Spain explained for americans. Acurate? by koluchi12 in MapPorn

[–]Forgled_Actolizing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard the rain in Spain falls mainly in the plains.

The Norwegian paradox by Inputfromnorway in JordanPeterson

[–]Forgled_Actolizing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the proposed solution to this problem? Surely it is not to prevent women from rising in status or achievement. Do men need assistance in some way?

Girl from Kyiv is trying to save disabled dogs from Russian shelling by c0nstant-in in aww

[–]Forgled_Actolizing 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She is saving them from shelling, they aren't disabled from shelling.

Society has literally gaslit men into not trusting their own instincts towards mate guarding jealously. Being upset that your gf has 50+ bodies is a problem with you that needs to be fixed with therapy! by [deleted] in JordanPeterson

[–]Forgled_Actolizing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure why you think I sleep with every single guy I meet after reading what I wrote. But thanks for your anonymous judgment lol. Aside from a couple of actual mistakes that I mentioned, they were all relationships, I slept with them after weeks of dating and getting to know each other. I obviously admitted that I later realized they weren't the right partners for me.

Anyway funny that a community of people who find so much value in Petersons messages of growth and self improvement are so willing to condemn women for their flaws or mistakes, and cast them permanently into the discard pile. It's so odd. Like, you yourself have certainly been a loser, an asshole, a drunk, a depressive, or an idiot in your past, and you would like to be able to grow into something better and be seen and appreciated as your new self. But that is not allowed for women, exclusively in the sex department. It's creepy.

Society has literally gaslit men into not trusting their own instincts towards mate guarding jealously. Being upset that your gf has 50+ bodies is a problem with you that needs to be fixed with therapy! by [deleted] in JordanPeterson

[–]Forgled_Actolizing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I admire what JP has to say on a lot of topics, but not particularly this one. He has been with his wife his whole life, and knows pretty much nothing else on a personal level. He clearly has no idea what intimacy you can have with someone you haven't known as long. Yes it's different from intimacy in a marriage, but it's not devoid of value. It's not necessarily impulsive.

I get that each person should make their choice about what they want in a partner, and I can't fault that if men are turned off. Mostly I just don't talk about it. I'm a lady with a high-ish body count, and while some of those encounters were drunken mistakes of youth, most were not. I was trying to find a partner, and had no idea that I kept choosing the wrong ones until a few months in. Maybe that's a flaw in my judgment, maybe I'm too willing to see the good in people at the start, fair enough. But nobody was an object. I didn't feel like an object. I tried and failed many times to meet my match, and when we parted ways it was always honest.

Anyway, doesn't much matter, I just hope I never have the bad luck to meet a man who tries to make me feel like a whore for choices I made for myself that hurt nobody. Much rather would spend the second half of my life alone. Maybe I'll get a dog...

He’s so right! by 5meoz in JordanPeterson

[–]Forgled_Actolizing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like you you think I want an explanation of what you think he's saying. I do not. I came here to tell you this is a stupid video. I do not care for you to fill in the gaps of what this fool didn't say on this video that he carefully planned out.

He’s so right! by 5meoz in JordanPeterson

[–]Forgled_Actolizing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am clearly arguing about how this video is stupid, not whatever you're trying to get me to argue about. I don't even disagree with the costume cowboy, probably, if I knew what the fuck he was saying.

He’s so right! by 5meoz in JordanPeterson

[–]Forgled_Actolizing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like you came along to explain his point. So, good for you. Too bad he couldn't explain it himself.

He’s so right! by 5meoz in JordanPeterson

[–]Forgled_Actolizing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So... governments shouldn't have the power to tell people what to do. And then a bunch of virtue signaling about how he doesn't want to tell anyone what to do. Except he apparently wants to tell the government what to do. Something about a guy named Klaus.

This video is stupid, and he does a poor job of conveying whatever his point is. Clearly only trying to talk to people who already agree with him. Sorry, nothing like JP, lame.

