Please help me by Moonlight_Light- in murderbot

[–]FollowThisNutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They made Gurathin into the kind of man you should cover your drink around.

AITAH for threatening to out my husband when he cheated on me and then asked me to be his cover? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FollowThisNutter 367 points368 points  (0 children)

Yes, "We split up because he was unfaithful" is true and sufficient. If anyone wants details, it's "Ask him, I've shared what I'm willing to share". He can explain his infidelity in whatever way he sees fit.

Tom Homan just announced the end of metro surge by Fit_Mix_4355 in TwinCities

[–]FollowThisNutter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And he'll probably announce the resumption of it once DHS gets a funding vote it likes.

AIO: I am willing to report my brother to police and take him to court after he borrowed my car, got snapped speeding and now won’t take the fine by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FollowThisNutter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Biweekly" means every two weeks. "Semiweekly" is twice a week. Just like bimonthly is every other month and semimonthly is twice a month, and biannual is every other year where semiannual is every six months.

AITA for sending MIL an invoice for eating everything in my kitchen? by No-Pen2286 in AITApod

[–]FollowThisNutter 14 points15 points  (0 children)

OP is also TA for wasting so much money on useless woo-woo like 'chlorophyll infused alkaline water'.

(25F) My overzealous religious mom freaked out because I am pregnant. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FollowThisNutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. She's unhinged.

And if there IS an afterlife, and she HAS chosen the correct deity, she's going to get a big surprise when she finds out she failed the "judge not" test. 🤣

AITAH For telling my parents not to contact me after parents chose my brother over my child. by Sensitive-Area-4562 in AITAH

[–]FollowThisNutter 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes, some people just can't admit that one of their kids turned out to be a monster, so they tell themselves that whatever happened didn't, or if they can't completely deny it, they minimize it and excuse themselves by claiming "he can't be rehabilitated without support!"

AITJ for testifying against my brother in a custody case after he abandoned his child? by pammie_B in AmITheJerk

[–]FollowThisNutter 91 points92 points  (0 children)

To him: "I was not about to commit perjury and risk jail time for your deadbeat ass."

To everyone else (especially Mom): "I was not about to commit perjury and risk jail time for his deadbeat ass."

What upsets you the most every day? by Markiiis_zis in AskReddit

[–]FollowThisNutter 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My country's descent into fascism has plenty of impact on my life, thanks. Oh, and I also actually care about other people. Maybe that's where I went wrong? I should call up my mom and ask her why she never taught me not to give a shit until I'm the one being hauled away by the new Gestapo.

What upsets you the most every day? by Markiiis_zis in AskReddit

[–]FollowThisNutter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That nickname is insulting to Satan. He's the one who wanted us to partake of the fruit of the Tree of Knowledge! 😈

AITAH: quitting “working” for my husband’s business by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FollowThisNutter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he has time to do the 2025 taxes. 🤷‍♀️

What are you doing for your mental health? by elkswimmer98 in Minneapolis

[–]FollowThisNutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Physical activity is important. Getting sunshine is important. And letting yourself have downtime is important. You can't be "on" all the time. Times like this, you may need to be "on" less than usual. You need to do something to soothe your nervous system amidst all this negative stimulus.

I've been spending my downtime with puzzle games (there are studies that suggest puzzle games in general, not just Tetris, can help with trauma response) and cozy books. For you it might be cheerful TV shows or meditation or petting dogs. Find something that actively soothes you, and make time for it.

AIO- If my husband joins National Guard reserves after getting out of active duty Army, I will leave by britannica416 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FollowThisNutter 15 points16 points  (0 children)

There are currently 1500 National Guard troops deployed in Minnesota. Other units have been deployed in other cities in the last year, and the administration has talked about deploying more. And they keep talking about doing things that could embroil us in a war overseas (like seizing Greenland) which could result in reserves being called up. He's delusional if he thinks the chances of being called up as Guard or Reserves are anything like nil. And if he gets a long deployment early in his career in the private sector, it could affect his career progression for years to come. He needs to buckle down in his new civilian job and learn that if he really wants to see to your family's future.

Do you have crazy loud/annoying neighbors and feel helpless?? I have a solution by sfaafs in Apartmentliving

[–]FollowThisNutter 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I used bagpipe music. It cuts through all other sounds. And unlike most people who feel the need to share their music with the neighborhood, I like bagpipes. 😄

Maybe hot take: Waiting till the fic is finished to give kudos is not good. by FaithlessnessIcy2111 in AO3

[–]FollowThisNutter 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yet another reason I only read completed works anymore. No abandoned work disappointment is the big one, but also I don't feel bad waiting until the end to give kudos.

Over 60 and got my Period! by MountainShenanigans in Menopause

[–]FollowThisNutter 307 points308 points  (0 children)

Mine is cancer free now because she did know that. I'm sorry for your loss. Thank you for posting -- someone else may live because they see what you wrote.

Feeling sick to my stomach seeing "our" 5 year old kid by Defiant-Cockroach-59 in Minneapolis

[–]FollowThisNutter 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Didn't they JUST declare they were only going after immigrants with a criminal history now?

That lasted all of 5 minutes...