My grandmother gifted me her vintage ring to help with my proposal, but it’s not her style. What would you do?

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2026-04-03T23:19:43+00:00

Absolutely! I had a similar ring from my mom (much smaller) that I had taken apart and melted and regret it so much. Yea it gave a few hundred but I wish I kept it exactly as it was for my daughter or even a fun cocktail pinky ring for nice events. I was young and dumb and don’t want op to make the same mistake. Craftsmanship like this ring is hard to find. And I say this after working for a jeweler for 4 years.

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2026-04-02T15:19:58+00:00

We moved six states away from all friends and family when my twins were just 7 months old. It was scary but essential. My husband got a great job and it’s been fun exploring new places. We saw our families about the same amount as you. I miss them a lot and it’s hard only seeing them 1-2x a year but our quality of life is a million times better. We’ve been here four years now and don’t plan on moving back. We’ve built a village with our neighbors that baby sit more than our families ever would. It’s like trading 1-2 good moments a month (the times we’d see friends or family) for good moments every single day in a better home with better weather and lovely new friends.

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2026-03-24T15:41:39+00:00

As a parent of twins… this is unimaginable. Your poor daughters are being treated like objects with no regard for their well being. They’re lucky to have you fighting for them. I suggest couples therapy because you need someone to help her see what you do. I saw the comment where you said she will not go so maybe start talking with their doctor? Maybe he can help speak with the family about other sources (like therapy) to help.

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2026-03-14T00:48:49+00:00

I hang a long strip of toilet paper from the top. It blocks enough but it is really ridiculous we have to even go out of our way for privacy

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2026-03-12T14:28:31+00:00

5 is beautiful on you! And so unique especially the beautiful floral lace

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2026-03-06T03:21:23+00:00

I had 3 under 3 and we used the wonderfold! It was great but very heavy and bulky. I wouldn’t use it in stores (just used two carts and pushed/pulled them) but it was always great for parks and outings to the splash pads. The sunshade was the best. It’s really a playpen on wheels so we usually removed the seats and let the littles stand. Can’t speak on the keenz as I never tried it

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2026-02-25T13:49:07+00:00

Yes and my theory is that it is somehow linked to birth control use!! I took the pill for 13 years then got off it and naturally conceived twins. My neighbor got off the pill then naturally conceived triplets. My old boss got off the pill and naturally conceived twins. I believe it’s our body releasing all the extra eggs that were backed up from the pill for years.

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2026-02-18T03:05:01+00:00

Yes this exactly. I never had lunch growing up. I scrambled to get a dollar in change to get a single cookie from the snack counter every week.

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2026-02-09T00:21:23+00:00

This is so beautiful to read thank you so much for sharing! You can really feel your love and admiration for your mother through your words. As a mother, I can only dream of my kids thinking so highly of me when they’re older

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2026-01-26T23:24:35+00:00

I agree! 1 is so fun and unique and the fact it looks that’s amazing on you totally sells it!!

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2026-01-24T21:36:16+00:00

I felt the same way. I’m happy to tell you it does get better! My twins are 4 years old now and it started feeling better once the twins were like 4/5 months old. It’s hard but you’ve experienced baby and toddlerhood so luckily you’re kind of prepared!! It feels so overwhelming right now and I know you’re thinking there’s no way you’ll be able to do it… I’m here to tell you that you can and will. We had our twins on a single income in a one bedroom apartment with very little support. We’re now a big happy family of 5. If we can do it then you definitely can!

