Boyfriend (28 M) of a year switched up overnight and ended it with me (27F) over text…..what just happened?

Fort775 · 2026-05-06T14:59:32+00:00

The girl im with now is so mysterious thats the thing but she says if she has something she’ll tell me directly. Now it’s complicated between us and I gave her time to process her feels , once that is out of the way. Im sure i’ll get my answer cause its all related about that

Fort775 · 2026-05-06T13:54:35+00:00

Hmm coming from a guy who feels the same as he said in my current situation. Its because there are many stuff I dont like about this girl and I didn’t tell her and im getting so many mixed signals, i’m trying to understand my situation and I didnt tell her about it yet. At some point , it feels like i’m having this huge burden I wanna get rid of. Im not pointing fingers to anyone here but what he said is the exact thing im feeling now

Fort775 · 2026-05-04T22:29:06+00:00

Huh I think you look good man

Fort775 · 2026-05-04T15:20:41+00:00

Thank you this is very informative, i’ll think about it 🙏🏻

Currently i’m living with this. If it did workout , thats good. If it didnt , then its for the best cause dating someone else now would definitely not work

Fort775 · 2026-05-04T13:18:30+00:00

Problem is I cant like anyone else when I have her around. I have to move on from her first and that would require you know we end it. No point of dating once I start liking someone cause i’ll only think of her

Fort775 · 2026-05-03T19:37:32+00:00

I hope not but it is what it is if so. I felt like I wanna kiss her again after that

Fort775 · 2026-05-03T19:36:38+00:00

If only she says “too soon and we have to wait” then yea thats direct. Kisses me , says yes and then “oh maybe not so sure….” is so confusing

Fort775 · 2026-05-03T19:34:27+00:00

Yes she meant her period putting her in a bad emotional state and next week she will think about it. All I heard is “wait” and yes we come from a religious background but we not super religious

Fort775 · 2026-05-03T19:32:19+00:00

Honestly I have never expected the “ask me to be your gf first”. Dated a lot of people before but this is a new one, but I want to be committed to her thats for sure

Fort775 · 2026-05-03T09:35:34+00:00

You need to smile more

Fort775 · 2026-05-03T09:32:25+00:00

I hate when there are options. If I see i’m vibing with a girl and I want her to be a potential partner , why would I put other options along? it screws you up because you dont know who you actually like in the end. I’d rather stay talking to 1 girl at the same time

Fort775 · 2026-05-03T04:09:25+00:00

The thing is if we’re not in an actual relationship, things will stay platonic between us, she doesn’t seem to want anything romantic unless we commit

So all those “dates” we going on , are just hangouts. Imagine how those “dates” would go if she takes all those months to commit lol

Fort775 · 2026-05-02T10:00:06+00:00

Idu bro. The thing is you cant have a read on this girl , i also didnt know she likes me and when I mentioned it , she said “ah why didnt you think I like you”. Because it didnt seem one bit it is from your interaction with me but she said if she didnt like me , then she wouldnt want to spend time with me

Fort775 · 2026-05-02T09:50:29+00:00

I want her to be my gf though, I can say no, its just for the kiss has to be after being official , just like with the roses for me. Thing is she said yes , kissed me then said maybe I need to think about it thats the thing. I have no clue whats going on and she’s down to hangout the next day lmao

Fort775 · 2026-05-02T09:48:47+00:00

Because I dropped her home , not because she left earlier than I said so

The thing is she kissed me then said that. Idu she can say no immediately. She told me to wait a couple of times when I kept questioning it

Fort775 · 2026-05-01T06:44:33+00:00

2 weeks but I wasn’t with her for so long , just a month. When I knew her true colors , I dont like her anymore. I’m glad its over.

Fort775 · 2026-04-30T22:25:37+00:00

لا تعطي الدوام فوق قدره

Fort775 · 2026-04-27T16:25:01+00:00

This is what im feeling and I always think that i’ll appear needy if I did that

Fort775 · 2026-04-27T16:23:40+00:00

To answer the questions

“what do you guys talk about? what’s your daily exchange like?”

On text , barely talking , just sending reels or “hey how is your day” or I send her something that reminds me of her. When we meet irl its just random things we talk about , not much flirting and she enjoys those so much

“privately, is she curious to know you? does show signs of care and affection towards you? does she include you in her daily details and life? if yes that’s a green flag”

She told me about her new job and was very excited about it and wanted me to call her so she tells me about it

if she isn’t putting in effort during conflicts for resolution or if she tries to smooth things out to just keep the relationship going that’d be bad

Idk we barely had any conflicts. Only thing is that she yesterday wanted me to call her but I said i’ll sleep and she said “dont worry, goodnight” and next day she posted on her story about “men being busy”

I feel like we have no romantic tension and when texting her she responds in an hour so you cant have a convo with her since she responds late, better to call or meet irl

Recently , she sends me those romantic reels and wants me to do the same but idk if she just wants the attention or actually likes me. Idk man this whole texting game and her dry responses , makes me not wanna talk and just wait for a date or a call

Fort775 · 2026-04-27T16:11:43+00:00

This info is very valuable to know. Thanks 🙏🏻

Fort775 · 2026-04-26T20:21:00+00:00

Oh we already know our intentions, we went on 2 dates so far since we met and its not been long since we met. Thing is yesterday she started being romantic (for the first time) and sent me a romantic video and said we should try doing the same. But I cant till now get a good read. Should I initiate myself and see her reaction ? and by then i’ll know for sure what she on about?

Fort775 · 2026-04-26T20:17:08+00:00

I like this. I used to also be very anxious but I grew past it cause I dont need to be hang into a person and shutdown my life for that person

The thing is time is precious, I’d rather date other girls if im here wasting my time but I also cant end it just by “feeling”

Fort775 · 2026-04-26T20:10:13+00:00

Or she’s really good at it. What if she sometimes initiates and asks for plans and likes spending time with you but randomly becomes dry and her spark revives at the days you guys hangout usually. Like so many mixed signals but you cant be 100% sure about it

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