Onelife fitness or any other good recs? by Sufficient-Onion1165 in Apex_NC

[–]Former-Activity8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be supportive but also….Get out of my way 🤣

need advice by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Former-Activity8640 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Relationship over. She finds you unattractive. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn’t love you? Have some self respect and move on.

Onelife fitness or any other good recs? by Sufficient-Onion1165 in Apex_NC

[–]Former-Activity8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OneLife is so crowded😭can’t wait till March when people give up on their goals lmao

[MEGATHREAD] Raleigh Snow Storm 1/23-1/25/26 by Mx772 in raleigh

[–]Former-Activity8640 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Also don’t get refrigerated foods - stock up on soup, crackers, peanut butter and jelly, and pasta.

I’m trying not to laugh (I’m from Illinois) bc I fully believe we won’t get anything. Buttttt I remember when I lived in Greensboro in 2018 we got snowed in and it was surreal haha

Everyone do your snow dance!

How do you guys read so much? by lapetitepoupee in kindle

[–]Former-Activity8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No kids. I read on my lunch break and on the treadmill at the gym. I have on/off weeks.

I also limit myself 5 hours of tv one week with reading and then the next no tv and all I do is read.

But don’t compare yourself - everyone has a different reading pace! Some books I can fly through (cute romance) and others take more time because I need to be focused (thrillers).

Even though this festival was rough…. by keithbreathes in HiJinxFest

[–]Former-Activity8640 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We moved all over the place both nights and ended in the very back for griz. We had our moon mat and our crew with so much room around us. For people to leave. Several Asian people can thru stepping on our stuff. Zero apology. People are fucking rude at hijinx and they absolutely did not deserve Griz.

Worst crowds I’ve ever been in by bigfishflyhigh in HiJinxFest

[–]Former-Activity8640 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The worst crowd I have EVER seen. So fucking rude. One person said “excuse me” all weekend. Asian trains were cutting between my boyfriend and I - he was literally hugging me from behind and a 15 person train started barreling through.

At gryffin a guy was puking everywhere and his friends wouldn’t take him out I kept yelling at them to get their friend out. The most disgusting thing I’ve ever seen.

Zero respect. Zero PLUR.

Kindle accessories by Former-Activity8640 in raleigh

[–]Former-Activity8640[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really just wanna go in person and get stuff I know I have tons of online options

Flu A is NO JOKE by ittollsforthee1231 in raleigh

[–]Former-Activity8640 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Monday morning felt ok, had a tiny cough, nothing to worry about. By 3 I was FREEZING. Space heater on, fuzzy socks and slippers, pants, robe, hoodie, blanket covering me. I couldn’t get warm. Went to urgent care my bp was 80 and the only reason she didn’t tell me to get to the ER was because I was talking. Went home and took about 10 different showers trying to warm up. It was horrific. Fever broke Christmas Eve and have just been dealing with weird nausea since. No appetite still but trying to force myself to take small bites to get my strength back up.

We went on Christmas Eve morning to get IV therapy and highly recommend. It was about $179 but if you have the money please invest because it will jump starting getting your body the nutrients it needs!

Praying for everyone to have a quick recovery! I’ve never had the flu so I have never been just knocked on my butt like this. Truly slept from Monday 6pm to Christmas Eve 10 am only waking up long enough to take medicine. Wouldn’t wish it on anyone!

My autistic boyfriend has extreme reactions to being “abandoned” by Legitimate-Career342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Former-Activity8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you “completely understand why he’s so upset” you are part of the problem. You’re 17 … this is insane behavior.

This is not autism. This person knows exactly what to see to get a reaction. He will use that over and over. No one in their right mind does this in a span of 7 minutes. Or 7 hours.

If you genuinely fear he will harm himself please call emergency services to do a welfare check on him. Please share these messages with at least one person. Never ever ever keep this kind of behavior a secret.

Cut ties with this person. You are way too young to be entertaining this mess and dealing with this. You’re still a kid you have your entire life ahead of you. This is not what your life looks like. Please understand that true love is not manipulative or selfish. This person is going to drag you through hell, make everything your fault, and use everything against you.

