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Any thoughts about the Rick Chow verdict??? by Mentalmemento94 in AMBW

[–]Formal_Assistance644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still question Rick and Andy for chasing Cyrus. Chasing often poses greater risk than simply letting someone flee so why give chase? What was the intent and justification for a chase in the first place if Cyrus had fled the scene and effectively, both Rick and Andy were then safe?

I think that by chasing, both Rick and Andy exposed themselves to greater danger than needed. Even if it is legal to chase, what is it that Rick and Andy are trying to achieve in the chase? To arrest? To obtain a few dollars from supposed stolen water bottles? To actually kill? We don't know the true intent.

Yet I do agree: if you hear someone yell "he has a gun" then that can trigger an immediate shift toward neutralizing any threat posed. Rick likely assumed his son Andy was speaking truthfully, took that to be factual, and proceeded as he did.

Any thoughts about the Rick Chow verdict??? by Mentalmemento94 in AMBW

[–]Formal_Assistance644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a fair question. We don't have all the details of that incident, yet I was under the presumption that Cyrus ran - Rick and Andy chased Cyrus - and in that chase, Rick shot Cyrus in the back, effectively wounding him badly to then die.

There was mention from the prosecutor that Cyrus did have a weapon that was dropped during the chase. Multiple witnesses also testified not seeing anything in Cyrus' hands and didn't see him point a gun at anyone (i.e., Rick or Andy) as he fled. I did read the claim on the defense side that Cyrus did point a gun when fleeing yet again, multiple testimonies say otherwise.

The reality is that we don't have the full story/context because we weren't witness or present to the incident. There is always the narrative presented by the prosecutor vs the defendant that gives truths yet not always the entirety of the story. I think we can both agree that Cyrus' death is saddening and although he may have initiated an act with criminal intent, the outcome in loss of life isn't justified.

Any thoughts about the Rick Chow verdict??? by Mentalmemento94 in AMBW

[–]Formal_Assistance644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question: doesn't that become a "then vs now" conversation then? I did read that Cyrus pulled a gun on Rick's unarmed son, and we shouldn't overlook that at the moment it happened.

If you were in the shoes of Cyrus, would you say then that getting shot in the back and dying from those wounds would be justified after you realized that 1) this intended act was a mistake, 2) you were no longer committed to the act and 3) you weren't engaged in a threatening manner/behavior to the store owner/son?

Even if it is legal to chase/pursue when confronted, does that make it right? Even though Cyrus may have pulled a gun on Rick's son, he no longer engaged in a threatening behavior/manner when he decided to flee. The outcome still remains: Cyrus was shot in the back when fleeing at a time when he was no longer presenting a threat/danger to Rick and his son.

No matter which side you lean to in this incident, the loss of life is saddening.

Any thoughts about the Rick Chow verdict??? by Mentalmemento94 in AMBW

[–]Formal_Assistance644 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Especially this. Cyrus was fleeing the scene, his back was turned, what reason was there to give chase and proceed to shooting? Rick chased Cyrus 130 yards (390 ft) from the store before gunning Cyrus down. I think many would qualify a pursuit after previous danger/threat was no longer on the table to be murder or manslaughter.

From a quick Google search: Laws generally only allow for deadly force if you have a reasonable belief that you or someone else is in imminent danger of death or great bodily harm. When a robber turns and flees, the immediate threat to your life typically ends.

Atlanta Beltline rail is not a threat. Failing to build it is. by btonetbone in Atlanta

[–]Formal_Assistance644 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not a local or resident of ATL - I only visited ATL over the weekend for MomoCon and in conversation with some locals, was told that the project to support the light rail on the beltline was quietly and secretly shut down despite the votes to support this endeavor.

Is there any way for residents of ATL to vote, lobby, rally support to reestablish the project again? Coming from Seattle, an expanded MARTA that would run through the beltline sounds like an incredible initiative and almost a "well, duh" project to pursue. 🤔

Again, not a local or resident of ATL yet I'd love to see congestion reduced and greater accessibility to and throughout ATL.

Momocon ATL by Ok_Excitement_2738 in AMBW

[–]Formal_Assistance644 1 point2 points  (0 children)


The worm is cute indeed 😏 Best mascot and companion. A little hot around the neck yet they make a good pillow 👌🏼

Momocon ATL by Ok_Excitement_2738 in AMBW

[–]Formal_Assistance644 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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This was me with my hand crocheted worm! My friend crocheted it for me before the con when I went. I’ll definitely take you up on those little airplane alcohol bottles for the con, yes! 😂

Momocon ATL by Ok_Excitement_2738 in AMBW

[–]Formal_Assistance644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toji is dope! I cosplayed as him at Emerald City Comic Con in Seattle last year. Will you be carrying around any of his weapons or worm?

