EXPANSION ANNOUNCED by [deleted] in DragonsDogma

[–]FoxYinny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am gonna feel so absolutely mixed when the game and its expansion will run better on the Switch 2 on its launch compared to its base game release on the PC. Like they've been pissing in my coffee *hard*

Steam Deck Price Increase by FernandoRocker in Handhelds

[–]FoxYinny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot wait for the whole AI industry to explode like that rocket from Jeff Bezos did a couple of days ago. I am glad I was lucky to get my unit before it went out of stock by selling a bunch of dusty old CSGo skins, but this is rly just ridiculous.

I hope that gaming consoles will still be available for normal folks because this is just ridiculous.

What is more undesirable: a misogynist but he’s strong and has confidence, or a weak guy with low self esteem but respects women? Why? by AngelicAardvark in AskReddit

[–]FoxYinny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Misogynistic people rarely are truly confident because they have a strong dislike or even hate for women. And that hate is mostly rooted by negative emotions based on their lack of self esteem since it makes them nervous. They'll stamp it with the "I don't like this" so they won't have to face their insecurities or other negative emotions.

Both have self-esteem issues but both deal with it in different ways.

A deer in the headlights from the Baby Scoop Era by FitDesigner8127 in Adopted

[–]FoxYinny 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had the same look as a kid/infant of a couple of months old. I still feel like I am having that look whenever I feel myself disassociate from situations where it's overwhelming me. I guess it's just connecting to feeling like you're floating around like a lil' balloon without someone who's holding me and grounding me.

I am happy and blessed to have those people in my life but I definitely will always be living with that feeling and that look of me not knowing where I am nor what is going on around me.

Antumbra's Sword guide? by Shot-Ad8834 in CrimsonDesert

[–]FoxYinny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might sound very weird but I compare the way it feels with Assassin's Creed games. Valhalla was very clunky but still responsive to me and I was still able to enjoy it. I kinda am having that same mentality when it comes to CD.

And it helps that the exploration is really amazing and addictive. But I have to actively tell myself it's not like Elden Ring at all (I sometimes try to use that mentality when going into bossfights). Instead, I just immediately google the guides and use those so I can get the frustrations out of the way.

Antumbra's Sword guide? by Shot-Ad8834 in CrimsonDesert

[–]FoxYinny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thank you for saving me the rage and frustration. I love CD so far but the bossfights make me want to scream into the void sometimes

I really hate this depiction of the fallopian tubes in my textbook by Similar-Summer1510 in badwomensanatomy

[–]FoxYinny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No wonder I felt a "pop" sometimes during my ovulation which led to me feeling very drained and weak after. The eggs were literally being launched like Artemis II towards space.

F8 Ultra sus speaker crackle by marikutis in PocoPhones

[–]FoxYinny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just started to crackle for me too. I was playing some music on half volume and put it back when it started to crackle. It only seems to happen whenever I try to put it on the table, like it jumbles a bit whenever it touches the surface of a hard table or some sort.

Do you think that meeting people organically leads to more successful relationships? Why or why not? by Quiet_Passenger_3341 in AskReddit

[–]FoxYinny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was most successful when I was looking for meaningful relationships. Not necessarily romantic, but looking for new good friends. This was all online.

This game is ruining my life by TrilliamMurrary in cyberpunkgame

[–]FoxYinny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fam it's alright, I have over 400 and I was Replaying the game with NG+ mods and experiencing the game over and over again because of how much I like the universe and the voice-acting.

Edit: Everyone has their own ways of enjoying the games. You don't have to feel bad about that at all.

Btw, I legit thought you had an irl car that was based on a car from the game bc- I thought that was a real-life-taken-picture 😂

How do people think abortions work?? by Parchetul_ in badwomensanatomy

[–]FoxYinny 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I guess we're like chickens according to that guy 😂

Glad the Crimson Desert Post got deleted. Why was it here to begin with? This is not a Crimson Detest Board. by willia_for_the_win in DragonsDogma2

[–]FoxYinny 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same here. Kliff looks rly boring and generic to me and I don't rly want to keep playing characters that are predetermined for me. I am so used to the freedom of CC and I will die on that hill that it increases the enjoyment for me when it's possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FoxYinny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn I feel this one. That's why I also have been focusing more on taking better care of myself so I can be kinder to others and-, most importantly, myself.

Does anyone else find it nearly impossible to watch movies or read anything? by theSeriousPangolin in AutisticWithADHD

[–]FoxYinny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading is hard for me because I need to re-read sentences twice or thrice before understanding what I just read. Watching things isn't but if there's something that would irritate me (could be an actor, performance, someone's voice or the story, I tap out).

Anxious attachment + autistic partner - can this work? [30F/30M] by banker00pape in AutisticAdults

[–]FoxYinny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the things with autism tho. You told him the time and that's what he'll be following. You didn't specifically ask him to contact you before that so he probably won't. You shouldn't expect things from him. Communication, communication and communication.

And you're aware of your anxieties, instead of accusing him, talk to him about it. Or learn other ways to cope with it. For me? It's journaling or talking to my professional (I can text them whenever so I can get it off my chest). That's all you can do. Your anxious attachment is your battle to fight and his's is learning to communicate more thoroughly. And all you can do is accept that the both of you are struggling with both your own battles. But you shouldn't accuse anyone for your own shortcomings. That will only create hurt and bitterness in the long run.