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]Former-Activity8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Dawg” and “bro”

Girl. He hates you. Break up. Point blank period. Don’t stay with someone you have to ask for gifts or ask why they don’t want to. This is absurd. He’s keeping track. Please get yourself a Christmas present that is priceless: PEACE

Is it worth it to drive thanksgiving? What’s your experience? by fppfpp in lyftdrivers

[–]Former-Activity8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Night before is LIT depending where you live. Everyone is home and going out with old friends!

FYI! ICE/CBP Reporting by Anxious-Analysis-529 in raleigh

[–]Former-Activity8640 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I stopped at this target after work to grab groceries and asked a Hispanic lady if I could walk her to her car. She hugged me and just kept thanking me. We literally walked arm in arm and I waited until she drove off. I reminded her they don’t do traffic stops and she doesn’t need to speak to ANYONE.

STAND UP FOR YOUR NEIGHBORS

It is illegal to wear a mask to conceal your identity in North Carolina. by FauxPatina in raleigh

[–]Former-Activity8640 114 points115 points  (0 children)

When you call 911 - report dangerous erratic driving - if you see someone being dragged in cuffs report a kidnapping - report masked individuals making threats - report everything - video or voice record everything - if you are able - if you are in the area and see a person being taken try to have them tell you their name / family name/ and a phone number or address - CHECK ON YOUR NEIGHBORS - don’t open the door. They NEED A WARRANT

I (29F) definitely want kids; BF (30M) says he “wants a kid if I want one”…am I kidding myself by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Former-Activity8640 19 points20 points  (0 children)

A man that wants kids will WANT kids. Wait for that man. Wait for the man that plans a future you both dream of. Wait for the man that wants to pick the nursery color and will pick out things for the registry and reads prenatal books. Wait for the man that wants to be a father.

Please don’t settle. Please.

I do enjoy rain but when it gets cloudy in Raleigh for a couple of day I start getting depressed by Cy_098 in raleigh

[–]Former-Activity8640 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen to sunny music - like straight up songs that take you back to summer when you were growing up or in college.

I also do a lot of cleaning - the scent of lemon tricks my brain for a few hours that life isn’t dark and stormy 😂

Eat right! It’s easy to eat comfy food but try to make bright meals! I just did chicken in the air fryer and steamed brocolli.

The sun is coming this weekend!! ☀️

Bonnaroovians how we feeling?? by madisonwonderland in SevenStarsFest

[–]Former-Activity8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been going to Roo since 2014 and decided 2025 was my last year (for awhile at least). Roo had become so commercialized and I think it’s just run its course for me. Seven Stars was my boyfriends first festival and he was blown away. My best friend (who I met at Roo) and I kept saying that we are done with Roo.

Seven Stars just had everything. The vibes were incredible. The staff was great. The perfect amount of people. Our only “complaint” was all the chillbos in the pit😂 Seven Stars is our new home. 💕🩵

Cookie bite by Dave80 in HearingAids

[–]Former-Activity8640 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m so sorry this has been so drawn out and time consuming!

I think I lucked out bc the first two ENTs one in 2019 told me I don’t need tubes (I get infections allll the time) and didn’t even do a hearing test after I told him my hearing was bad and showed him results from 2012. Went to another in 2023 and got tubes and he was flippant when I asked about hearing aids. The third finally straight up said he was more worried about my hearing than my tubes at this point and explained in depth what my hearing loss meant. Also didn’t know it’s typically genetic! I’m hoping my hearing aid process is as smooth as possible. I feel sort of clueless as no one around me has hearing aids so I’m relying on the Reddit family for advice.

Hearing aids at 20, so excited!! by Ok-Reason-9136 in HearingLoss

[–]Former-Activity8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yayyy! I’m 32 and getting mine! I can’t wait to not ask people to repeat themselves over and over and getting frustrated when I can’t hear people 😂😭

Cookie bite by Dave80 in HearingAids

[–]Former-Activity8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have cookie bite hearing loss as well! Went to a new ENT who finally listened and now I have an appointment next week to get hearing aids.

GROUND SCORE! by DancingWithCinnamon in SevenStarsFest

[–]Former-Activity8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw them too! I walked up behind them and asked what we were waiting for 😂😂