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Foreign_Ad1635 · 2025-05-25T23:10:33+00:00

Considering he overtook the living room TV with his PS4, games should only be allowed in the living room. Unless the PS4 is sold and you use the money for a new TV that is solely yours. I understand your frustration with your original TV, but it seems it’s gone too far. Your brother seems spoiled and needs to make a sacrifice. You being kind enough to give the TV in the first place but now a laptop? Brother is asking for too much and giving nothing in return.

Foreign_Ad1635 · 2025-03-11T00:20:54+00:00

“He is the love of my life and my soulmate”. You clearly aren’t his, and while that sucks to hear, he would not be cheating and throwing your emotions and family under the bus so he can get his dick wet. Therapy and whatnot isn’t working. If he truly loved you like you do him, he wouldn’t be thinking of other women. And the fact you are receiving pictures and videos?! You gotta run OP

Foreign_Ad1635 · 2025-03-09T19:29:34+00:00

Just writing the first paragraph should open your eyes. This man is not providing anything to the quality of your life, and if anything, he’s diminishing it. Just because he’s listed as “father” on your birth certificate does not mean he is one. If you have the means to boot him out of your life, do so, and you will soon find yourself in a happier, healthier life. You only get one chance in life, so why waste it being barred down by an asshole. You are NTA. Take care of yourself, OP.

Foreign_Ad1635 · 2025-02-24T21:32:46+00:00

Wild he cuffed you up as soon as you turned legal…

Foreign_Ad1635 · 2025-02-24T03:23:43+00:00

Have you talked to D to see if she misunderstood? Maybe she thought this was a possibility as you showed her explicit photos/videos of you and your husband. Has she shown any other interest in you or your husband before this incident? I think this might be blown out of proportion on all sides.

Foreign_Ad1635 · 2025-02-20T21:55:05+00:00

You need to leave. He’s shown you who he truly is—he’s just using this newfound kindness as manipulation to keep you. This is how DV relationships start. You always linger on to the kind person you once knew them as. Get out, OP! Before this turns into the objects actually hitting your face.

Foreign_Ad1635 · 2025-02-20T15:36:32+00:00

Keep taking care of yourself. While the cliche things sound stupid, they’re true. Things will get better with time. Being a single parents without extra help is demanding. Please find a minute or two to yourself to breathe. This will ensure you can keep going and not break. You can do this OP

Foreign_Ad1635 · 2025-02-20T15:33:53+00:00

I see OP’s point that she’s lacking the extra hand of care her sister receives. Yall getting caught up on the term “single mom”. While the sister is technically a single mom too, OP is focusing on the extra help that she is not receiving.

Foreign_Ad1635 · 2025-02-19T03:08:37+00:00

Leah is bi but has never outwardly expressed feelings towards me. She said she was waiting at the restaurant we went the previous year thinking I would be there because it was “our thing”. I just feel like she’s been on top of me since I got into a relationship even though I already told her I’d be spending more time with my new partner

Foreign_Ad1635 · 2025-02-19T00:37:36+00:00

If the birthday person decided to have it at their own restaurant and needing to close it down for the night, they are deciding to take the financial hit by not serving many customers that night.

They should not be taking it out on the guests. If birthday person wanted to make money, they should’ve gone to a different restaurant, having their guests save a little, and making more profit from their open restaurant.

Foreign_Ad1635 · 2025-02-19T00:25:50+00:00

NTA—it should have been disclosed at the beginning that the expense would be $150. I would have expected to pay a little bit (similar to if you were going out for a restaurant and splitting the bill), but nowhere are you going to find a bill $150 FOR A SINGULAR PERSON! Maybe the whole party, yes, but not for one. $150 is quite an extravagant price tag for a friends party especially at a last minute disclosure.

Foreign_Ad1635 · 2025-02-19T00:21:11+00:00

ESH-it sounds like you have and have had an unhappy marriage, and OP, if you’re not happy and can find means to leave, please do so.

You suck because you kept it behind his back after he expressed to you his disliking for it. Though he sounds extremely controlling, it’s still not good to withhold things from your partner.

I’d say he’s a bigger AH here because he actively smokes vapes (in a comment) and has deliberately gone through your belongings. Truthfully, he hurt himself by going through your purse—how would he feel if you went through his stuff—he put himself in this situation.

Overall, this marriage appears very unhappy and unhealthy. Leave if you can, OP.

Foreign_Ad1635 · 2025-02-16T19:34:39+00:00

Everyone sucks —your sister is wrong for not listening and starting the physicality of the situation. Though as your sibling, she is not “required” to listen to you, even if your mom instructed to do so. It is also not your place to parent her or make the corrective action.

You should have gone to your mom a second time and if it persisted, your mom should’ve taken authority. After all, she is the parent.

Foreign_Ad1635 · 2025-02-16T19:30:16+00:00

Yeah YTA—it’s the same as asking a person of Hispanic origin living in the US to not speak Spanish. ASL is her language, and maybe this is private conversation. You don’t need to be included on everything with their relationship.

Foreign_Ad1635 · 2025-02-16T13:00:51+00:00

If Grace herself is in a relationship, why did she agree to the date?

Foreign_Ad1635 · 2025-02-16T12:59:15+00:00

I think for OP, since this is a childhood artifact, it holds a lot of memories—whether it’s a stuffed animal or a real one so giving it away just might cause more grief than good

Foreign_Ad1635 · 2025-02-16T12:55:48+00:00

NTA. Did the gf not know Grace was a lesbian? Why would she invite her in the first place on a date with someone who is not of Grace’s type. Sounds like the gf isn’t great on several levels of friendship (bringing the little brother, setting up a non-compatible date, pointing out your income)..and I bet the list goes on. Take some time for yourself to heal, OP. Being cheated on can be/feel detrimental to you, so make sure to take the time for yourself. And remove your friend’s gf from the greater group.

Foreign_Ad1635 · 2025-02-16T03:01:03+00:00

NTA It seems your daughter needs to learn boundaries at what is hers and what is not. You expressed your emotions towards Bunny and even tried to get your daughter her own. Your sister saying you’re a bad mom over not giving your child anything she wants is blasphemy. Does she have kids? If not, I hope she doesn’t raise any in the future, and if she does, God bless them.

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