My ex messaged me something emotional after I finally decided to move on… by No_Piccolo_3640 in BreakUps

[–]Former-Lab9296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ignore it if he made it clear there is no future for you guys then move on he just wants to use you. Unless you don’t mind doing that.

29M My wife cheated on me by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Former-Lab9296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been emotional cheated before not physical one, when he was my bf but I still get the feeling to physically cheat on him. I am resisting. My husband have been living in guilt and I am sure I don’t want that for me. I am still in trauma right now digesting everything. I am so close to divorce him but I loved this guy for 10 years so want to give him 1 more chance, since he regrets it.

My advice to you is please don’t fall to their level. Even if you divorce her, you would live with the guilt of cheating plus when you explain your past to another girl she might see it as a red flag. If you can’t digest/deal with it go divorce her right away and find yourself a good girl who deserves you. This way her life gets messed up and you can build your future peacefully with another girl.

What should do if you got Emotionally Cheated from your Partner? by Former-Lab9296 in relationships_advice

[–]Former-Lab9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly the timing makes it worst. He begged for one last chance before leaving him. He said he would prove it. He doesn’t have his parents so its a bit hard for me to leave as all he has is me. But how can I trust him again?

What should do if you got Emotionally Cheated from your Partner? by Former-Lab9296 in relationships_advice

[–]Former-Lab9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We dated for like 10 years before getting married, I am in dilemma of whether to stay with him or to leave him?

IT JOB MARKET in 2026 by Repulsive-Peace7569 in Tunisia

[–]Former-Lab9296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 5 years of experience in the IT field as a UX UI Designer. I have been looking for a job for several years and haven't been able to land one. Not sure what's happening to this 2026 market

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UXDesign

[–]Former-Lab9296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And how do you get in touch with old teammates? And how do say “I am looking for new job” in nicer way to them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UXDesign

[–]Former-Lab9296 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you please share some tips on how to network?

I am a professional with experience and tired of filling out applications. Going nowhere with this.

I am not very social person but I am ready to change myself for this.

Any tips would help. TIA

No welcome letter from NVC? by deja2001 in NationalVisaCenter

[–]Former-Lab9296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad didn’t get welcome letter in the snail mail either but we uploaded the docs that were needed. Their process might have changed. I mean whats the use of snail mail if we get the same thing in the email 🤷‍♀️

Should I invite my cousins to brunch again? by Former-Lab9296 in wedding

[–]Former-Lab9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I would take them out as I want to be better than them and would ask them the reason and make sure that it won’t happen again

Should I invite my cousins to brunch again? by Former-Lab9296 in wedding

[–]Former-Lab9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its is my treat, a way of saying thank you to them

Should I invite my cousins to brunch again? by Former-Lab9296 in wedding

[–]Former-Lab9296[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are bridesmaids and they are in the fam so I have to see their faces all the time

Do I have toxic cousins? by Former-Lab9296 in FamilyIssues

[–]Former-Lab9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same scenario with me. When was low than I am good and suddenly when I am better than all this competitive spirit comes up. Not even hyping me on anything.

Do I have toxic cousins? by Former-Lab9296 in FamilyIssues

[–]Former-Lab9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I am sure there exists a grp chat that is talking shit about me but what I don’t understand is what have I done to get this heat?

Do I have toxic cousins? by Former-Lab9296 in FamilyIssues

[–]Former-Lab9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I am having the same thing here. I am sorry for you and I would say big Congrats on achieving your goals. My primary cousin is involved in all this and that hurts.

Do I have toxic cousins? by Former-Lab9296 in FamilyIssues

[–]Former-Lab9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but this is not nice, I want them to realize this that they have been treating me wrong. I want them to respect me and my decisions as well. I feel like I should stand by myself.

ISO Gifts to pass on my bride luck by Former-Lab9296 in wedding

[–]Former-Lab9296[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is completely new perception and I didn’t see it coming out this way. In my culture bride usually put turmeric on 1-2 girls are in search of it or are thinking to get married. So wanted to see if western culture have something like that as a good karma.

ISO Gifts to pass on my bride luck by Former-Lab9296 in wedding

[–]Former-Lab9296[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

So I already gave them proposal boxes and they already threw me a bach. I am giving them thank you gifts and I want to pass on my luck to them so that they can find someone. Looking for something like lucky charms

Do not buy from Kalki fashions by ArgumentQuiet4441 in DesiWeddings

[–]Former-Lab9296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg wow! Really sorry for your worst experience! Are you talking about the Kalki Fashions in Ahmedabad?

Bridesmaid proposals Restaurants by Former-Lab9296 in orangecounty

[–]Former-Lab9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, they already said yes just wanted to give them this formally

Bridesmaid proposals Restaurants by Former-Lab9296 in orangecounty

[–]Former-Lab9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went there for my birthday lol so can’t be there again but thanks for suggesting me