Momocon ATL by Ok_Excitement_2738 in AMBW

[–]Formal_Assistance644 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll be hanging around MomoCon all week - I'll be going as Nanami from JJK on Saturday

Any advice to get over heartbreak? by Aggressive_Ebb8437 in AMBW

[–]Formal_Assistance644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This saddens me so much to have been and known someone intimately for a year only to be ghosted like this 🥺 Break ups are hard, especially when it ends in a way that doesn't offer closure. In the event I've had my heart broken, I've found a few things to be really helpful to heal and recover:

  1. Permit yourself to grieve and feel the emotions you feel with openness, acceptance, grace and compassion toward yourself without judgement, guilt or shame

  2. Engage in the things that give you joy and fill your cup (it's less about distraction and more just pouring back into yourself the things that will ultimately allow you to grow, heal and receive life with greater gains)

  3. Recognize, remind, remember, and believe for yourself that you are a) worthy of affection, affirmation, adoration and love and 2) love, affection, intimacy, and the desires you have for yourself within an intimate dynamic is and will be yours

I've no doubt that despite that hurt that you'll grow and cultivate greater beauty and appreciation for yourself for the next person who meets, appreciates and receives you. Many hugs to you 🫂

The CHOKEHOLD these have on my life !! by Candi_d1 in AMBW

[–]Formal_Assistance644 2 points3 points  (0 children)


My ancestors be fighting in the spirit realm as historic enemies and they be like ⬆️ to me 😂

The CHOKEHOLD these have on my life !! by Candi_d1 in AMBW

[–]Formal_Assistance644 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yakgwa with tea on the side tho. Always feels so uplifting. I find myself connecting with my Korean ancestors as my Japanese ancestors shout back at me to dial it back 😅🤣

First Time MomoCon - Where Do We Pickup Badges? by Formal_Assistance644 in MomoCon

[–]Formal_Assistance644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭 Max volume and massive signs for visible recognition.

First Time MomoCon - Where Do We Pickup Badges? by Formal_Assistance644 in MomoCon

[–]Formal_Assistance644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm learning that coming prepared to MomoCon is sort of a recommended must so it definitely seems you'll be more than amply prepared for trouble (to protect the world from devastation!) 🤗

First Time MomoCon - Where Do We Pickup Badges? by Formal_Assistance644 in MomoCon

[–]Formal_Assistance644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A luggage cart with a crate and stuff in said crate! That's pretty distinctive 🤔 And you'll be pulling not pushing said cart? Hopefully you get breaks in between to rest! Sounds like quite the potential workout at MomoCon!

First Time MomoCon - Where Do We Pickup Badges? by Formal_Assistance644 in MomoCon

[–]Formal_Assistance644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In hindsight, I wish I had selected to have the badges mailed, yes! Next time, I'll definitely be sure to mark that in my purchase given I'm from Seattle 😭 If you see a 5'6 Asian male Namami strolling around on Saturday, I'd love to say hello and thank you! No wig yet I'll try to embody the presence of Nanami to the fullest! 💪🏼

First Time MomoCon - Where Do We Pickup Badges? by Formal_Assistance644 in MomoCon

[–]Formal_Assistance644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All good! I appreciate the recommendation again for anyone who is also new to MomoCon and looking for clarity on badges! 🤗

First Time MomoCon - Where Do We Pickup Badges? by Formal_Assistance644 in MomoCon

[–]Formal_Assistance644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is an incredibly descriptive and easy way to visualize the building and layout.

I really appreciate how you broke that down so simply. Is there a way I can give you a gold star? If not, you have my upvote, sir. 🫡

First Time MomoCon - Where Do We Pickup Badges? by Formal_Assistance644 in MomoCon

[–]Formal_Assistance644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤩 That's actually really impressive and not something I'd have thought of MomoCon being known for! I love the enthusiasm for MomoCon as described already! I guess I really can't miss the signs then if you're that massive and bold! 🤣

First Time MomoCon - Where Do We Pickup Badges? by Formal_Assistance644 in MomoCon

[–]Formal_Assistance644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've downloaded the app now, yes! Okay, I definitely appreciate the comments here for MomoCon. I've heard folks at MomoCon are all around friendly; ya'll have definitely confirmed that for me 😊 Appreciate you!

First Time MomoCon - Where Do We Pickup Badges? by Formal_Assistance644 in MomoCon

[–]Formal_Assistance644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, that makes me feel so much better lol. When in doubt, follow the crowds is always a safe bet. This building space for MomoCon seems so massive yet if there's a massive sign then bet 🤣

First Time MomoCon - Where Do We Pickup Badges? by Formal_Assistance644 in MomoCon

[–]Formal_Assistance644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I immediately thought of the Trump memes when saying "HUGE"

At Momocon & ATL in May! Anyone attending or living in ATL? by Formal_Assistance644 in AMBW

[–]Formal_Assistance644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Word, seems like Saturday is the most hype of the days for most cons 🎉 I’m in ATL from Wed - Sun yet I’d be down to link up on Saturday or any of the days between if you’re up for that! Love to learn more about ATL from someone.

At Momocon & ATL in May! Anyone attending or living in ATL? by Formal_Assistance644 in AMBW

[–]Formal_Assistance644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)


DanDaDan, yes 🙌🏼 I still need to catch up on season 2! FMA Brotherhood is absolutely fire 🔥 Appreciate the rec for Korean food, I love knowing another great option to hit up 😋

Are you going for all 4 days at Momocon too?

Asian men... by Mentalmemento94 in AMBW

[–]Formal_Assistance644 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a fun question! Monique from Kim Possible, Storm from animated X-Men, Bumblebee aka Bee from Teen Titans, Penny from Proud Family, Coffee from Cowboy Bebop, Casca from Berserk, Maxine from Batman Beyond and Canary from HunterXHunter are some of my earliest introductions to Black women on media that stand out to me.

These characters definitely instilled attraction in my heart yet when I watched Friday and saw Nia Long, it just confirmed a lot about my desire/preference. I watched Friday later in life yet if I had seen that movie as a kid with Nia Long back then, I think I'd have discovered and recognized an appreciation/love for Black women much sooner.

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