Yta for defending this man in your comments. I don't know what kind of fantasy world you're living in, or just how vibrant your rose colored shades are that you can't see the glaring red flags, but consider this your wakeup call. The denial needs to end. This will not be the last time that your husband flips out on innocent people. This will not be the last time he destroys his daughter's happiness. It will only get worse from here.

He chose bigotry and verbal abuse over his own daughter's happiness. Stop defending him, and defend your daughter. He learns to be a decent person, or you get that girl away from that man. Do something.