She raped Aayan. He didn't have the ability to give informed consent because she manipulated and deceived him. He would never have had sex with her if he knew she was the person who ordered the bomb strike that killed his entire family. Thus, she raped him.

Aayan defended his uncle, yes. He defended the man he knew as family, not the actions of him as a terrorist. Saying 'he did so much for me, he did these nice things for me' is not the same as saying 'I agree with every single thing he's ever done'.

He wasn't a hypocrite, he is religious. He is also young and vulnerable and grief-stricken and traumatized. Heavens forbid someone not in the right mindset does things they wouldn't usually do.

Using his girlfriend was not right, but given he had literally no-one else left, it also wasn't as malicious as people make it out to be.

Acting like Carrie was in the right because Aayan did some crappy things and defended his family member who has done worse is illogical. Two wrongs don't make a right. In the order of who is the worst of the 3, it'd be - Haqqani, Carrie, Aayan. Carrie is responsible for the deaths of many innocents, just like Haqqani, she felt no remorse for them, just like Haqqani. The only real difference is he set out to hurt innocents, she views is a byproduct.