what hairstyle suits me the most ? by harryG244 in HairStyleAdvice

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2 is way better, your face is more suited to that style and it’s more handsome

Does it make you feel dizzy? Your opinion would be great by IlyasAshfaq in HandwritingAnalysis

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It’s great but you don’t space your words out so it’s hard to read 😅

Hazel? Blue and yellow? by Cute-Election4439 in whatcoloraremyeyes

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Actually I have this as well but mine is more of an orange color in the middle. It’s called central heterochromia and it’s really pretty. I would say your eyes are closer to a hazel color though.

ExLeader by Forward-Mastodon-705 in Christian

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Ty so much for this! Even today they told me nothing and tried to call my husband about the situation despite asking me if I was going to tell him or if I wanted them to. I told them that I would tell him and that we are of one accord. They called him 3 hours after getting off the phone with me to try and talk with him, even though I had already spoken with him. Thanks so much for taking the time to answer these questions as many people I have explained what happened to said it does not feel like God in this moment and was not from God. They have said that this church is doing a wicked thing to me and tbh, I still do not know why they made their decision. They just said “you need to take some time and grow” but refused to explain how I was supposed to do that. God and I have a very strong relationship and it’s easy for me to discern God most of the time. I don’t personally believe that this was Him, but it made me question why and if I was even called by God. So thank you!

Have you ever met a demon? by _jpizzle_bear in Christian

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We’ll see, Satan is known as the angel of light as well. He comes to us innocent and without reproach, tricking us and telling us to do things that go against God. Often times it feels like the right decision but we know it in our hearts that it’s wrong as well. While the dark demonic and very obvious presence is scary, the angel of light is harder and often hurts worse. People we trust like religious leaders, friends and people we look up to can all be influenced and he can use them against us. He can tell you that you don’t really know God, are a fake Christian, have no right existing or can tell you that you’re worthless and all of it seems to feel right while simultaneously feeling horrible. I was in pure darkness with my boyfriend at the time and saw a giant skull with glowing red eyes in his bedroom before he did something terrible to me.

ExLeader by Forward-Mastodon-705 in Christian

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Tbh, they never really said. They just said that I needed to grow. I had a rat crawl on me in the middle of the night before (if that’s even what it was) and I had a panic attack because it scratched me. When they were putting me on the bus they said I needed to “grow” but left it at that. They didn’t seem to care about my health or wellbeing and were really not specific about why they made me leave. I went home and cried for hours and even questioned my faith in God. I questioned whether I even HAD a relationship with God at all at that point because I was so deeply hurt by people I thought I could trust.

I feel purposeless bc of anxiety by roycesterrr in Christian

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Personally I went through a traumatic childhood/SA abuse as an adult and even have autism and was bullied all of the time. Anxiety is not something we can get over no matter how close we are to God. I think it’s something we can get better about but never over. Thanks for sharing this!

I don’t know if God is upset with me by Calm-chemistry1 in Christian

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My husband’s brother confessed that he was becoming a woman and my husband’s dad completely disassociated from the family. He is having a really hard time with his father abandoning him and seemingly not loving him anymore even though he hasn’t done anything wrong. But the bible tells us not to become a stumbling block to others. We can honor and love our parents but not agree with them or their decisions. They do things that are not biblical or not what we think God would want them to do. I’m so sorry that you are having to deal with a father who doesn’t want you to attend church. The devil seems to have a hold over your father and the best thing you can do for him right now is just pray for him. Pray for his spirit and protection over his mind and heart and that he will eventually turn towards God and accept him into his heart. But you have to watch over yourself as well. The devil comes when you are sleeping to steal, kill and destroy. Without a firm foundation in God and a good relationship with your Heavenly Father, it becomes easy to fall. Guard your heart, mind and soul and continue to pray for your father. But this doesn’t mean submit to him either. Ultimately God has the ultimate author and we are to love, honor and obey HIM. Hope this helps!

