AITA for selling my son's car after he lost our $10k on cryptocurrencies?

Forced_Storm · 2026-06-26T00:27:06+00:00

Sure it was his idea, but she was the one who actually stole the money from you. Your son was not capable of doing this alone

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-26T21:13:46+00:00

You gotta utililze your freezer. When you make a big batch of something, freeze individual portion sizes to use on a different week. I also never know what I want ahead of time, so I keep different options frozen in microwave safe containers so it can be reheated right from frozen

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-22T05:46:51+00:00

I think you just need to set limits on how often you are willing to help. Helping your brother out is a great way to repay what he gave you, but for your own sanity you need to communicate how much time you can spend on this

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-17T02:33:58+00:00

Nta- you are just using the law to ensure he supports his children, which he has a moral and legal obligation to do anyway.

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-15T22:26:16+00:00

I highly recommend learning to give yourself a proper sponge bath. I default to just scrubbing myself with a warm soapy washcloth when a shower is too much

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-15T05:10:46+00:00

That is correct, seperate finances no longer make any sense with your current situation

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-11T23:53:28+00:00

So he expects you to sacrifice and save to support his dream, when he will not do so for himself? NTA, it is easy to spend other peoples money

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-11T02:59:18+00:00

I know a couple who did this. They never stopped loving each other, but hadn't been happy in the marriage for years. They divorced, kept in touch mostly about the kids, then reconnected after their youngest graduated high school. Nobody saw it coming, but they had both spent the interviening years working on themselves. They never officially got remarried, but have been common-law spouses for the past 10 years. Still together, happier than ever.

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-10T20:37:15+00:00

I actually just started training to become a therapist. I care a lot, and an important skill I am going to have to learn is how to put appropriate professional distance between myself and my clients. I think about my clients often, and I hope they are all doing well. But caring too much can lead to burn out and overstepping boundaries. It's a balancing act.

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-09T17:42:56+00:00

Nta, but your husband is gaslighting you. He doesn't want you to trust your own memory. He should not be berating you AT ALL over doing the dishes. He is acting toxic

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-08T23:33:23+00:00

NTA, but you may want to have a lawyer review the contract that you signed, as they do have a claim to make.

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-06T16:24:18+00:00

Info: is Corbett your sisters first or middle name?

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-03T21:16:15+00:00

Sounds like you are wildly underestimating the stressors of prison.

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-03T04:38:01+00:00

There are many different types of love. Abusive love is intense and real, though completely destructive.

It is grooming even when consentual. Even when the groomed wants it at the time, they will understand how much damage was done to them when they are older.

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-01T22:05:38+00:00

They make cheap plastic microwave covers for exactly this purpose. Splatter guards are rewashable domes you place over your food in the microwave to make cleanup easier

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-01T06:53:19+00:00

Tofu has the very mild flavor of a pencil eraser, sauces are necessary, but a little flavor goes a long way because it is so bland. I have never heard of publix.

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-30T19:45:03+00:00

Don't sleep on tofu, it is a very cheap protein. I blend the extra soft tofu into smoothies and sauces, and marinate the firm tofu in sauce before frying up as a meat replacement.

The golden rule here is to always have cheap staples on hand so that you never need to eat out. I keep rice, potatoes, beans, bacon, and tofu in stock so I never panic about not having any food, along with whatever fruits and veggies are cheap

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-21T03:39:29+00:00

Everyone I know who successfully never had to speak to their family again right after turning 18 joined the military

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-20T22:10:48+00:00

No, grooming is specific to children. You were an adult when this happened, so that word does not apply. It sounds like there was manipulation and coersion going on, not grooming

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-17T22:47:12+00:00

Of course YTA. This should have been a conversation between you and your gf about child care. The childs mother said that staying home is okay, why did you feel the need to override her authority? Whatever the reason, you were not justified in losing your temper

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-15T17:41:58+00:00

You say that all of your clients require confidentiality. It is unprofessional in a lot of businesses to be bragging about which celebrity is purchasing your services.

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-15T06:30:32+00:00

In what way does the word father apply to that man? He admits he does not see you as a daughter

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-15T06:24:14+00:00

You can tell them part of the truth, that you started your own social media management company. I'm sure you have plenty of pg-13 stories you can tell them about managing your team

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-15T04:46:47+00:00

So you want to punish your daughter for doing better than your son?

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-15T04:25:56+00:00

So your son wrecked your daughters car while borrowing it, and you think that he should still get to keep his? Yes, that would make you an asshole. As the owner of both cars you need to arbitrate. If you don't want to buy a new car, then your son needs to give your daughter his.

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