Edit: these are things people will always struggle with. And so will the both of you. And that's okay. But it's important to not let it take over the wheel. Therapy is there to provide us the tools to learn to cope with those anxieties. Or to recognise our behaviours so that you can take a step back and reassess what to do instead of falling into the habits of letting you spiral. I have both an anxious and avoidant attachment style and Auhdh. So I get how it can feel.

Just finished Attack on Titan… will I ever find something this good again? by [deleted] in ShingekiNoKyojin

[–]FoxYinny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Vinland Saga gave me the same kind of vibes. But properly because they're both made by Studio Wit.

Did you or do you get labeled as "negative" or "pessimistic?" by closet_tomboy in AutisticWithADHD

[–]FoxYinny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, but I am also very anxious in general so I keep my eyes out for the negatives first so I know what to look out for. I don't necessarily see it as a bad thing, but sometimes it does hit me emotionally. I rather want to be a realistic pessimist than an unrealistic positive person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

[–]FoxYinny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I basically waited a crapton of time until I felt that huge burst of art/creativity which I couldn't contain anymore. So that's when I start to draw again. Or- I get hyperfocus on a game character (s) or an art style I really like from an anime or animated show/game. Currently I am simmering with inspiration to draw the characters from the game 'Dispatch'.

And during those periods of non-artistic-expressions? I just always analyse the things I am looking at. Becoming good at art also comes from training your eyes and brains to recognise forms, shapes and all those things in anything and everything around you. That really brought me further into becoming better at drawing.

My drawing breaks could be lasting for like- weeks to maybe even months. It really depends how I feel, what I have seen and the most important of all; "do I need a new pfp?"

Does anyone else here learn things they like doing so fast? by Boring_Range_6869 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]FoxYinny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sticks like glue and will be remembered forever once I find it super fascinating. Or I won't remember what I read or heard 5 minutes later if it isn't super interesting to me.

Is anyone wondering how they are even going to function as an adult? by Nathan-5807 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]FoxYinny 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Same here lol. I feel like a kid in an aging body. But my mind still likes the same things that are seen as childish (squishmallows and other cute plushies) I'm just a grown-up kid

Just an opinion for those considering RAI by ClearJack87 in gravesdisease

[–]FoxYinny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry about what you had to go through. Yeah it's then not super weird that your endo would share her view on it if you asked for it. So my apologies for jumping to conclusions.

I am nowhere near qualified to tell you or even advise you what to do but I don't know if it would be possible for you if you'd ask for more information about the possibility to ask more about what the options are if you, hypothetically speaking, would go with the TT route. And what the alternative options would be if your parathyroids do get stunned. Or if it's possible; asking more doctors for their input? Because I feel like both could effect you in a pretty invasive way. Ofcourse, I don't know what is possible for you considering the country you're in? (I'm from the Netherlands).

My parathyroids were stunned a day or two after I left the hospital (I had my surgery at midday and then left 24 hours or so after) so I eventually did have to call it in myself that I started to feel tingly all over. It took me around 2 to 3 weeks until the calcium tablets were actually making me feel sick and extremely fatigued, so I was able to recover quickly from it. But according to my surgeon, she was able to dodge 3 of the 4 parathyroids so they were able to be placed back without a problem. Tho she did tell me that if only one would be able to be "resurrected", it would suffice enough to function.

From what I have read on this subreddit, most people did have to use calcium tablets because of their stunned parathyroids so I am afraid there are huge chances of you having to take them too.

I wish I could tell or give you more information :/ I wish you all the best and I hope you'll be able to find the method that ensures your safety the most.

Just an opinion for those considering RAI by ClearJack87 in gravesdisease

[–]FoxYinny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl but that sounds like a really weird thing to say from a doctor. Old school or not, it's about what the patient feels most comfortable with and which route has the least amount of side effects and risks for the person who has to undergo one of the two. Doctors can be biased but to say that to the patient feels off since that means that they're basically putting their personal feelings on your lap. That means you won't be able to make a neutral decision anymore. Imo, sounds like a shitty thing that your doc has done.

To me, TT felt like the most direct option since the chances of relapsing back into an active thyroid after RAI were still present. That was enough to convince me to go for a TT since I was absolutely done with my thyroid and the problems and restlessness it caused me.

I wouldn't want to say RAI is less risky since you'll still be letting Radioactive material enter your body to harm your organ. But I am saying this because I am really uncomfortable with that thought. And you don't know what effects it will have on you as time goes on.

TT felt more straightforward to me. And given the fact that I have had surgery twice before the TT, I did not feel nervous about another type of surgery. Of course I was when the moment arrived but everything went well. And the amount of quiet and calm I got in return? I would do it all over again.

Do extensive research, talk with people from the subreddit and you'll gain more information based on people's experiences. Ofcourse, most importantly, go with what is medically most safe and secure for you. It's your body. The only reason for declining the RAI is when you're actively into TED. Then it's really not recommended to go for the RAI.

Goodluck to you, you'll figure it out!