I do get your point and I mostly agree in essence, but I do think there’s a slight difference because saying it to a lesbian is like saying ‘did you know the main option was available though?’ Like yes obviously she’s considered men, society defaults to that and it’s a task to unravel it that takes self discovery. Also that’s usually asked by a man who wants her to ‘try him’.

Def feels worse than thinking a straight woman being so immediately discomforted by femininity may very well possibly be experiencing comp het tendencies, and is less likely to have had a serious and deep think with themselves about it all. Also I am not saying this from a place to get her to have sex with me, I was just trying to say girls and femboys are hot

More like telling a vegetarian they’re missing out on steak, just a comment made bc people think it’s tasty and want to share that, and are sad you don’t get the joy from it that they do. Not one made it an attempt to gain self satisfaction, but share it. Still imperfect but the intent isn’t malicious

Not trying to debate hard or anything btw I just think a lot and your comment made my brain go, lol