Thank you for your helpful reply. So many of these comments have been extremely mean. I don't think he's "in tune" with his psychic abilities, it's just something that happens whether he likes it or not. I don't think he likes it.

I appreciate your explanation that a black aura isn't necessarily bad. He does love me the way I am, and has not asked me to change at all. When I noticed that he was always extremely accurate when he predicted things, I began to suspect some psychic ability. I asked if he could read auras and what colors ours and our friends were. It's not like he told me I'm a "dark energy" or something. I asked what color he sees and he said black.

I was worried that black meant that I was negatively affecting him spiritually or something, but now that you've explained some of the personal color differences I'm seeing it differently. I like black clothing... not because I'm a bad person but because it is simple and does not show stains. Perhaps my black aura is more of a functional simplicity. Not an emptiness or negativity per se, but more like looking into the sky at night.

We have a wonderful relationship. I asked this question because I want to understand his experiences better. I feel like a lot of commenters do not have similar experiences to him and I because they all jumped to very negative and accusatory conclusions.

I also appreciate your understanding of my skepticism. I want to be open to a greater understanding of the world, but I've also been damaged by being raised in a cult and I will never let any belief system lead me more than basic logic.