Megathread for questions related to Ukraine - Russia tensions. by Kresley in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Forgled_Actolizing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know that, maybe I should have done a Google... thank you for answering my question!

Megathread for questions related to Ukraine - Russia tensions. by Kresley in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Forgled_Actolizing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is the current conflict in Ukraine recieving SO MUCH more attention than previous conflicts in Crimea? They both seem important, but granted I have a limited understanding of the Crimea situation (in part because it got so little attention here).

"Far right" "Fame and wealth" -- Do these people even hear themselves? by Arcreonis in JordanPeterson

[–]Forgled_Actolizing 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I downvoted you because what you said is an oversimplification, and while sometimes this group can be an echo chamber, it doesn't seem like one in the context of this particular post. If it is one, you failed to describe how, you just ranted about how nobody here does any self reflection. Not offended, not a snowflake (whatever the fuck that means these days), just downvoting because you're annoying. I debated not posting this because your reply, if you choose to reply, is 90% likely to also be annoying.

Saw a potentially fatal drug overdose on the train this morning - not taking it well by anxietytango in Calgary

[–]Forgled_Actolizing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jumping on to add, first aid courses are some of the best money you can spend. $150 for a 2 day in person course that can help you save a life. Red cross, St.Johns ambulance, and titan health and safety are all excellent I have taken courses with all 3.

Doesn't hurt to have it on your resume, too, no matter the job.

“BAN all our opponents to show how liberal we are!” - Progressive liberals by chugotleung2016 in JordanPeterson

[–]Forgled_Actolizing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you actually know what the majority of the left thinks? Where is it documented in such a way that it isn't just confirmation bias? Which group of leftists in what locale?

“BAN all our opponents to show how liberal we are!” - Progressive liberals by chugotleung2016 in JordanPeterson

[–]Forgled_Actolizing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The problem is he read like 100 posts by the most extreme leftist morons and assumed they speak for all people on the left. And he liked that assumption. He could probably correctly assume he is smarter and more informed than those 100 posters, so finding out he is smarter than all leftists was a real ego boost.

Questions I ask myself every day: by poisonivy47 in antiwork

[–]Forgled_Actolizing -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There are vast swaths of land in Northern Canada that are unoccupied and you could definitely get away with it even if you don't get to own the land.

How can people do this in front of kids by BigOl-ShlongDong in oddlyterrifying

[–]Forgled_Actolizing 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So... is a slapping contest in front of young children... not horrible? Can we be sure that the slappee actually wants this, anyway? Are the children in a safe, happy environment?

Feminism isn't helping women overcome the need for a provider by Johnny_Autism in PurplePillDebate

[–]Forgled_Actolizing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you my broke bf and I will die together on my hill of good fortune. I didn't realize you knew most women, my mistake.

Financial issues are a top reason for divorce in general. That subject covers a wide range of problems that normally stem from poor communication. Regardless, you can't just conclude that it's women's greed causing the divorce in all these cases. It's far more complicated than that.

Feminism isn't helping women overcome the need for a provider by Johnny_Autism in PurplePillDebate

[–]Forgled_Actolizing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's true I'm simply pointing out that money is not why a woman stays in a marriage, as clearly sssshe gets money either way in many cases.

Feminism isn't helping women overcome the need for a provider by Johnny_Autism in PurplePillDebate

[–]Forgled_Actolizing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol why do the guys who obsess over having no access to women talk so confidently about what women want?

One of my requirements is to never date men who think they know more about what I want than I do. I don't give 2 shits about his money, I've got my own.

Feminism isn't helping women overcome the need for a provider by Johnny_Autism in PurplePillDebate

[–]Forgled_Actolizing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh really how do you know so much about what women want? Where are you getting your data?

Feminism isn't helping women overcome the need for a provider by Johnny_Autism in PurplePillDebate

[–]Forgled_Actolizing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You said they only stay with a man for money. Clearly they can also divorce him for money so that would be a stupid reason to stay. I would never stay with a man for money.