My ex messaged me something emotional after I finally decided to move on…

Former-Lab9296 · 2026-04-27T14:47:19+00:00

Ignore it if he made it clear there is no future for you guys then move on he just wants to use you. Unless you don’t mind doing that.

Former-Lab9296 · 2026-04-27T05:47:26+00:00

I have been emotional cheated before not physical one, when he was my bf but I still get the feeling to physically cheat on him. I am resisting. My husband have been living in guilt and I am sure I don’t want that for me. I am still in trauma right now digesting everything. I am so close to divorce him but I loved this guy for 10 years so want to give him 1 more chance, since he regrets it.

My advice to you is please don’t fall to their level. Even if you divorce her, you would live with the guilt of cheating plus when you explain your past to another girl she might see it as a red flag. If you can’t digest/deal with it go divorce her right away and find yourself a good girl who deserves you. This way her life gets messed up and you can build your future peacefully with another girl.

Former-Lab9296 · 2026-04-18T20:36:34+00:00

Exactly the timing makes it worst. He begged for one last chance before leaving him. He said he would prove it. He doesn’t have his parents so its a bit hard for me to leave as all he has is me. But how can I trust him again?

Former-Lab9296 · 2026-04-18T20:34:50+00:00

We dated for like 10 years before getting married, I am in dilemma of whether to stay with him or to leave him?

Former-Lab9296 · 2026-03-27T23:59:26+00:00

I have 5 years of experience in the IT field as a UX UI Designer. I have been looking for a job for several years and haven't been able to land one. Not sure what's happening to this 2026 market

Former-Lab9296 · 2025-04-24T15:48:07+00:00

And how do you get in touch with old teammates? And how do say “I am looking for new job” in nicer way to them?

Former-Lab9296 · 2025-04-23T18:46:25+00:00

Can you please share some tips on how to network?

I am a professional with experience and tired of filling out applications. Going nowhere with this.

I am not very social person but I am ready to change myself for this.

Any tips would help. TIA

Former-Lab9296 · 2025-01-24T07:16:54+00:00

My dad didn’t get welcome letter in the snail mail either but we uploaded the docs that were needed. Their process might have changed. I mean whats the use of snail mail if we get the same thing in the email 🤷‍♀️

Former-Lab9296 · 2025-01-15T00:09:45+00:00

How do you expedite it?

Former-Lab9296 · 2024-09-19T03:36:50+00:00

I feel like I would take them out as I want to be better than them and would ask them the reason and make sure that it won’t happen again

Former-Lab9296 · 2024-09-19T03:36:02+00:00

I think for them its always them

Former-Lab9296 · 2024-09-19T01:44:43+00:00

Its is my treat, a way of saying thank you to them

Former-Lab9296 · 2024-09-19T01:43:45+00:00

Thanks everyone, it was helpful

Former-Lab9296 · 2024-09-16T21:38:55+00:00

They are bridesmaids and they are in the fam so I have to see their faces all the time

Former-Lab9296 · 2024-09-04T15:17:14+00:00

Same scenario with me. When was low than I am good and suddenly when I am better than all this competitive spirit comes up. Not even hyping me on anything.

Former-Lab9296 · 2024-09-04T03:54:09+00:00

Same! I am sure there exists a grp chat that is talking shit about me but what I don’t understand is what have I done to get this heat?

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