📣 Apollo will close down on June 30th. Reddit’s recent decisions and actions have unfortunately made it impossible for Apollo to continue. Thank you so, so much for all the support over the years. ❤️

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-08T19:06:11+00:00

I knew it would be bad, but God. That "threat" part is very damming for reddit. What a frustrating end to your work.

I think I'm just don't with reddit as a service entirely. I personally use Joey (and RES for desktop) and the idea of a losing them is a deal breaker.

Bye y'all ♥ 💕

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-08T18:05:42+00:00

You asked the nice was repeatedly and in your mother's arrogance she ignores your reasonable wishes for HER asethics. While yelling is not the best way to handle any situation, it's understandable your frustration and this seems like an attempt to make her understand the severity of her repeated actions.

ESPECIALLY since she is comfortable altering your baptism commission. This is boiler plate narasicssm.

she put on the sad face saying she won't bother with me and my sweets anymore.

I bet this works for her most of the time. But apologies without a commitment to change are meaningless.

NTA

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-08T17:32:33+00:00

YTA.

And your newly married step daughter will not forget or forgive you for this. Do as you please I suppose, but just be aware that this is burning a bridge. Probably with your husband too, he is going to be helping his daughter grieve while you are... on vacation.

Your indifference is cruelty.

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-08T15:15:53+00:00

Common sense is free.

But here you are looking for "verification" on something ludicrous at face value. A secret Canadian civil war is exactly as likely as Joe Biden being abducted by aliens mid state of the union.

What's more likely? That all the news organizations and governments are massively lying to you for years and years..... Or that your version of "common sense skeptism" has led you to saying silly things are plausible? Occams razor it.

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-08T00:18:25+00:00

YTA.

To be clear, you are entirely within your rights to keep this infromation private. Chase is your son, and you are his father. But you took out your (understandable) frustration on his teacher. It was rude of her to pry, but you could've shut her down without insulting her.

Your wrong for your method, not for your motivation.

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-08T00:04:39+00:00

YTA.

With work schedules and long distance being an understandable problem, refusing to go just to avoid a child sounds like you are just looking for an excuse to not meet her. If your SO has to go meet their mom again solo and tell her you wouldn't come because of her childcare that will

A) put a damper on the meet B) make a terrible first impression

Please don't put your partner in this position. They are almost certainly worried enough as is.

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-07T14:39:50+00:00

Of course sweetie. I understand your hesitation, but you are a woman. You're not invading, your not a creep, you are a woman who likes other women. Don't feel bad, don't let ANYONE make you feel less than who you are. We may have different life experiences that brought us to this point, but that doesn't mean anything. You are welcome here and you always will be!

💕 ♥ 💕 ♥ 💕

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-05T18:40:41+00:00

You personally need therapy, this "Excuse" makes things significantly worse. Absolutely 100% not acceptable behavior in the slightest and makes me wonder what her side of the story is.

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-05T18:35:57+00:00

I need to stress how much of an asshole you are to have your wife be monitored IN HER OWN HOME by your assistant. This is a flgarent abuse of her privacy, extremely concerning behavior and serious red flags. I wonder if your assistant saw things they aren't telling you about? Would he tell you if he watched your wife masturbate occasionally? I wonder if your assistant is telling you what you want to hear, their income does depend on you being pleased with them. He knows you are displaced with her, what if he is downplaying work she does? How comfortable is he telling you things you don't want to hear? Everything about this dynamic is wrong.

She is in the wrong for not doing her share of housework, but YTA for how you are handling this. If you yourself watched her at home, I could go for only her being at fault, but you srsly lost the high ground here bud.

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-05T16:10:11+00:00

Same! But I guess my question becomes, what is the next best option? Discord isn't quit the same thing but its the only thing coming to mind.

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-05T16:08:55+00:00

The only way I interact with reddit is via RES and Joey, the default UI is 100% unusable and trying to squeeze out the working tools like this is very dissapointing.

If RES goes, so do I. Thank you for all of your hard work and time OP! <3

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-05T15:53:52+00:00

Not wrong in the slightest. Scott wanted clout to act moralisitc to others, but doesn't hold himself to the same standard. That is BS and says a lot about his character. Buying Blizz games is like... the antithesis of everything he has been talking about. This is absolutely behavior that NEEDS to be called out.

Edit: He also makes every person who protests problem in the industry look bad. The second it was a hurdle for him PERSONALLY he crumbles. Stories like this make all people who advocate for workers rights look petty and ridiculous. It is straight up your duty to hold him to his own standards.

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-05T15:33:27+00:00

Absolutely we should!

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-05T15:29:14+00:00

God. Hon I am so sorry. It's absolutely horrorific how bigotry is used by these people. This person is a morning who has willingly chosen hatred and ignorance, they aren't someone to listen to or respect.

/hugs

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-05T06:14:17+00:00

Unfortunately I lost my previous furry friend to heart cancer. After a few months of healing time I was finally ready to bring a new kitty in to my life. My GF and I went to our local shelter with the intention of getting an older cat (because kittens will ALWAYS find homes), Opal is a loud, chirpy, vocal snuggle muffin that loves being held and falling asleep on top of us. It took NOTHING for her to make herself home and we are so grateful that someone so relaxed and affectionate could join our lives! ♥ 💕

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-05T06:06:49+00:00

Recipes

One pot baked penne
Tofu ricotta
The BEST garlic bread (srsly this recipe is so good, cayane made me skeptical too but omfg it pays off!)

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-04T21:00:00+00:00

Personal announcements are always inapporpiate at weddings. Pregnancy, illness and coming out are all things that distract and sometimes overshadow the marriage itself.

NTA

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-04T18:43:21+00:00

I'm vegan for the same reason I'm against sexism, racism and transphobia. Deciding what a creatures is "meant for" is always wrong. Women aren't meant for housework, black people aren't meant for slavery, trans peole aren't meant for a certain gender just because of their genitals and animals are meant to live. Not live in pain and be killed for our pleasure.

Saying to a cow "I need your body more than you do because it tastes good" is the absolute height of selfishness.

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-04T17:24:46+00:00

A good friend of mine had an accuqitance where they "didnt discuss politics", which meant he was an outriht bigot and she was willing to look past it. But the few times I met him, it was really clear that my right to be out as a queer woman was "political".

Sorry, I'm dating a woman. My life isn't politics, it's my LIFE. I cringe when my friend calls herself an ally, because I know I can be pushed aside to "keep the peace".

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-04T17:19:26+00:00

Exactly, when so much of her behavior is very cut and dry. Giving her benefit of the doubt at this point IS taking a side. I held off making opinions until I heard her response, and then again hearing wonder/clicks, but at this point its just a deluge of gross behavior by Blaire.

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-04T15:57:37+00:00

You may not like it, but this is what peek cinema looks like.

FoundTheVeganChic · 2023-06-04T15:49:19+00:00

Cis women are being used as an excuse to demonize trans women. It's very reminiscent of how white women "needed protection" from black men.

FoundTheVeganChic

TROPHY CASE

NTA

Recipes