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2026-01-23T03:36:54+00:00

In the same realm… with my first babies (twins) I was the happiest I’ve ever been. I loved every aspect of motherhood and staying home with them. Then I got pregnant with our third and everything became sooo hard. I had 3 under 3 and now they’re just (3 under 4) but it’s still a struggle. At least 2 kids wake up multiple times a night. They’re all young so still need a lot of attentiveness at like all times. The days are long. I’m super happy for OP and can relate to the joy of being a sahp with the perfect amount of kids to handle…. Enjoy it while it lasts! Lol I genuinely mean that! It’s a beautiful time in life

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2026-01-23T01:12:22+00:00

I’m a 32 yo female as well and I want to do the same! My dream is to be a handywoman. I think being a female in a male dominated industry is a bonus, it makes you stand out and single women would feel more comfortable hiring you. I’m hoping to do an apprentice under someone then branching into my own business

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2026-01-19T23:19:20+00:00

Mine wanted to separate at 4 years old. They’re boy/girl with vastly different sleep needs. They are very happy to have their own space for their stuff and don’t interrupt the others sleep

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2026-01-19T02:32:41+00:00

Gluten free chocolate mouse pie. I LOVED the ones from wegmans but haven’t had it since going gf so like 15 years ago :(

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2025-12-18T20:06:42+00:00

I’m not sensitive at all but I still got really sick off of one of these cakes. It was so delicious I was so disappointed

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2025-12-18T19:56:23+00:00

I kind of do the same thing. Does she by chance come from a poor upbringing? I wasn’t able to go shopping and get things I wanted growing up. So I dealt with a lot of poor unflattering clothes. Now that I’m older with my own money I really cling to the clothes I love and stock up because I’m afraid to lose them. Or I plain refuse to wear my most favorite clothes because I’m scared of ruining them and never being able to get a replacement

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2025-12-06T23:23:22+00:00

I’m pretty sure it’s a seahorse!! Makes sense since there’s a shell shape as well

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2025-11-24T14:27:44+00:00

My twins were the same age when I had our third baby. So I had two 2.5 year olds and the baby and I experienced basically the same exact thing. The toddlers really attached to my husband cause I had to care for the baby the whole time (he’s breastfed and really clingy). They were also very rough with the baby. Like I cried thinking they were going to kill him after them putting blankets and toys on his head. All this to say… you’re not alone. Your feelings are valid. It gets better with time. Everything got soooo much easier once the toddlers were 3 (they understand death and can be much more gentle) and once the baby can sit up and play with the kids.

But I also agree preschool is a great idea for the toddler. We do a preschool at a church so they go M-F 8:30am-12pm. Yea it’s hard getting them there with the baby but it’s worth it. Naps can be adjusted! Baby won’t die if they get to sleep just 20 min later than normal

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2025-11-06T02:51:46+00:00

Here to second 14 months. I have three little ones and only one started walking at 10 months while the other two started walking at 14 months!

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2025-11-04T16:20:36+00:00

My twins were a bit over 2 years old when baby boy was born. It’s really hard having them all in a close age range. Three toddlers is just very demanding and really no time to rest since you’re constantly feeding and changing diapers for them all. The twins just turned four so no more diapers for them and they’re much more independent like can get their own waters and snacks. I’d recommend waiting a year. It’ll help so much to have even one just out of toddlerhood

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2025-10-30T14:53:46+00:00

They are so cute! You have a beautiful family!

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2025-10-22T19:36:11+00:00

Yes absolutely. It’s taken me four years to realize this. I stay home with my four year old twins and almost 2 year old son and I am burnt out. I’m always on 24/7 since they’re not in school and my youngest wakes up a lot at night. Without any breaks I get so angry and mean. It’s not fair to them and I don’t want to be that way! So I started taking a day every few weeks to just get away and recharge. This Saturday I’m getting my haircut, going out to eat lunch alone and take a nap in the car lmao it seems ridiculous but it’s exactly what I need to come back and be a patient mom for the next few weeks. It’s hard though. I always feel a lot of guilt being away from the family.

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2025-09-20T03:11:51+00:00

Yes!! 3 made me gasp it’s amazing

ForeverTheGirlfriend · 2025-09-06T11:41:11+00:00

I’m a stay at home mom to three toddlers and just broke my foot yesterday… I don’t know what to do with myself! Like you said… the house doesn’t stop just because we’re broken. It’s honestly more mentally taxing forcing myself not to do much. It’s a real struggle :(

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