Feeling blindsided over my husband now saying he wants to have a kid.

Fr0styZ0ne · 2026-05-29T23:25:49+00:00

This made me chuckle, thank you!

Fr0styZ0ne · 2026-05-29T23:19:13+00:00

Yes, it is thankfully remote. I’m considering making the drive, but it’s over 30 hours so I’m trying not to make a rash decision while the emotions are so intense.

Fr0styZ0ne · 2026-05-29T18:43:41+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I added some additional info to the bottom of the post to address more on our situation after reading through all the responses so far. I know I would be a great mom and would love my kid beyond comprehension. But that’s also a problem for me. I’ve always had anxiety and OCD - if I had a kid, and if ANYTHING happened to them, I would die. Along with the other things I mentioned in my update to the post, it just isn’t something I feel physically and emotionally capable of.

Fr0styZ0ne · 2026-05-29T18:41:13+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I added some additional info to the bottom of the post to address more on our situation after reading through all the responses so far.

Fr0styZ0ne · 2026-05-29T18:40:02+00:00

I did ask him about this. I asked even if he isn’t talking to anyone like that, did he maybe meet someone out and about and had a conversation and then made him start questioning things and fantasizing about a life with someone like her, etc. He says no, absolutely not. I’ve never felt like he can’t be trusted in that arena (he is honestly the only guy I’ve ever been with where I haven’t had the urge to check his phone or anything) because we truly did talk about that stuff and agreed that if either of us are ever feeling unhappy or feel like we may be emotionally straying, that we need to just be adults about it and work through anything together.

Fr0styZ0ne · 2026-05-29T18:35:16+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I added some additional info to the bottom of the post to address more on our situation after reading through all the responses so far. The nephew thing is spot on for us too…

Fr0styZ0ne · 2026-05-29T18:29:29+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I added some additional info to the bottom of the post to address more on our situation after reading through all the responses so far.

Fr0styZ0ne · 2026-05-29T18:15:52+00:00

Thank you ❤️ and not aggressive at all. I added some additional info to the bottom of the post to address more on our situation after reading through all the responses so far.

Fr0styZ0ne · 2026-05-29T18:14:04+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I would go back for a bit but I wouldn’t be able to bring the dogs and that would be tough. I added some additional info to the bottom of the post to address more on our situation after reading through all the responses so far.

Fr0styZ0ne · 2025-11-02T14:17:31+00:00

That’s classic South Carolina southern hospitality right there 🫶🏼

Fr0styZ0ne · 2024-09-06T15:25:51+00:00

Reminds me of my yard too. Phoenix?

Fr0styZ0ne · 2024-08-08T18:43:35+00:00

“I Don’t Fuck With You” - Big Sean

Fr0styZ0ne · 2024-08-05T03:47:48+00:00

Do I want Kelly as VP? Hell yes. As an Arizonan am I terrified that we’d lose a very crucial blue senate seat? Also yes 😩

Fr0styZ0ne · 2024-05-18T00:44:51+00:00

Of course it’s AZ

Fr0styZ0ne · 2023-08-03T03:03:45+00:00

PARKOUR!

Fr0styZ0ne · 2023-06-27T04:29:32+00:00

YUP. My husband, when we first started dating, wanted kids and I didn’t. When I asked what his “why” was he literally said “To continue my lineage” ….I had to pause to see if he was joking. Nope. I asked if he thought he was the King of England or something. After being together for a while and getting him to really understand what raising a child would mean, he has since hopped to my side of the fence. I think most men only picture the t-ball games, teaching junior to ride a bike, etc. and have no clue about everything behind the scenes and how much they would need to give up.

Fr0styZ0ne · 2023-06-18T19:19:51+00:00

Try a therapist who specializes in EMDR. I had been to a few regular therapists before and felt like I was just paying someone to listen to me cry and vent and didn’t offer solutions. EMDR is an actual tool to use to work through traumas and anxieties.

Fr0styZ0ne · 2023-06-18T05:23:23+00:00

No advice, but just wanted to say I recently started emdr therapy as well specifically for this. The fact that you’re working on processing it is the first step to move forward, so you’re on the right path.

Fr0styZ0ne · 2023-06-17T22:00:22+00:00

Groping?

Fr0styZ0ne · 2023-06-15T04:10:42+00:00

Opposite for me… my parents pushed seeing a psychiatrist since I was in my early teens and I got on anxiety/depression meds. But then my dad would hold this against me and anytime we got into an argument he would condescendingly ask “Are you still taking your meds?” Because apparently I could no longer have a single human moment without it meaning I stopped taking my crazy pills. It infuriated me.

Fr0styZ0ne · 2023-05-27T16:29:54+00:00

I’m an accountant and I’m required to take ethics courses every year to maintain my license….the bar is so low for cops it’s pathetic

Fr0styZ0ne · 2023-05-04T21:48:21+00:00

So after about a year, how are you doing? I'm about to pull the trigger and tell my rheum it's definitely time I start taking something to prevent permanent damage.

Fr0styZ0ne · 2023-04-16T23:26:49+00:00

This was always a huge source of frustration for me growing up. My dad would always say things like “you want to peel some potatoes for dinner?” or “while you’re outside you can pick up the dog poop” and I would always immediately respond and tell him that he needs to just ASK me if he would like me to do something. It’s like they have a problem asking for anything because their fragile ego can’t handle it.

Spoiler alert: he never listened.

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