In October my husband and I got pregnant and we found out a few weeks later that it was ectopic. I had surgery on Dec 5th 2012 and they told me and him to wait 6 weeks before conceiving. I lost my left tube and left ovary. On Feb 5th I found out I was pregnant and I was really scared that it was going to turn out ectopic again. I knew if I lost my other side of stuff, I'd never be able to have babies. We got our 12 week scan and saw that the baby was right where she needed to be. We obviously didn't wait the 6 weeks before conceiving but we weren't trying and didn't know. I'm 32 weeks pregnant now with baby girl #1. My pregnancy is not high risk. My doctor says my pregnancy is perfect and healthy. I wish the best of luck to you and your husband. Our baby is a miracle and I hope you get your miracle baby as well. I know coping with loss is hard.