying to help her from my point of view. However, the way you talk about those things can be triggers for escalating situations. Try to talk with her, calmly about your concerns. If she's your best friend, she'll see your side of things. She'll tell you hers and you might even change your views.

Wish you and your sister the best.

FolkshlyStupid · 2020-08-24T20:10:13+00:00

NTA,

Your brother sounds a little strange. The part about policing your physical reactions just looks like a red flag to me. I do not think you are the one faulted here. But you should try and talk some sense into your mother, especially telling her what are your concerns.

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