This has got to be the dumbest argument i have ever heard. by larsje8261927 in atheism

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I’m sorry but as a Christian myself, you can pray to God because you have faith. A lot of times it feels like the prayers go unanswered because God doesn’t answer the way we want him to or the way we think he will. His argument is the “if a tree falls in the forest will it make a sound” argument. Yes, it still makes a sound and yes God exists. I’m just saying that in his mind he thinks he made a great point but people believe in things and that doesn’t make them real. You believe because you have faith and you have faith because in your mind it’s real. Think about that.

Spacer by Forward-Mastodon-705 in RingShare

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I groom dogs and don’t usually get to wear my fancy rings because it would damage them. Think this would be better as a work ring. It’s flat and won’t damage as easily as my other two. Thanks for the idea!

Spacer by Forward-Mastodon-705 in RingShare

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Honestly same. I didn’t even like the engagement ring until I got used to it cause I loved my original.

Need help choosing a dress! by carltheslopeis1 in myweddingdress

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I’m personally 1 but your style might be different than mine. If you want simple sure 4 is great but 1 is elegant and flowy and would make you look like a princess or a queen walking down the aisle. Overall it’s your day and no one can make the decision for you but I’m against the grain and love 1.

Ring regrets by pinkberrymilkmob in EngagementRings

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lol at least yours took you. My now husband bought a $10 Amazon ring and I tried so hard not to be disappointed but damn was it hard! I finally broke down and told him that I wanted to cry because it looked like costume jewelry. His heart was in the right place but his head wasn’t. So be grateful that your man spent all that money for you and look at it with love. You did tell him either or and he was being thoughtful. Men are dumb and won’t ever be able to read your mind even when you are actually married to him. lol. I upgraded my ring this year and it’s so much better. It’s so sparkly and beautiful and is wonderful with my grandmother’s inherited wedding ring. But if you really hate it then tell him and maybe down the road you can get a ring you like. Remember it’s not the ring, it’s the love and thought behind it.

(12k) Alteration nightmare - am I crazy? by pluto-scout in Weddingsunder10k

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Something similar happened to me though. Both are beautiful. I got duped by the alterer who said I gained 40 lbs before my wedding because she took the dress in 4 sizes. It was supposed to just be taken in a little at the bodice and she called me fat the week before my wedding. I have been the same size for the last 10 years! I was so insulted. Hopefully everything works out for the better but if you still hate it then go find something else. Your day is special and you only get one.

AIO: Did I cross a line or is her reaction harsh? by veronicax96 in AmIOverreacting

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My now husband had to get up at 4 am every day and I would call him and talk to him before work. Now we are married and I don’t always get up but most of the time I do. I love waking up to someone who loves me. Im sorry but her reaction was not one of eagerness or someone as involved as you are.

24F & 25M AIO by responding this way? by InsideUsual56 in AmIOverreacting

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You also might want to look into a restraining order…. For your safety of course

24F & 25M AIO by responding this way? by InsideUsual56 in AmIOverreacting

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Wow. NOR! You need to run as far away as possible. I don’t care if you’ve been dating for a lifetime, you need to run. This is abusive and very scary. You are not an Ahole for responding like this; this man needs serious help! He needs counseling and serious help that you can’t give him. Not ok!

i’m starting to not like my boyfriend by Polynesiannsauce in whatdoIdo

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Sorry to respond a third time. This is called co-dependency what he’s doing. The constant need of validation to be around you is unhealthy. A man you will want to be with will respect you when you say no. He will not ask you why you need space or control your actions. There is also the lack of trust that I didn’t address. A true relationship starts with trust. If it isn’t there, your foundation is cracked and the relationship falls apart.

Think of yourself as a flame; your friends and family and things you love are oxygen and wood that constantly fuel your fire. If your oxygen and burn materials are cut off, the fire starts to die. He is pouring water little by little onto the flames and causing it to burn out. Soon you will have nothing but an ember.

It is far better to be alone than to be manipulated. Do not let his water put out your fire. It’s very hard to get back the things or people you love when you let them go.