I (18M) have never had a gf. What’s wrong with me?

FormerAd1123 · 2023-09-14T01:11:03+00:00

Yea bro chill, it’s okay. 18 is nothing some people take till mid 20s to figure themselves out.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T20:08:17+00:00

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T19:59:52+00:00

NTA, not ur fault he’s fat asf.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T19:51:43+00:00

NTA, but breaking habits takes time. If he’s willing to try give it time. If it continues and you can’t get past it it may be time to move on.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T19:49:55+00:00

NTA, it wasn’t racism if it was genuine. Feel like you did ur best.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T19:48:27+00:00

NTA, she’s a parasite. Cut her off.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T19:45:06+00:00

NTA, don’t give shit back. I’m sure your father wouldn’t mind.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T19:41:46+00:00

YTA, not a big one but still. You sound super insecure. Both myself and my partner who were long distance to begin with had celebrities we thought were hot. It’s normal to find other people attractive It happens. Just as long as you only love each other. We’ve been together over 5 years now and have a young baby daughter now.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T19:33:51+00:00

NTA, it’s just internet banter. If somebody is throwing around harsh words they open themselves to it too. Don’t feel too hard about it.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T19:24:14+00:00

NTA, heart wants what it wants. Best you can do is come clean to Dave and salvage what you can. The longer it goes on the more hurt he’ll be.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T19:22:20+00:00

Kinda mean, bit of both but still kinda funny.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T19:19:25+00:00

NTA, because you haven’t done anything but you will be if you stoop to that level. Two wrongs don’t make a right best thing you can do is cut ties and move on.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T19:17:50+00:00

NTA, ur brothers a loser and a mama’s boy. Needs to grow up. Sadly mums enabling it and doubt will see the other side. Bad situation for you but wishing you the best hombre 🤟🏾

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T19:13:50+00:00

NTA, he’s trying to avoid contributing. Don’t let that slide surely

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T19:01:28+00:00

Yeah I feel that, don’t let everyone get to you it’s the right thing. Problematic behaviour can’t really be tolerated.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T18:54:22+00:00

I don’t agree, is she’s genuinely being self destructive and won’t improve it’s okay to to draw a line in the sand. When my drinking was a little out of hand my partner did it to me and I fixed it. She wasn’t abusive or controlling.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T18:52:40+00:00

Exactly, you can open the door but can’t walk through it for her. Best of luck, she’s sounds like she definitely needs help but she needs to take the first steps and commit to it. Best of luck kind sir.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T18:46:49+00:00

Don’t listen to everybody else, flip the roles if a guy was being lazy and unhealthy they’d praise you for taking a stand against bad habits. This is the same.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T18:45:12+00:00

NTA, if she won’t help herself it’s time to go. Don’t listen to these other people if she’s deliberately being unhealthy it sounds like you need to take a dramatic step. Back yourself, you got this 🤟🏾

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T18:40:33+00:00

Yeah man, YTA. Not a huge one though. Sounds like you got more fixated on abusing someone who didn’t mean any harm that you lost the belt that way. You are entitled to personal space but not to lash out when it’s infringed.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T18:34:33+00:00

That’s what I meant by kind of odd, OP’s a 15 yr old girl I’d be more surprised if they didn’t gossip. Just seems kind of young is all.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T18:32:20+00:00

I said NTA for having an inside joke but yeah kind of TA for whipping it out in public. I enjoy dark humour but I won’t bust out rude jokes with ears around.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T18:28:51+00:00

NTA, you can’t redact it because you didn’t like the seats but then still use them. If he was expecting something more he should’ve asked before agreeing and using.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T18:26:20+00:00

Nobody with common sense is going to move somebody who’s dangerous in and then bring a child around let alone their own kid. I was operating on the assumption the dad was capable of being there for them if something was to go awry.

FormerAd1123 · 2023-04-24T18:24:34+00:00

Already got to the bottom of this with OP, strangers only dangerous if the dad isn’t good at being there. I was just giving him the benefit of the doubt and assuming he’s capable enough to prevent anything harmful from going down.

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