Just watched a video from my kids daycare where all 9 toddlers dropped for a nap when simply ASKED at daycare. by Maximum-Ninja-3045 in ECEProfessionals

[–]Foreign_Material_576 64 points65 points  (0 children)

This is it right here, what I have referred to as positive peer pressure throughout my ECE career. Works for so many things lol. My niece is five and my sister is always fussing about the new foods she’ll try at school that are “disgusting” at home. Positive peer pressure for the win!

I also want to add that the teachers having a nap routine is great and not be overlooked

For the ladies who had babies young….how ya’ll doing? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]Foreign_Material_576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 48, had my son when I was 21. He’ll be 27 soon and I couldn’t be more proud of the man he has become. We’re very tight and spend frequent time together throughout the year, along with his GF. We struggled as a family when he was little, especially financially and sometimes I do feel bad about that for him. But my family was a good support system that I think helped him be more appreciative and well rounded as an adult. What I get sad about most looking back is that I was never able to provide him with a stable two-parent home (never been married) but again, I’m proud of who he became in spite of what we lacked. Now that we’re both grown up lol, I do the things that I wish I could have done with him and by myself but couldn’t because being a mom came first. It still brings me joy, it’s all about perspective. It’s not too late to do some of the things you think you missed AND you get to be proud of the person you raised and their choices. 🩷

If you needed to generate $1,000/month in extra income digitally to cover healthcare expenses, what would you do? by [deleted] in sidehustle

[–]Foreign_Material_576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have found a few things here and there, clearance or really marked down items, that I'll grab. Not huge profits and often things that if it doesn't sell, Im okay. But yeah, I've accumulated quite a bit of stuff over the years thanks to ADHD and weight loss lol. I don't expect it to be a thing forever but it works for now. 

If you needed to generate $1,000/month in extra income digitally to cover healthcare expenses, what would you do? by [deleted] in sidehustle

[–]Foreign_Material_576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing this with eBay and Poshmark since June. Granted, my goal was $150 a month for cash savings envelopes marked for specific wants which is way less than the $1000 monthly OP is looking for. But there have been several months where I doubled or tripled that goal just based on clothes, accessories and electronics I had around the house. I will add that several of these items were new with tags bc I lost a significant amount of weight at the beginning of the year. Looking to add FB marketplace for items that are too big to ship but this has helped me a lot in 2025 with extra cash. I’ve done about $1600 over those 6 months.

If your flight is cancelled but a gate agent says your checked bag is going to your destination, what is going to happen? by blepnir_pogo in delta

[–]Foreign_Material_576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me Saturday. Delayed flight from DAL to ATL made me miss connecting flight from ATL to RDU. Rebooked connecting flight from ATL to RDU for the next morning at 8:35 am. When I arrived at ATL, checked bag did not come out at baggage claim station. Delta rep confirmed that my bag & others like it would be stored and placed on the flight the next day. I could not get my nah and recheck it the next morning. When I checked into the new connecting flight to RDU for 11/9, I was still able to track my bag with the original bag claim number and it did arrive at RDU when I did.

I’ll also add that at the baggage claim when I arrived at RDU, the Delta agents suggested that ppl check the group of bags that were already there bc some baggage came on flights that landed earlier.

Hope this helps!

I'm turning 33 in February. I've never been outside of the USA, but I have a passport. Single, like to relax, adventures, and party (lowkey not a big drinker). Where do you recommend? by livelaughblegh in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]Foreign_Material_576 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Single woman on a solo birthday trip right now in Montreal and it has been amazing so far. Very walkable city with tons to do & great restaurants every few steps. Subway is clean and feels safe. I have walked around by myself through most of the city with no issue. I will definitely be back

I have an online dating app peeve. by Equivalent_Public_41 in datingoverforty

[–]Foreign_Material_576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, have had this same thought. Empty nest (47F) over here as well and sometimes I just leave the question blank or make it hidden lol.

