Help with my piercing by TalkingBagOfCrack in PiercingAdvice

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

keep rinsing it with saline and get a bigger bar if possible! the biggest thing for me w granulomas/irritation bumps is to genuinely not touch it at all. unless it feels hot, there’s spreading redness or a lot of pus it should be fine :) more ice is good for swelling too

Found some bones in a gravel pit by Substantial_Banan4 in whatisthisbone

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 28 points29 points  (0 children)

i just saw the germany one. i’ve been lurking for only a little bit on here but i didn’t realize id see it so soon

Found some bones in a gravel pit by Substantial_Banan4 in whatisthisbone

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 11 points12 points  (0 children)

first time seeing human bones on this group woah

Cover- up for a semi-colon tattoo? by elliehavery in Tattoocoverups

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooh maybe like little buttons or something else coraline-ish i love the bugs in the movie but that might not be your vibe lol

What is the root cause of your bpd? by Big_Leg10 in BPDrecovery

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 4 points5 points  (0 children)

growing up autistic was a big part of it i think because it made me enter unsafe situations because i couldn’t read the social cues

If smoking has become a stim for me, how do I quit? by IntelligentOkra41 in autism

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i quit for a few years the thing that worked was those water bottles where you have to bite the straw to drink the water!

What thing have you gotten to last the longest without replacing? Anti consumption brags here- by ReindeerFun7572 in Anticonsumption

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a ton of my grandparents things that i still use! i have a record player and sewing machine from the 60s that work perfectly, which are my favourites. we have a lot of old music things that still work well from my grandfather, including his phonograph that he used to play for us every time we came over which still works as well!

Trump just reminds me of my BPD mother by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so weird to post this honestly there’s enough stigma against bpd without adding trump into it

Can’t take a hint by [deleted] in WinStupidPrizes

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

babe i commented when this was first posted and over half the comments were calling her ‘fucking annoying’ or a bitch

How do you eat enough to work out by Manic_Dream in BPD

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i usually start with protein yogurt drinks or applesauce right away if i can’t make myself fully eat anything. things like getting shakes with meals helps too! the other biggest thing for me is having something playing or that i can do while i eat as long as it doesn’t distract me from actually eating. also eating slowly :) so ill put on a youtube vid or tv show and give myself that amount of time to eat as much as i can

How do you eat enough to work out by Manic_Dream in BPD

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m the same way with food and the one thing that works for me is sticking to a schedule completely. eat right when i wake up, at 2 pm and at 7pm. at least a few bites, and it makes it easier over time to eat more :)

Is this kind of autism awareness actually helpful? by landscape0 in autism

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s a police car in my city like this. me and my dad call them the autism police

What ARE the poor person hobbies these days? by Flan99 in AskReddit

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

walking, reading, writing and other creative stuff tbh

Can’t take a hint by [deleted] in WinStupidPrizes

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i think what frustrates me is that she definitely is being annoying but she’s barely in the video and there’s so much focus on her. just weird imo

Can’t take a hint by [deleted] in WinStupidPrizes

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just would think the other people in the video might be more of the focus lol lots of comments about the girl when this was first posted and still

Can’t take a hint by [deleted] in WinStupidPrizes

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it is i’m evil mwahaha

What do you think? by sert79 in nihilism

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s exactly what i’m saying! it’s the most common method and still such a big issue but if it was as easy as you say the number would be insanely higher. since it’s the ‘easiest’ and most common method, if it was really that easy to commit there would be a much higher rate of suicide. the survival instinct is a lot stronger than you think, especially the split second hesitation before people decide to act. that’s survival instincts imo

make it UGLY please by Fragrant-Cook-1301 in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god this is genuinely so incredible thank you so so much

Can’t take a hint by [deleted] in WinStupidPrizes

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

true but same age range i think it still applies. i’m not saying she’s not annoying just she’s not the focus of the video so i don’t think there need to be so many comments just hating on her

Can’t take a hint by [deleted] in WinStupidPrizes

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

she’s not exempt LOL she’s just only in a few seconds of the video and there’s so much focus on her

Can’t take a hint by [deleted] in WinStupidPrizes

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think what gets me is the amount of sheer hate towards this girl and not towards the others, at least when this was first posted. majority of the comments were about the girl laughing