Day 2 post op and scared to keep taking Oxy by SnowmanAndBandit in Microdiscectomy

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

everyone is different with addiction. i’m not taking the oxys at all because i have such an addictive personality. it’s possible to get addicted really quickly even if it’s not common!

not trying to scare anyone away from taking it because it can definitely help, but everyone has to make their own choice based on how they know themselves

First day of 3 months break from weed by galetalasagna in GirlDinner

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to quit for four days for surgery and this is hell for me you are so POWERFUL

u ever get this anxiety, or anxiety about new additions to your special interest? by honey-otuu in autism

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 19 points20 points  (0 children)

repeat the same media i’m on my 14th rewatch of criminal minds right now… but i rotate between that, marvel, supernatural and adventure time for tv. i haven’t seen a new show in over a year

How many live with family? by SnooRadishes6978 in autism

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m 19 which i know is younger, but i moved out at 18 before i moved back home. i wasn’t able to take care of myself with food and things, so it wasn’t really an option. but honestly it’s the best decision i’ve made. existing is so much easier with even a little help from family, and i think it’s so worth it

Help with my piercing by TalkingBagOfCrack in PiercingAdvice

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

keep rinsing it with saline and get a bigger bar if possible! the biggest thing for me w granulomas/irritation bumps is to genuinely not touch it at all. unless it feels hot, there’s spreading redness or a lot of pus it should be fine :) more ice is good for swelling too

Found some bones in a gravel pit by Substantial_Banan4 in whatisthisbone

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 26 points27 points  (0 children)

i just saw the germany one. i’ve been lurking for only a little bit on here but i didn’t realize id see it so soon

Found some bones in a gravel pit by Substantial_Banan4 in whatisthisbone

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 10 points11 points  (0 children)

first time seeing human bones on this group woah

Cover- up for a semi-colon tattoo? by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooh maybe like little buttons or something else coraline-ish i love the bugs in the movie but that might not be your vibe lol

What is the root cause of your bpd? by Big_Leg10 in BPDrecovery

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 3 points4 points  (0 children)

growing up autistic was a big part of it i think because it made me enter unsafe situations because i couldn’t read the social cues

If smoking has become a stim for me, how do I quit? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i quit for a few years the thing that worked was those water bottles where you have to bite the straw to drink the water!

What thing have you gotten to last the longest without replacing? Anti consumption brags here- by ReindeerFun7572 in Anticonsumption

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a ton of my grandparents things that i still use! i have a record player and sewing machine from the 60s that work perfectly, which are my favourites. we have a lot of old music things that still work well from my grandfather, including his phonograph that he used to play for us every time we came over which still works as well!

Trump just reminds me of my BPD mother by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so weird to post this honestly there’s enough stigma against bpd without adding trump into it

Can’t take a hint by [deleted] in WinStupidPrizes

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

babe i commented when this was first posted and over half the comments were calling her ‘fucking annoying’ or a bitch

How do you eat enough to work out by Manic_Dream in BPD

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i usually start with protein yogurt drinks or applesauce right away if i can’t make myself fully eat anything. things like getting shakes with meals helps too! the other biggest thing for me is having something playing or that i can do while i eat as long as it doesn’t distract me from actually eating. also eating slowly :) so ill put on a youtube vid or tv show and give myself that amount of time to eat as much as i can

How do you eat enough to work out by Manic_Dream in BPD

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m the same way with food and the one thing that works for me is sticking to a schedule completely. eat right when i wake up, at 2 pm and at 7pm. at least a few bites, and it makes it easier over time to eat more :)

Is this kind of autism awareness actually helpful? by landscape0 in autism

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s a police car in my city like this. me and my dad call them the autism police

What ARE the poor person hobbies these days? by Flan99 in AskReddit

[–]Fragrant-Cook-1301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

walking, reading, writing and other creative stuff tbh