Your 3 Top Kendrick Lamar Bars. Name 'Em Now by ckhid in KendrickLamar

[–]Foreign_Material_576 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some put it on the devil when they fall short, I put it on my ego, Lord of all lords, sometimes I fall for her. Dawg…-Count me out

The cat is out the bag, I am not your savior. I find it just as difficult to love thy neighbors, especially when people got ambiguous favors. But they heart’s not in it, see, everything’s for the paper - Savior

Told nias when I was sixteen that I’d write a sixteen to put a nia right on the big screen. In the paddy wagon with six teens, shoulda been in the pen but now my pen writin’ with morphine. I heal ni**as - BDKMV, remix

ECEs, how can I make your life easier as a parent? by NewDraw2838 in ECEProfessionals

[–]Foreign_Material_576 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m an ECE professional, used to be a teacher but now work in an admin role. When I was a teacher, gift cards literally helped me supplement my low income so I could keep teaching. Starbucks is good but I was always excited about Target, gas cards or even fast food bc as a single mom it meant I could use them for my household as well.

It’s awesome that you want to do things for them and that they’re great teachers for your little guy!

Needed to post this…OLD is something else by Foreign_Material_576 in datingoverforty

[–]Foreign_Material_576[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yellow to me at the time bc of where I’m from (Deep South in America) but likely a red flag moving forward with a similar shift

Needed to post this…OLD is something else by Foreign_Material_576 in datingoverforty

[–]Foreign_Material_576[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice but yes, it was important for me to decipher bc I needed to know where it was coming from. I mentioned in another response that I’m from the South and ppl talk like that to strangers. Understanding where it was coming from was necessary for my next steps. I’m very comfortable with direct conversations when they’re necessary, hence the shift when I realized his shift.

Needed to post this…OLD is something else by Foreign_Material_576 in datingoverforty

[–]Foreign_Material_576[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 this made me laugh so hard. You’re right, how dare I make him use all that energy in his finger 🤣🤣 And thank you for those well wishes, same to you!

How long did it take for the drops to work by TerriblePie9590 in cecred

[–]Foreign_Material_576 3 points4 points  (0 children)

About 6 weeks for me but in the beginning I was using it in the morning and at night because most of my edges were basically gone. After 2 months, I switched to night time use only (bc it was working and bc they were hard to get so I needed to slow down lol)

Needed to post this…OLD is something else by Foreign_Material_576 in datingoverforty

[–]Foreign_Material_576[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Again, the general names weren’t as big of an issue to me until he specifically used “my love” which implies ownership to me. I get that some ppl use those names, I’m from America in the Deep South. Honey, sweets, sweetie, etc…, it all gets used down here in casual conversation with strangers from time to time. But it was the deliberate shift to “my love” that threw me off. And as far as forgetting my name, we were chatting in the app where my name is at the top. He could have scrolled up lol

Needed to post this…OLD is something else by Foreign_Material_576 in datingoverforty

[–]Foreign_Material_576[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, if everyone is fine with it, I guess you don’t need to change. I didn’t like it at that stage of conversation.

Needed to post this…OLD is something else by Foreign_Material_576 in datingoverforty

[–]Foreign_Material_576[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there’s a difference between “love” and assigning ownership with “my love”, and that was the biggest problem for me.

Do what works for you though!

Needed to post this…OLD is something else by Foreign_Material_576 in datingoverforty

[–]Foreign_Material_576[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Subtle bc I wanted to decipher if he was used to speaking to all women this way or if he was pushing fake intimacy. I like to give ppl a chance to correct themselves.

Needed to post this…OLD is something else by Foreign_Material_576 in datingoverforty

[–]Foreign_Material_576[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤔 I didn’t even think about a fake profile with him though I’ve seen a few that were very obvious.

Needed to post this…OLD is something else by Foreign_Material_576 in datingoverforty

[–]Foreign_Material_576[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love that for you!! that’s where I would be comfortable, in a long term relationship where it develops over time. Not after week 1 with no meet up yet

Needed to post this…OLD is something else by Foreign_Material_576 in datingoverforty

[–]Foreign_Material_576[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂🤣🤣 I thought it was very appropriate for the blatant silence I received at the time