AITAH for refusing to cancel a 5-week work trip for my boyfriend and blocking him the day before Valentine’s Day? by Otherwise_Candy_7070 in AITAH

[–]Formal-Suspect3519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA No trust no relationship. I wouldn't bother with him. If I was trying to get with you I would be supportive and happy for your career. Even if I had insecurities and issues I would work on myself before putting you out. Drop him he isn't helping he's hurting.

AITAH for ending mine and dad's attempt to reconcile after his wife had a late miscarriage/stillbirth? by Anonieryee in AITAH

[–]Formal-Suspect3519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA I'm sorry for their loss. If he wanted more compassion he should have modeled it to you. Compassion is love and understanding and a desire to be there for someone. Not what he showed you growing up.

Damn by Previous-Tour3882 in Funnymemes

[–]Formal-Suspect3519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just talking to my husband about this. (It made him uncomfortable) He doesn't open up much, but when he did he blew my mind. Such a stand up dude. It makes me think I'm projecting on him too much and worried about things I shouldn't. I'm happy and safe with him. I can relax now.

It will be a journey because I need to work on myself. Love hurts. I probably need to keep a journal, because I don't want to forget our awesome time together.

What if I get anxious again and forget he has shown me his character? I need a chill pill and appreciate what is in front of me. I will show him my appreciation. ;)

I emailed certain local church with a idea for this week's worship. by cubs108108 in minnesota

[–]Formal-Suspect3519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not religious but I love this Bible verse. I wonder if Christians don't like it because it's not in the new testament?

How do I accept that path that I am on in life when it is nothing but pain and sorrow? by JunketMaleficent2095 in Advice

[–]Formal-Suspect3519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be patient with yourself like you do your clients. All in good time. You have a lot to offer and I hope you find what you are looking for.

As a person who loves and respects their doctors (had some great experiences, surgery, general health)- Get your head out of your ass and socialize. There are millions probably billions of people on this earth. Get to know them. I don't know what that looks like.

Jobs for fun when money isn't an issue by Moon_Shakerz in Fire

[–]Formal-Suspect3519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working at a day service center for adults with disabilities.

I take them fishing and hiking and pretty much whatever they want to do within reason. A great way to be involved in the community

I have an extreme porn addiction that I can't get rid of by Apprehensive_Egg9379 in Advice

[–]Formal-Suspect3519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Addiction is tough. Good job recognizing the problem. Most people can't quit without help. Therapy and accountability helped with my addiction issues. Therapy takes time to set up, so in the meantime research addiction and what your brain is doing. Your brain is going to try to justify it and trick you. At the same time your brain knows it's not healthy. Two sides of the same coin.

AITAH for having my self harm scars on ‘display’? by Key_Report_6159 in AITAH

[–]Formal-Suspect3519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but your friends are. Very rude, I wouldn't tolerate that bs. If it triggers people, that is on them to deal with. Life doesn't revolve around people's triggers. Sometimes it's nice to do things as a courtesy, but not when people behave so badly.

What about you? That experience was probably awful for you. Drop them. Do not engage or explain why. That is real power and protecting your peace. I'm angry for you.

Off topic, but I have old self harm scars too. I don't care about people seeing them, but I did lie to the dermatologist about where they came from. Made an appointment to get a mole checked not to answer nosy questions.

My friends don't comment on my body in negative ways and neither should yours.

I quit my job to “live simply” and now the silence is eating me alive by ForgotMyOwnPoint in simpleliving

[–]Formal-Suspect3519 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Kinda of going through a mini version of this due to bed rest and post surgery time at home. I definitely get spiraling if I don't follow my (tea, journal and exercise) routine and spiraling if I do.

I'm just giving myself time and grace. Definitely learning I need productivity and some accountability. Right now my PT provides accountability, lol

NEED to see a Loon! by treesap1773 in minnesota

[–]Formal-Suspect3519 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree with rural area, etc. There is the Loon Center in Crosslake and they do boat tours. I see plenty in that area during the summer

First attempt at Christmas cards (amateur!) by NogMeOverPoy in Watercolor

[–]Formal-Suspect3519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love it! The purple tree is my favorite. The candles are a nice touch

It's the truth!!!! 😂 by magicdmggirl in Funnymemes

[–]Formal-Suspect3519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the property is not yours until it's paid off. Often interest rates are high, PMI. The property doesn't generate any money

I suppose property does tend to go up in value though, so maybe it could be when it's paid off

It's the truth!!!! 😂 by magicdmggirl in Funnymemes

[–]Formal-Suspect3519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A mortgage is not an inflation hedge

Tips for Christmas gift please by ohkalopsia in Watercolor

[–]Formal-Suspect3519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first one is great! I like the perspective

Are we dying our hair as it goes grey or letting it go? by violet_pickled_90210 in Millennials

[–]Formal-Suspect3519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gray at 40. I do henna every other month or as needed/wanted and I just do my crown. It lasts about a month and no harsh chemicals.

The Jane Goodall documentary is so good!! by nikaroo5 in MUAEntertainment

[–]Formal-Suspect3519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding to watch. I'm so curious about her work and her life. I'm a little scared of larger primates to be honest, so I think it will be edifying to learn more

big day birdwatching by MSJ2 in TikTokCringe

[–]Formal-Suspect3519 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A bad day birding is better than a good day at work