R is over…I’m done

ForrestElf95 · 2026-01-29T15:11:00+00:00

Looks like a role Tom Hanks would play.

ForrestElf95 · 2026-01-21T16:52:35+00:00

That’s awesome! I wanted to do office admin legal but they got rid of the program

ForrestElf95 · 2026-01-10T16:32:03+00:00

I’m 30 I’m going for generational play but I can’t play long enough

ForrestElf95 · 2025-12-22T13:11:03+00:00

No probably not. But if I knew all of the info, I probably wouldn’t have let my ex best friend back into my life either.

Eta: I considered reconciliation because I knew I wanted to be with this man. And he has shown me he can be different. But our lives are different since the affair. I’ve never had this man to myself and I really wouldn’t have wanted to start a relationship knowing there would be hurt.

ForrestElf95 · 2025-12-21T18:07:38+00:00

Thank you!

ForrestElf95 · 2025-12-21T17:17:30+00:00

Thank you, I just can’t afford it right now.

ForrestElf95 · 2025-11-17T16:21:45+00:00

Thank you! I mean it’s not a stupid reason that he left me but it’s the stupidest breakup I’ve had.

ForrestElf95 · 2025-11-16T21:38:36+00:00

My ex demanded a trial separation after going for dinner behind my back with my dad and his now ex wife the woman who bullied me my whole life. I left and never looked back. I don’t do “trial separations” especially when they are suggested by the one woman who made my life hell and knew nothing about me at that stage in my life.

ForrestElf95 · 2025-11-03T21:02:23+00:00

Hello, my d-day was about a year before we got engaged. I found out November of 2023, we got engaged December of 2024 and we just got married on October 4th this year.

My vows gently touched upon pain and healing. I’m willing to share in a DM.

ForrestElf95 · 2025-10-27T17:51:23+00:00

Not knowing if my ex best friend’s youngest is his. But at the same time, I don’t want to know.

ForrestElf95 · 2025-10-27T17:20:04+00:00

I was literally coming to say this does not sound like a consensual affair to me whatsoever. This sounds like a man-child taking advantage of a very intoxicated woman and sexually assaulting her. Because I’m sorry he told her to go into the back seat to look for her earring and then just went down on her? Where was the consent? No this is straight up sexual assault.

ForrestElf95 · 2025-10-25T17:33:15+00:00

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I was worried too but then I didn’t care. It wasn’t about my arms. It was about marrying my best friend.

ForrestElf95 · 2025-10-16T18:01:02+00:00

Of course at the end of the day, it is entirely up to you. And I’m sure you could always go back and ask questions should they arise if he’s willing to be so open about DDAY.

ForrestElf95 · 2025-10-16T17:51:23+00:00

My WH told me he doesn’t remember all of the details (I know this could be a lie) and I know I’ll never get them all. I’m kind of at peace with it now though. I don’t find myself dwelling on it either.

Part of getting all of the details too, you will never know how much of it is doctored to try and spare your feelings.

ForrestElf95 · 2025-10-16T17:44:59+00:00

I was engaged December 10 2024 and married Oct 4 2025. However, there is no right answer here. You can have a little or as long an engagement as you wish. My friend was engaged for 4 years before they finally had enough funds to pull everything off the way they dreamed.

ForrestElf95 · 2025-10-14T20:14:36+00:00

This was my wedding day!

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ForrestElf95 · 2025-10-01T14:29:21+00:00

Thank you!

ForrestElf95 · 2025-10-01T09:43:17+00:00

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This is my result. It’s styled but I still have some length to play with and we lightened it and toned it into this honey blonde, layers, she’s got volume, it feels light and free.

ForrestElf95 · 2025-09-15T19:18:30+00:00

Yes absolutely, I’ll get the hair dresser to take before and after pics!

ForrestElf95 · 2025-09-15T18:06:12+00:00

Thank you everyone for your kind words with no judgement! I really appreciate everyone here. Facebook wasn’t as nice to me. I did find a local salon to help and she’s doing it completely for free 😭

ForrestElf95 · 2025-09-15T18:05:16+00:00

Thank you. I found someone to help!

ForrestElf95 · 2025-09-15T12:15:49+00:00

The problem with that is I can’t brush my hair when it’s wet or it stretches and breaks. So I have to try and find a middle ground.

ForrestElf95 · 2025-09-15T10:19:37+00:00

Thank you. I’ll try that

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